halfricanadian:
Put God first
Date with a brave heart and expect nothing

And open ur heart to everything d good nd d bad
Then u can go in with no fear

Eliba:
thank you MA, God bless you.

vizkiz:
Op sounds like a teenager...well I hope you are well above 18 because if you are not, I will advice you to stay back and do nothing.

Guys are running around seeking for who to devour (guilty) but I will advice you like I will my sister... Calm the furck down and go read your books. Dick is sweet but it will do a Lotta damage to you (we have so many examples you can learn from on nairaland) that's rude sha, I'm 20

vizkiz:


Rude? Lol...

vicstar:
just minding ma biz

Unique04:
Take ur time, don't rush into anything. It's always fun and rosy at the beginning, but once it gets deeper, u might get hurt. When ur ready to date, u won't need any body's advice. My younger sister is also 20 and she isn't worried about getting a boyfriend. Face ur studies.

Kentura:
hmm... V and no bf at 20... if na true, you try o... better make you complete your hardwork and marry a V. leave these boys alone

taurus25:
you shouldnt be in a rush to get into a relationship just because your friends are doing it. Just enjoy your life and build your future, if a guy you like comes along the line, i want to believe you'ld be matured enough to do whats right.

Eliba:
lol . I'm not after boys here, I'm just seeking for advice

Eliba:
pls say something

Oliviaarims:


You're not ready to have sex, you're probably not ready to get married too, you have a lot of fears... These are very normal.


But if you don't want to get into harm's way, just avoid getting into any relationship for now...and when you finally decide to, look carefully. There are too many wolves out there, don't fall a prey! But while you're keeping away, make sure you observe and learn how these things work.

Eliba:
thank you, I'm grateful but like what age can I date?

Oliviaarims:


Well, it depends on how you've planned your life. @20, you're not too young to date, especially if you intend to get married early.

There's no rushing things...no fixed guidelines. When the time's right for you, you'll know it.

Eliba:
OK, thanks so much

Eliba:
Each time I hear of relationship or having a boyfriend it sounds sweet and seeing my friends own makes me want to go into it but deep inside of me I'm scared; scared of getting pregnant and doing numerous abortions like most girls do and scared of bringing shame to the family or my parent. I want to let go of my fears but don't know how and I want to be in a relationship too. Advice please!. This is my first write-up on Nairaland sha.

Eliba:
Each time I hear of relationship or having a boyfriend it sounds sweet and seeing my friends own makes me want to go into it but deep inside of me I'm scared; scared of getting pregnant and doing numerous abortions like most girls do and scared of bringing shame to the family or my parent. I want to let go of my fears but don't know how and I want to be in a relationship too. Advice please!. This is my first write-up on Nairaland sha.

Eliba:
Each time I hear of relationship or having a boyfriend it sounds sweet and seeing my friends own makes me want to go into it but deep inside of me I'm scared; scared of getting pregnant and doing numerous abortions like most girls do and scared of bringing shame to the family or my parent. I want to let go of my fears but don't know how and I want to be in a relationship too. Advice please!. This is my first write-up on Nairaland sha.

Dahyormine:
Hi eliba, i am also passing through d same tin rite now, bt i m a lil bit above 20, maybe we should strike a deal 2geda, i bet u ill be safe with me since we are both beginners......pls PM me......lol

donbenedict:
The people who ar advising u, I only wish they practice what they preach.



Eliba, u wana have fun rhai? Please go and hav fun. Hav a boyfrnd, hav sex with condom, a lot of kisses, enjoy ur life... experience all the romance, be free with your self. Do the things u always wanted to do. Life's short. Be happy.




Remember, everyone is a sinner.

goodoo:
Them no dey tell mad person sey rain dey fall b4 he go comot,go and taste it and see.