lovat:
You are not far from the truth

I saw Kashybaby viewing because of the word SEX

StillBrandnew:
This is going out to guys out there and also to ladies who think sex is a commodity to be used as a bargaining chip in marriage or relationships.

Truth be told, premarital sex should be frowned at and more so when it's done irresponsibly. I mean, there are so many contagious diseases out there and you don't want to become the next STD patient to be treated at a nearby clinic. It's embarrassing enough to be engaging in an unholy affair talk more of getting treated for an STD.

That being said, my advice is going out to the bachelors and spinsters out there and not young adults and undergraduates who are still trying to find their path.

My brothers and sisters. Pre-marital sex is good when you do it right especially with someone who is serious about having a future with you.

My reason for saying this is because, that's the only way you two can test your sexual compatibility.
It also helps you bond with your partner. In any case, it was only in the olden days people use sex only as a means of reproduction and back then I must say they had lots of sex going by the number of children they used to have.

However, science has changed all that. Ladies now know their safe period and there are several other contraceptive means besides using and condom and pulling out.

Finally, my message to the ladies out there who are bent on cheating their potential spouse even from the start of a relationship, I have this to say.

We are now wiser.

Till I come your way again.

I'm StillBrandNew and I blog at www.YBNR..com.

Have a nice day.

you're High abi??

KashyBaby:



Lol....come on, who doesnt love sex?

obiorathesubtle:
you're High abi??

Amplitron:
It is good to try things out before you eventually commit to it. We must however know that as adults all actions carry responsibilities. There is a possibility of std, pregnancy, etc. I know a lady who believed the love between her and her boyfriend was strong enough to weather any storm. One day she tested him by saying she was pregnant. They guy changed completely that same day going from words like "you are mine forever" to "let's find a solution to this first. Then we can take things slowly". She eventually received sense and the relationship died a natural death. It was all hinged on physical attraction and fantasies. Adult reality set in and they quickly understood things.

PunkyV:
Duh! The rest of the world knew that since Y2K Welcome to this century

StillBrandnew:


I could explain further but then maybe I'll save it for another day.

The term marriage isn't the wedding ceremony some people wait for before sealing it up with their first sex.

The moment a guy tell you his intentions and shows his seriousness about marrying you by meeting your parents. You have started the journey already.

He now formalises all that by proposing and giving you a ring.

From that moment on, you guys are as good as being married.

You get?

StillBrandnew:


You are right and that's why I said bachelors and spinsters because at that point your priorities are set. You are open to starting a life with someone as long as you guys are compatible for each other.



I was still a teenager in Y2K... Now that I'm a grown man, I can only preach the gospel.

obiorathesubtle:
you still have me in the same circle.. But let's agree to disagree..

DesChyko:


Everyone born in January don't love sex

KashyBaby:




Lol....come on, who doesnt love sex?

lovat:
I'm a monk so sex is not my thingy

KashyBaby:






can we talk privately, I wanna ask u something...

DesChyko:
And if the 'sex' doesn't work out at that moment, instead of both of you looking for a solution together, the 'faulty' person will be left alone to look for a solution to his/her problem right? So much for being serious about each other.

Sex before marriage tests your faith in your Creator. If you trust him to be in control of your destiny, you wouldn't need to panic over his choices for you.

I think it's just not proper. The truth must be said even if we don't follow it

Amplitron:
It is good to try things out before you eventually commit to it. We must however know that as adults all actions carry responsibilities. There is a possibility of std, pregnancy, etc. I know a lady who believed the love between her and her boyfriend was strong enough to weather any storm. One day she tested him by saying she was pregnant. They guy changed completely that same day going from words like "you are mine forever" to "let's find a solution to this first. Then we can take things slowly". She eventually received sense and the relationship died a natural death. It was all hinged on physical attraction and fantasies. Adult reality set in and they quickly understood things.

StillBrandnew:


I could explain further but then maybe I'll save it for another day.

The term marriage isn't the wedding ceremony some people wait for before sealing it up with their first sex.

The moment a guy tells you his intentions and shows his seriousness about marrying you by meeting your parents. You have started the journey already.

He now formalises all that by proposing and giving you a ring.

From that moment on, you guys are as good as being married.

You get?

PunkyV:


Amen!

Oliviaarims:


Back from sabbatical?

PunkyV:


Yes, dear Where have you been? Havent seen you much lately.