Dog that will get lost will not hear the hunter's whistle. Don't tell anyone not to make a mistake, let them make it and learn the hard way.

Op, go and marry your fiancee.

It's obvious that's what you want, coming to say she has seen the thread shows it. Follow your heart biko.

InformedLola:
Dog that will get lost will not hear the hunter's whistle. Don't tell anyone not to make a mistake, let them make it and learn the hard way.

Op, go and marry your fiancee.

It's obvious that's what you want, coming to say she has seen the thread shows it. Follow your heart biko.

she knows my moniker, she sent a message that she's going through the thread.

andymola:


she knows my moniker, she sent a message that she's going through the thread.

Since she's going through the thread, it would be interesting to know her reaction.

Marriage is sweet when one marries the right partner.

TV01:

Abi? Can you imagine - next level divine intervention will be to send an angel to konk his head and give him new glasses .

How far na? Got my Pali


TV

^{Meanwhile, were is Kuylie/Sambarry?}

Yay
Congrats
Well done

andymola:


she knows my moniker, she sent a message that she's going through the thread.

Hmmmmmmmmm
At least you can never say that you were not advised.

From reading through this thread, I know op will still go on and maybe a day to the wedding, he will come back and ask us if he should Marry her as she doesn't seem like the right person.
Op, a lady who is this confused will run it in your face years from now, my elder cousin as an example. She's regretting big time today
As for the confused op's fiancee, please don't be wicked, live life so as to have a good story to tell . Keeping every man on Bay is not going to make you less confused, rather you'll make a mistake. please choose one you major his strength and minor his weakness. Lemme ask, have you told others you are engaged? Do you like their prospects? And finally, if you no longer love the op please leave him so as to stay Happy.

mysticgal:
From reading through this thread, I know op will still go on and maybe a day to the wedding, he will come back and ask us if he should Marry her as she doesn't seem like the right person.
Op, a lady who is this confused will run it in your face years from now, my elder cousin as an example. She's regretting big time today
As for the confused op's fiancee, please don't be wicked, live life so as to have a good story to tell . Keeping every man on Bay is not going to make you less confused, rather you'll make a mistake. please choose one you major his strength and minor his weakness. Lemme ask, have you told others you are engaged? Do you like their prospects? And finally, if you no longer love the op please leave him so as to stay Happy.

Thank u very much sister. Bringing it here has really helped me.

andymola:
Your advice will really save a brother. I'm in a relationship that's causing me pains right now. My woman accepted to marry me. We had done our introduction and have been working towards our marriage later this year. Last month, her attitude changed. She started getting aggressive. I pleaded she tell me what's wrong but she refused. I later found out she was communicating deeply with a certain man who wants to marry her. They communicate morning, afternoon and night. If she visits me, she always puts her phone in silent or sometimes puts it off. In all, she never told him she was in a relationship. This caused us so many troubles. I decided I back off since she's considering another man. She then promised to stop all forms of communication with him.
Always, she complains of been confused cos too many people are asking for her hand in marriage. Since Sunday, she's been very aggressive, she gets so angry anytime I complain abt how men call her. Anything I say now she gets angry. We were speaking on phone this night and she mentioned abt been confused again. That she doesn't want to make a mistake abt life partner. That three men are seriously disturbing her for marriage. I asked her why put other men on the line when she has accepted to marry me and I had done her introduction, she got angry and said she's a woman and she's allowed to entertain other men and asked me to cut the phone.
I'm really confused right now and need your advice. I'm typing with a phone.

if you marry that lady,you will never enjoy that marriage...she has probably accepted the other guy too but don't know how to break it to you,that is what is making her more aggressive towards you....A broken relationship is far better than a broken marriage..

Olami90:

Her actions defines women (bunch of confused idiots).

You know, I marvel when I see this kind of reckless comment. I marvel because I wonder if people who make these kind of comments remember that they have mothers.

When you say women are a bunch of confused idiots, do you also realise that you include your female relatives in these kinds of dishonourable and misguided generalisations?