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Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by PunkyV(f): 9:05am On May 18, 2016 |
Oliviaarims: Oh, that's wonderful! Consciousness is good. Anyway, nice to see you around & thank you for that lovely welcome |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by Lovelynature(m): 9:12am On May 18, 2016 |
obiorathesubtle:Nawa for that guy o. Speaking from both sides of his mouth 1 Like |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by Nobody: 9:14am On May 18, 2016 |
Lovelynature:Yes, I try to see things from different perspectives. |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by Nobody: 9:17am On May 18, 2016 |
PunkyV: . |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by elveco: 10:08am On May 18, 2016 |
Ecc. 12:13-14 |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by anthney87: 10:54am On May 18, 2016 |
Op u re right. very right having sex before marriage to a partner you re serious with is good. Before I got married I had a girl hu was a devout Christian of the pentecostal ministry. she told me no sex bfor marriage nd I agreed. said she has never done it before and was a V but she can't tell because she used to be very active in sport and she heard active sport and exercise can rupture the Hymen. I was forbidden to finger and only allowed boobs. one day we went partying and she managed to get drunk a bit thanks to my incessant try mor darling. we got home cos she had to sleep overnit since she can't go home and being a bit tipsy myself I had the urge. I cud not let this opportunity pass by since we were serious in d affair. I had to dive down to king Solomon mines to look for diamonds only to get cobalt. my dear virgin love was wide and large that all through the sex she did not scream. my p*NIS was going in and out without restriction. no blood no pain. I was devastated. when she became sober she angry saying I defield her and I was just looking at her helplessly. I was heartbroken and I had to test test my theory again that morning if maybe the little drink changed my thinking only to wake up to the same realization that that place was a hell hole. my 4" p*NIS was no match for the 6" goalpost. I have to call of the relationship. IG that deed had not occur how wud I have felt after marriage knowing I can't satisfy her in bed? So pls guys don't let any gal lie to u on such issues. |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by Nobody: 11:18am On May 18, 2016 |
anthney87:Kudos for sharing your story. Thousands of guys who have gone through similar experiences abound but the nay sayers on this forum chose to focus on something else. |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by KOYINSTEL(f): 11:51am On May 18, 2016 |
I guess there is no serious Christian in this thread, most of you are merely church or mosque goers,how can something that God himself commanded be a scam?? I guess u all now know more than God who is the creator of sex. So many stupid people on this thread nd you all glory in ur stupidity, continue and flourish in it oo when God start to pick u guys up one by one nd begin to punish u guys,u will smell ur yansh without bending down nobody forces u to give ur gf money, moreover God is not against that but God is clearly against premarital sex |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by Nobody: 12:01pm On May 18, 2016 |
KOYINSTEL: You can as well state your opinion without cursing. Cursing unjustly like you just did is something I'm sure God is against. If you read through the thread properly, you would see where I stated that a guy who meets your parents and goes as far as proposing to you is as good as being married to you. In such instances there is nothing stopping you from enjoying sex together. That I am very sure God is not against. Please let's be civil in the way we discuss issues because what you say goes a long way in showing the kind of person you are. |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by KOYINSTEL(f): 12:25pm On May 18, 2016 |
StillBrandnew: that wasn't a curse,it's jst what u should expect from being intentionally disobedient,jst like saying sinners will be punished, would u call that a curse? I was only trying to make u understand that there is punishment for disobedience na do I didn't mean it "literarily". the fact that a guy meets ur parents or proposes to you doesn't make u married, it only means u guys are engaged. marriage is still a few steps more than that. sex is not for the engaged but it is for the married. That's according to God's plan. got that? |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by Nobody: 12:46pm On May 18, 2016 |
KOYINSTEL: I don't want to bring religion to this discussion because there are so many things religion tells us not to do that makes it impossible not to sin. Scientifically, it's virtually impossible for a matured person to abstain from sex for a very long time and even at that, most people who do actually masturbate to relieve themselves of sexual tension. Except maybe we are talking about a Monk or Nun here so now tell me how do you cope without sex when marriage is not coming forth. Please don't tell me God says this or that because God won't come and relieve you of Konji when it comes knocking. |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by Silumi(f): 12:46pm On May 18, 2016 |
I still cant find d wisdom in this post. Good luck bearing d consequences of ur actions hehehe 1 Like |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by Nobody: 12:52pm On May 18, 2016 |
Silumi: You can as well give in to one of those girlfriends from hell and come back here to share your experience with us. At least we can gain some wisdom from that. Deal or no deal . |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by KOYINSTEL(f): 1:06pm On May 18, 2016 |
StillBrandnew: u don't want to bring religion into this but it's all about God because even science was created by God. God will not tell us to do what is impossible. m not trying to be a preacher here but what is wrong is wrong ,if u think u cannot cope with abstinence from sex b4 marriage, then u should be able to cope with the consequences and with the heat of hell pls remember that I'm not cursing any1,m only saying d truth it's may be very difficult to abstain from sex b4 marriage, Bt with the help of God, it's very possible and it will be made easy like I said, m not hear to form miss preacher, I just want to let u know that u creating this kind of topic is very bad nd it's not good to mislead people who are determined to control themselves simply because u lack self control. I pray that "kongi" will not put u in trouble. nd if u want to continue in fornication,don't try to convince people into getting in trouble with God. u should bear d consequences alone let me also tell u that it is not "religion" that says u should abstain from premarital sex,rather,it is "God". The earlier u understand that, the better for u 1 Like |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by Silumi(f): 1:15pm On May 18, 2016 |
StillBrandnew:Take a chill pill .. We re on d same page!!! |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by Walexsammy(m): 1:23pm On May 18, 2016 |
wordbank:U just Is it all |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by Nobody: 3:39pm On May 18, 2016 |
KOYINSTEL: This is where you got me LoLLing. Now I'm wondering if you're still a teenager or an adolescent because I find it hard to believe a grown up person still thinks the way you do. No pun intended. 2 Likes |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by KOYINSTEL(f): 3:43pm On May 18, 2016 |
StillBrandnew: I'd rather think like a kid and do what is right than think like an "adult" and behave like u |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by Stanleyafam(m): 3:56pm On May 18, 2016 |
The issue is nt sex sef..the issue is hw difficult it is for a guy to get married in dis economy. 2 Likes |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by Nobody: 4:23pm On May 18, 2016 |
Stanleyafam: If you're talking about the marriage ceremony, then that shouldn't be a problem. Just find a woman you love and do the family introduction. You can then take your time to save and plan ahead for a low budget wedding ceremony. An expensive wedding isn't a guarantee to a happy marriage. |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by xtervaganza(m): 5:08pm On May 18, 2016 |
In 2016 only dumb guys will date a girl and not kpansh her |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by Alokendra(m): 5:38pm On May 18, 2016 |
No premarital sex, No premarital spending. Nobody gets hurt 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by Nobody: 5:41pm On May 18, 2016 |
Alokendra: I like your concept. |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by SUPERPACK: 5:42pm On May 18, 2016 |
Sex,sex,sex,sex. marriage is just more than sex, Love should take 90 percent, while sex should be 10 percent, I dont mind even going into a sexless marriage or relationship provided my partner makes me happy, it takes just a happy mind to make a marriage last forever. 2 Likes |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by Nobody: 5:49pm On May 18, 2016 |
SUPERPACK:Whatever rocks your boat. At least you need sex to procreate even if you and your partner are the most frigid couple on earth. |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by SUPERPACK: 5:57pm On May 18, 2016 |
StillBrandnew:In the age of science we no more need sex to procreate, IVF can help us with that. |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by Nobody: 6:00pm On May 18, 2016 |
SUPERPACK:Your case is even worse than I thought. 1 Like |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by SUPERPACK: 6:51pm On May 18, 2016 |
StillBrandnew:who cares, to ur tent oh israel |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by Nobody: 6:52am On May 19, 2016 |
SUPERPACK:The fact that some people like the initial post tells me something. |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by udatso: 11:43am On May 20, 2016 |
KOYINSTEL:Your hypocrisy knows no bound. Did God permit you to watch porn? Why did you drop your number here https://www.nairaland.com/2778491/lets-share-porn-videos-whatsapp/16#45782885 She was actually begging to be added 1 Share
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Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by Nobody: 12:40pm On May 20, 2016 |
udatso:Holy Molly. |
Re: "No Sex Before Marriage" Is A Scam, Don't Fall For It. by slyrone(m): 12:57pm On May 20, 2016 |
KashyBaby:this kashybaby dey always dey any thread wey dem mention sex. chai na so you like d tin reach |
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