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Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by Nobody: 11:50pm On May 20, 2016 |
TO MY WOMEN-FOLK So, I haven't created a thread in a really long time now. Been observing a couple of things and I felt the need to put them all together and reach out to my sisters out there. As a girl, you're faced with a lot of challenges and a lot is expected of you. Here are a few things I believe should always be on your mind as regards relationship and dealing with men *Learn to Look Out for Yourself: You shouldn't expect any man to do right by you. Honestly, too many of them out there are just out for the kill, so be careful. Always do what's in your best interest. *Do not Make Excuses for a Man: If he isn't doing certain things right, either you find out the reason for that or you take it as your cue to leave, but make sure you don't cultivate the habit of making excuses for him. This is because when you keep doing so, he's almost never going to change, and you'll have to keep making excuses for him. * Never be scared to demand what you want especially when you deserve it. *Don't Start what you can't Finish...this includes giving out a false impression of who you are, lying, being pretentious. Feel free to show your anger, don't suck it all up and then one day everything erupts and you get him running for cover and totally away from you. Don't come off as a meek lamb when in actual fact you're a lioness. If he can tame you, all well and good, but be real. *Ask all the Necessary Questions, if need be. Yes. Don't go about presuming anything. In most cases, when we assume we know, it all just boomerangs in our face and we find out how disillusioned we've always been. When eventually, you find out for sure, it might be a little too late, so make sure you're kept in the know of what's relevant. Ask away! *Take things slowly[b]: When you're just getting to know a guy, please, do not allow yourself to be rushed into anything. This isn't about playing hard to get. Rather, it's about testing the waters. It's never advisable to rush headlong into a relationship without factoring a number of things such as motive, interests, destination, implications, personality, etc. Anything that seems too good to be true, might actually just be too good to be true! It might be the very thing to stay away from. You don't want to come out scathed and start being forced to reanalyze your life. *[b]Please, keep the Lid on the Cookie Jar closed: Keeping the cooking jar closed or open for any length of time does not actually guarantee the failure or success of a relationship, but except you're a truly liberal person, and not the typical, average Nigerian girl, you'll feel a lot better if he never got a taste of the cookie (if you know what I mean). *Develop Yourself. It's not enough to just be pretty-faced or have those killer boobs and ass...No, it's never just enough. Have a plan for your life and never lose sight of it. Aim at being independent, imbibe some virtues, have something to bring to the table. In essence, be an asset and not a liability. If you have nothing else other than your physical appearance going for you, you'd most likely be dependent all your life. Think about that. It's far from cool! *Don't dwell on your shortcomings, sordid history, mistakes, etc. Stand above them and strive to be better. *Respect your man, love him, trust him, appreciate him.Believe in him and never slack in showing all these as far as he's earned and thus deserving of them. But then again, if he wasn't deserving of all that, why be with him in the first place? *Never disregard,belittle, underestimate, take for granted, forsake a good man. *Look for Sense...plenty of it. Don't lose your head. Acknowledge what your heart feels, but allow your head direct. Not too many of us have walked on rosy paths, but I believe it's never too late to begin to fix things. And for all those out there who still have everything in order, avoid learning the hard way. Do what's right, now that it's right. *Modified* Lol...All these dudes are just hammering on the cookie jar being closed. Now,I don't want to be misconstrued here. What I meant was that, if abstinence/celibacy isn't your thing (to the girls), then you simply shouldn't be in a hurry to get down with just any guy. Keep it closed for as long as you can afford to, just to make sure you don't start having unnecessary body counts. Chances are high that you'll regret it. 17 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by halfricanadian(f): 11:53pm On May 20, 2016 |
Lovely noted saved Tank u op ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by Vinshu(f): 11:53pm On May 20, 2016 |
Respect your man, love him, trust him, appreciate him.Believe in him and never slack in showing all these as far as he's deserving of them. But then again, if he wasn't deserving of all that, why be with him in the first place? Respect is earned! Respect is nobody's right. He has to earn the respect. 3 Likes |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by bigt2(m): 11:54pm On May 20, 2016 |
as if they will adhere ![]() How i wish one could slice the thick flat weave-on laden heads of the ladies of nowadays and slap these in! ![]() |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by Nobody: 11:55pm On May 20, 2016 |
Please, keep the Lid on the Cookie Jar closed? Like seriously? |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by halfricanadian(f): 11:56pm On May 20, 2016 |
Vinshu: Gbam soooooooo right 1 Like |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by vjsmiles: 11:57pm On May 20, 2016 |
"Please, keep the Lid on the Cookie Jar closed: Keeping the cooking jar closed or open for any length of time does not actually guarantee the failure or success of a relationship, but except you're a truly liberal person, and not the typical, average Nigerian girl, you'll feel a lot better if he never got a taste of the cookie (if you know what I mean" did I actually read this? mi raye oshi mehn... girls should keep celibate but men's pocket should give out cheerfully ? dafuq |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by Nobody: 11:58pm On May 20, 2016 |
Waoooo.... Nice write up oliviaarims ![]() ![]() 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by vizkiz: 11:58pm On May 20, 2016 |
STFUareyouG0d: wicked Oliviaarimes ![]() Fight for us bro... Fight for us ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by Nobody: 11:59pm On May 20, 2016 |
Some points are good 1 Like |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by Nobody: 11:59pm On May 20, 2016 |
STFUareyouG0d: We don't want unnecessary body counts. 1 Like |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by Nobody: 12:00am On May 21, 2016 |
vizkiz:Just imagine oliviarims advising they keep cookie jar closed. What shall it benefit both of us if the cookie jar is closed? No no no, we won't accept that. No way! That's not the change we asked for 3 Likes |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by Nobody: 12:02am On May 21, 2016 |
Oliviaarims:so when closed, what do we feast on? Are we allowed to keep our wallet/money closed? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by Emmyginger(m): 12:03am On May 21, 2016 |
hehehe,wailers are on their way |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by vizkiz: 12:05am On May 21, 2016 |
STFUareyouG0d: This is unacceptable! Where is Smellymouth sef? They are about to take over oh! No more "cookie" again ![]() |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by Nobody: 12:05am On May 21, 2016 |
Vinshu: Of course. It is only when he earns it that he deserves it... 1 Like |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by Nobody: 12:06am On May 21, 2016 |
STFUareyouG0d: Lol. You feast on rice and beans. ![]() Keep your wallet closed? Maka why? |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by vizkiz: 12:07am On May 21, 2016 |
STFUareyouG0d: waiting patiently for an answer. I knew you were a good attorney! ![]() |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by ehix89(m): 12:08am On May 21, 2016 |
vizkiz:The smart ones do know their way around ![]() |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by ehix89(m): 12:09am On May 21, 2016 |
ehix89: |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by vizkiz: 12:09am On May 21, 2016 |
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Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by Nobody: 12:10am On May 21, 2016 |
vizkiz:hehehehe we no go gree. We must fight this battle to end ![]() |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by vizkiz: 12:10am On May 21, 2016 |
ehix89: yeah, you are right though...if you seal the Cookie Jar, we will smash the jar instead so the Cookie will be jarless ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by Nobody: 12:11am On May 21, 2016 |
Oliviaarims:give and take, that's what keeps the world rolling ![]() ![]() ![]() Greed is a big crime |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by Nobody: 12:12am On May 21, 2016 |
vizkiz:hahaha |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by ehix89(m): 12:14am On May 21, 2016 |
vizkiz:provided it is opened, grab and smash, stolen or gently uncap, the jar must be opened |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by UrWorstNitemare: 12:16am On May 21, 2016 |
![]() TALK! TALK!! TALK!!! IS ALL WOMEN KNO... WHEN WILL YA'LL LEARN TO DEAL ON ACTION ![]() WELL..... letz blame it on Buhari ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by halfricanadian(f): 12:17am On May 21, 2016 |
UrWorstNitemare: We have started action ![]() ![]() |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by ehix89(m): 12:19am On May 21, 2016 |
halfricanadian:how long can you hold? ![]() |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by halfricanadian(f): 12:19am On May 21, 2016 |
ehix89: Forever im ready less talk now more action |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by Nobody: 12:22am On May 21, 2016 |
STFUareyouG0d: Lol. Who's talking about greed here? |
Re: Titbits Of What Every Girl Should Know by Nobody: 12:23am On May 21, 2016 |
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