diva90:


You are entitled to your opinion. As for me, that my opinion and I stick to it! In the eyes of God, men and woman are equal and no one has an upper hand when it comes to adultery. If a man can willingly do it, a woman can too. In her case, can't completely blame her

PreciousBro:


lol In the eyes of God you say ? Did you carve your line for tit for tat' from a God's eye too

Madam this would have been an interesting discus if only i liked unintelligent women.

What your perception is on equality is quite hollow,because no two things/humans can obtain equality in its entirety. Science proves this,Religion already ascribe headship to man,even in equality lol smh Anyways,Judge your response on this matter on goodness afterall you called God lol. Is your advice of good?

From your standpoint,cheating is good yea ? Yet you seem to need an excuse for it.

diva90:


Another educated illiterate on the loose! Where in any of my statements did I ever say that it is right to cheat? You are evidently on the man's side and indirectly saying that men have an upper hand when it comes to cheating and I'm telling you that this is not so!
I really don't have your time, so just run along! It's not every comment u see that u reply to

diva90:

Another educated illiterate on the loose! Where in any of my statements did I ever say that it is right to cheat? You are evidently on the man's side and indirectly saying that men have an upper hand when it comes to cheating and I'm telling you that this is not so!
I really don't have your time, so just run along! It's not every comment u see that u reply to

PresVA:
Marriage is now do me, I do you. . Smh...

You're no different from your husband. .

nwaanambra1:
seek for divorce - its so glaring that u guys are already divorced.

dont cheat while u r still in his house.


after your separation then you can go have your flings. after having various men, you may discover then that your husband whom you divorced was actually way better than you can ever imagine.

i hope then both of you can still rebuild your relationship.


fuknig tired of all this marriage complains allover the place! i think its times government really consider making marriages renewable after a term of 5 years!

jollymolly:


It is not do me , I do you, if not I would have done that over a year ago. He pushed me to a point where I decided to talk to my ex since he has that listening ear and cos we remain mutual friends after I got married. He is somehow separated with the wife cos the lady doesn't want to live in Nigeria and he doesn't want to leave his work and join them.My husband is so insensitive after I caught him that I feel he is even angry with me for catching him.When I bring up a discussion, he just talk like am forcing him to and face his laptop or phone. From a far you will think that I am the one that cheated and am trying to make things right with him.Does he deserve to be cheated on? Absolutely. My emotions is so messed up that at times I wake up and I am willing to cheat on him in a heartbeat, just that my conscience keep questioning me.

PreciousBro:


You are a moronic timid sh!t eating fly, calling me an illiterate before you is prohibited. Your postulations so far has put you on the man's opposition since you subliminally suggested cheating as a reason to obtain her emotional comfort and had the temerity to include God in your wolly headed premise yet you turn around to exonerate your self when i flawed your logically bereft logic.

Now you want to shift post calling me a chauvenist lol

jollymolly:


It is not do me , I do you, if not I would have done that over a year ago. He pushed me to a point where I decided to talk to my ex since he has that listening ear and cos we remain mutual friends after I got married. He is somehow separated with the wife cos the lady doesn't want to live in Nigeria and he doesn't want to leave his work and join them.My husband is so insensitive after I caught him that I feel he is even angry with me for catching him.When I bring up a discussion, he just talk like am forcing him to and face his laptop or phone. From a far you will think that I am the one that cheated and am trying to make things right with him.Does he deserve to be cheated on? Absolutely. My emotions is so messed up that at times I wake up and I am willing to cheat on him in a heartbeat, just that my conscience keep questioning me.

treasuredkids:
u were doing so well with ur argument b4 u called her a moronic shit. D insult has watered down ur points na.

jollymolly:


He pushed me to a point where I decided to talk to my ex since he has that listening ear and cos we remain mutual friends after I got married.

My husband is so insensitive after I caught him that I feel he is even angry with me for catching him.When I bring up a discussion, he just talk like am forcing him to and face his laptop or phone. From a far you will think that I am the one that cheated and am trying to make things right with him.Does he deserve to be cheated on? Absolutely. My emotions is so messed up that at times I wake up and I am willing to cheat on him in a heartbeat, just that my conscience keep questioning me.

jollymolly:


It is not do me , I do you, if not I would have done that over a year ago. He pushed me to a point where I decided to talk to my ex since he has that listening ear and cos we remain mutual friends after I got married. He is somehow separated with the wife cos the lady doesn't want to live in Nigeria and he doesn't want to leave his work and join them.My husband is so insensitive after I caught him that I feel he is even angry with me for catching him.When I bring up a discussion, he just talk like am forcing him to and face his laptop or phone. From a far you will think that I am the one that cheated and am trying to make things right with him.Does he deserve to be cheated on? Absolutely. My emotions is so messed up that at times I wake up and I am willing to cheat on him in a heartbeat, just that my conscience keep questioning me.

Kimoni:


And this is exactly why I would advise you not to cheat on him - your conscience. Not because your husband doesn't deserve it, he deserves it and much more but this is not about your husband. This is about you, your child and the future.

There is a reason why your conscience is questioning you, because it is not right and will not end well for you. Your friend is doing it and getting away with it presently does not automatically mean you will also do it and get away with it. "Anything that does not proceed from faith is sin". Don't let the actions of someone else, even your husband change your value system. I reckon you were trained with certain values, stick to those values and train your child with the same values. The end result will brings true joy to you.

Find other legitimate ways to make you happy. There are so many things in life that can make us happy, find yours and focus on them; stop the fixation on your husband and his attitude, he is not worth it. I reckon it won't be easy but at the end of the day, you would have your intergrity intact.

mizzochocinco:
okay so the husband was thinking about his wife and their marriage when he cheated since women are so selfish and self-centred?

PreciousBro:


You are a moronic timid sh!t eating fly, calling me an illiterate before you is prohibited. Your postulations so far has put you on the man's opposition since you subliminally suggested cheating as a reason to obtain her emotional comfort and had the temerity to include God in your wolly headed premise yet you turn around to exonerate your self when i flawed your logically bereft logic.

Now you want to shift post calling me a chauvenist lol

treasuredkids:
Calm down guy quote author=PreciousBro post=45730899]

Look here, You dont need us to justify your intending cheating tendencies. You are struggling to accrue to your self the excuse to cheat back on yout man. If your marriage status is not on the background of do-me i do-you then why create such a misleading thread centered on revenge ?

This thread harbors the abhorrence of feminism which is to lose the uniqueness of womanhood by discarding the virtue of chastity and encouraging waywardness. You should be ashamed of your self trailing the misdeeds of man and losing every virtue in self in the same process.

The same question i asked that moroñic dingbat of a useless creature called diva90, which is, "if you admit cheating is bad, why proffer it as a solution to ease the trauma of another bad, in the same vain this ogogoro drinking she-lizard said she didnt opine cheating is good. Dafties!!!

richyblink1:


Assuming you read my post to comprehend and not to attack me, you would have noticed my points were in paragraphs. The hubby cheating has nothing to do with women being selfish. Was addressing the aspect of the hubby not buying her stuffs during celebrations.

mizzochocinco:
yes i read and understood your rubbish of a post. The OP already said she buys him gifts whenever she can afford to do so but you continued to ask mumu questions. By his actions he is clearly the one who is selfish and self-centred but goats like you will defend such rubbish and put the blame on the woman! He cheated he should be the one making an effort to mend the relationship, but then again this world is full of sorry excuses of men like you who believe that if he makes a mess she should be ready to clean it up for him!

jollymolly:

Thanks, your words really brought tears to eyes.

diva90:


I Have seen many fools on nairaland but you are evidently the BIGGEST FOOL that I have come across. Refer back to your first response that you sent me, you CLEARLY called me an unintelligent woman for airing MY OPINION! I had to analyze your daft statement before I came up to the conclusion that you are OBVIOUSLY an uneducated illiterate and I don't take that back. It's okay for you to run your mouth like an insecure gay but other can't? I laugh at your silly mindset! However, I don't blame you, I blame your unfortunate mother for giving birth to a nuisance like you. Last time I checked people are entitled to their opinions and if you don't agree...that's fine, calmly walk the f*ck past it! Don't come here looking for a fight like a jobless slowpoke which I have no doubts that you really are!

diva90:


It is your MOTHER that is a moronific useless creature! So shall it be for all the females in your entire generation including your unborn daughters. All of them in your lineage shall be as useless as yourself. Watch and see all this unfold. If you love your worthless life... Do not try me! I feel sorry for the woman that is currently affiliated to you. You evidently have no respect for yourself and common sense, I can bet a million on your head that you are a promiscuous man. Why are you Hiding behind your phone typing nonsense like a small boy?? Abeg receive sense jare! Idiot of the highest order. Next time do not call my name in any post just to justify your senseless arguments that hold no water. You should go and EDUCATE yourself and stop acting primitive and so backward in a world that is so advanced .

PreciousBro:


Again, i dont think i need to respond to this rubbish, you are obviously an unlettered morôn,one who specialises in catching up to men just to prove a point and loosing her self worth.

The very essence of your desirability is what you'd foôlishly throw away to equal men in the society and be miserable. Your generations are queued on a platform of mental shallowness and no principles.

Pray tell mr, what defines you, what do you stand for ? who married you ? lolzz

Thorn bushes do not grow fruits neither do figs bear briar,how on earth do i expect sense from a ghetto hollow headed prîck swallowing fûcker like you who would'nt hesitate to sample the crowd in retaliation.

Your mother mothered you well lol we can see clearly the outcome of her design on you. Generations of loose slûts in the making.