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Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by nefertitiram: 11:32am On May 17, 2016 |
asikiye: No valid reason for overstaying. If you have to overstay, you apply for an extension at least 45 days before your stay expires. Pending the outcome of the approval, you will be able to stay without being a persona non grata. Most times it takes a while to hear back from them, so by the time you get a response you may have already been back home. As long as you have applied and paid for the extension, this gives you the liberty. Not just sitting down and doing nothing 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by MomSomyy: 11:50am On May 17, 2016 |
nefertitiram: Thank you @Nefertitiram we learn everyday yeah? Just learnt another one today. But a quick question within the two stated above by you, which holds very strong grounds in terms of strong marital ties? |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by Nobody: 11:59am On May 17, 2016 |
MomSomyy:no marriage hold more tie than the other, once the marriage is recognised marriage is marriage under the law, common law is received English law and SOGA so that's not customary law |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by MomSomyy: 12:14pm On May 17, 2016 |
LadyGuinivere: Hello @LadyGuinivere hope you good. Thank you for your contribution. As regarding your no2) I know the first part of that question might come up why I stayed 6months and what I was doing for that long (that question was asked the last time & I said to birth my baby) And yes I attended it, was after the event I stayed back in the same state and had the child. Seriously stay for one yr? Because of what? God forbid if only u knew my kind of business. Forget that income to go suffer in America say what? |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by happytbaby: 12:39pm On May 17, 2016 |
If I am calculating right, you are saying you want to fly at 37 weeks. I don't think this is wise. It is risky. Varvara: |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by LadyGuinivere: 12:49pm On May 17, 2016 |
MomSomyy:Chloe is right . Nigerian customary marriage is not akin to either civil union or common law marriage. Common law marriage has no ceremony but the couple live together for a coupla years and are seen as married. Civil union is not recognized in some countries eg same sex marriages. Like somebody said, others is more appros. My question however is, why do u want to change your status in the space of one month? Your matter already has k leg now u want them to 'mark you bad' sef before u enter the exam hall.the whoever accessing your form and interview notes may not even give u an opportunity to explain the difference and just chalk it to fraudulent intentions #myopinion @Chloe Love a Lawyer! It is Legal ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by LadyGuinivere: 1:00pm On May 17, 2016 |
So in the search for answers.......see the posts below LadyGuinivere: LagosNIV: 7 Likes |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by Nobody: 1:17pm On May 17, 2016 |
LadyGuinivere: Lool, very essential and very legal, basically the type of marriage we practice in Nigeria na Double decker/ deck marriage most people aren't even aware |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by asikiye: 2:05pm On May 17, 2016 |
I don't remember stating that she "just sat down while doing nothing". So infer wisely before judging or commenting. I'm not up for nairaland fights too so if you reply this, i will just ignore you. Nobody made you a god over USA birthing issues so you don't know it all. nefertitiram: 9 Likes |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by asikiye: 2:07pm On May 17, 2016 |
Momsomyy, Please just re-apply, state your intentions and pray. They may just give you. If not, have your baby in Nigeria and try sometime in the future. It is well with you. MomSomyy: 4 Likes |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by happytbaby: 2:35pm On May 17, 2016 |
Hmmmm @ LadyG. I hope they wont turn me back when I appear and say am going to El Paso, my application had Atlanta although no be childbirth I collect visa for....I bin dey think sha....abeg someone i know just ended up with usd24k bill at Northside after 75% discount o. I cannot stay in ATl and be washing plates to pay medical bills. I always wanted to use that hospital but seriously I don't personally know anyone that has paid less than 18k there, small complications na gbege! No laugh me too much o. LadyGuinivere: 2 Likes |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by LadyGuinivere: 2:48pm On May 17, 2016 |
happytbaby:Laugh ke? Hmmm. No be confused all of us dey now with the new new style dem get? |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by TheLeakyTribe(f): 3:15pm On May 17, 2016 |
LadyGuinivere: Exactly but to be honest I feel like this present application should be more about straightening the K and bow Legs and being honest. Stating her intentions and status as it is. If she becomes successful based on it fine, if she doesn't at leat she'd have told her truth. If next year or in 2018 she gets pregnant again, upon application those details would help her build trust. Shout to my learned colleagues @chloe7 and I'm guessing you too LadyG 2 Likes |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by nefertitiram: 3:29pm On May 17, 2016 |
asikiye:I guess you took this the wrong way. No need to get all worked up and defensive. If your SIL had applied for the extension, she would not be in this situation. What I meant by sat there doing nothing is 'not applying for the extension', thinking if she explains about her child's situation, it would be overlooked. But apparently, it wasn't. And your initial post, you were silent on her extension application so it is easy to infer that she did not apply. It's a learning point, for anyone who comes to this thread searching for a way out of a situation. Even if you think it's irrelevant and ignore it, someone else will find it useful. So please yourself and ignore. 13 Likes |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by favoredgal: 3:29pm On May 17, 2016 |
chloe7: was surprised myself |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by simababe(f): 3:30pm On May 17, 2016 |
@all, pls has anybody collected PTA from first bank before n were u told to bring the hard copy later. I applied since but was told to bring my passport tomoro. No use me laugh ooo,i actually travelled to FCMB ijebu ode last week Tues, applied der but haven't been called yet. Going to newyork via air France this weekend, any mama going also shud let's hook up in other to gist jare. |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by simababe(f): 3:33pm On May 17, 2016 |
Oya @asikiye and @nef, hug urselves n kiss yasef. It's all for the betterment of all of us. P.S let's remember sugah in prayer, she lost her mum last week. May she rest in perfect peace. Amen. |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by nefertitiram: 3:36pm On May 17, 2016 |
MomSomyy: My sister, marriage is marriage o! Even without doing any formal or trad wedding. The fact that you have lived with a man/woman for a number of years, shared bills, shared bed, shared lives and memories, the law accepts it as a de-facto relationship.It is seen as common law marriage. wikipedia definitions: Civil Union: A civil union is a legal relationship between two people that provides legal protections to the couple only at the state level. A civil union is not a marriage, though. Civil unions do not provide federal protections, benefits, or responsibilities to couples, and a civil union may not be recognized by all state Common law marriage: Definition of Common Law Marriage. A common law marriage is one in which the couple, usually a man and woman, lives together for a period of time and holds themselves out to friends, family and the community as "being married," but never go through a formal ceremony or get a marriage license. De-facto relationship:A de facto relationship is a relationship that two people who are not married or related by family have as a couple living together on a 'genuine domestic basis'. It can exist between 2 people of the opposite sex, or between 2 people of the same sex. They are all acceptable. In your case, I will go for Common law marriage. Infact, if you check pm news or sun newspaper, this kind of marriage may go through divorce proceedings in a customary court (lawyers, correct me if I am wrong). 1 Like |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by Nobody: 3:39pm On May 17, 2016 |
favoredgal:God is good ![]() |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by Nobody: 3:53pm On May 17, 2016 |
nefertitiram:these terms you quoted are right but in Nigeria the marriage that is recognised is what I already stated before, you know different jurisdictions different laws, before a marriage can go into court for divorce it has to have been contracted, infact under legitimacy and legitimation any child born out of the three types of marriage I earlier mentioned is illegitimate and such a child can only be legitimated by the parents getting married legally and not customarily or acceptance by the biological father. Marriage in Nigeria has to be contracted na by force, you can't be living in the same house and assume to be married or enjoy legal rights, protection and obligations 3 Likes |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by nefertitiram: 4:05pm On May 17, 2016 |
chloe7: GBAM! Court arise! ![]() |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by nefertitiram: 4:05pm On May 17, 2016 |
simababe: What's my own? It is because I wasted my mb and finger power to analyse a situation. Nobody kukuma sent me ![]() Since I am not a god in these matters, a simple google search would have helped. For those who have stayed over 1 year in US, please see below: 11 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by TheLeakyTribe(f): 4:13pm On May 17, 2016 |
nefertitiram: I didn't even realise how stiff the penalty for overstaying is. Thanks for this. 2 Likes |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by nefertitiram: 4:18pm On May 17, 2016 |
TheLeakyTribe: You welcome I also didn't realise how lax it may be if you overstay for just a few days or a few weeks ![]() But I don't think as Nigerian's they will be lenient like that to us if we overstay for a few days, with this renewed fury they are exhibiting recently. Let's not just take our chances. 6 Likes |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by abbeykun: 4:19pm On May 17, 2016 |
Congrats on your smooth entry. Please how many weeks + days did you travel on Qatar? Were you able to make use of the stopover hotel at your stopover in Doha? How was the flight experience generally? Wishing you safe trip to your last stop and a safe delivery. Thanks. osat82: |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by Nobody: 4:20pm On May 17, 2016 |
nefertitiram:I thought it was the uk that had really stiff penalties for overstayers, America sef no carry last for the matter |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by cherie24(f): 4:22pm On May 17, 2016 |
:DHappytbaby darling... its me oo...I am still in Lome , I work here... I changed moniker becos my name entered black book... happytbaby: 1 Like |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by cherie24(f): 4:27pm On May 17, 2016 |
Lady G, Yessooo, Nwanne..Broad day light ike this, they called and revoked it...where i go carry lie put on top my head with 7months preggy...I learnt my lesson the bitter hard way...I am planning of reapplying soon... i pray it goes well LadyGuinivere: |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by nazstra: 4:54pm On May 17, 2016 |
[quote author=Abefeokin post=44957966] What do you mean scattered? Well those are the bills u can actually pay b4 delivery. And I only paid for the 3 u mentioned, waiting for PD's Hi, i'm new here. But i need info on jps. Seeing ur post is recent i decided to ask you directly. Im due by october. And im yet to get both hospital and dr correspondence. Dont know if you can assist me wit an e mail address and/or phone no. To contact them with. A dr's contact too. I sent you a pm, just in case u prefer to send it privately. Thanks a mil. I appreciate |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by nefertitiram: 5:06pm On May 17, 2016 |
cherie24: Ohhhh! I remembered you, 2014 yer? Howdy! How's your LO? |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by joltautos: 5:09pm On May 17, 2016 |
hello mamma good work |
Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by emjayfay(f): 5:09pm On May 17, 2016 |
Section42(2) of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, 1999 constitution under the heading rights of inheritance, this states that – No citizen of Nigeria shall be subject to any disability or deprivation merely by reason of the circumstances of his or birth. The above section of the law has abolished illegitimacy in Nigeria. No child can be deemed to be illegitimate. And in cases whereby the father refuses to acknowledge the child for the purposes of inheritance, DNA testing can come to the rescue... chloe7: |
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