What's this again. ... .?

K

I have commented, lemme now go and read what u wrote

Good post

konflems:
Why use oyibo pictures

Black men are not romantic I guess

No eight( is out of it for me. God thank you.... buti am still working hard to get some others in that list.

relatable

CaroLyner:
How he measures down there. he will wonder incessantly about how he measures up to other guys his age

see ya mouth! That's d only thing u knw

DeeCherry

Very true

Did you put them all together yourself or yougot it from somewhere?

DeeCherry:
1.Financial standing

As much as we hate to admit it, the fact remains that finance remains to be one of the governing factors in our lives. Money is not only required for a good lifestyle, it also serves as an entity that lends prestige to our name.
Well, not everybody thinks along similar lines, but there are a lot of people for whom money is a very important factor.
Men get insecure when they feel they are not earning well enough. Even if they pocket a good amount, they feel a bit insecure when their partner earns more than them.

that's why you WOMEN will NEVER progress in life but live in dependant of men!


ya all think materialistic!
not all you mention make a man feel insecure,


what actually make a man feel insecure is love and feeling of not been love back in RETURN and not all this your bull shitt you wrote

premature ejacu.lation too

Dont Get U Pls, Explian Ur Coming Lol

Op is a genius! Any guy that denies any of the points u raised is a big liar!

I crown you queen of nairaland threads for the first quarter of this year so far...this is a wonderful article! well done, very insightful

Samhay

Only if you know where your relationship is heading

well crafted!!! esp dt moment wen u are forming handsome and u see a guy ur mind tells u is finer than u gisting with d gal u av been tryin to get!!!! insecurity jes creeps in.

o.p you forgot to write body odour .. some girls stink

One of the best thread I've ever read on NL

DeeCherry:
2.Looks

Most people are concerned about the way they look. They spend a huge portion of their money on grooming themselves. From getting a trendy hairstyle to buying all the cosmetic items that could enhance one’s looks, they leave no stone upturned to make sure they look good at all times.
While looks become an obsession with some, the rest, even though not overly concerned about it, do get insecure if they do not look good enough. If the girl is very pretty and the guy is not, he tends to get insecure about it.

Only dumb and inexperienced men have insecurities about this as regards women. A woman doesn't give a flying phuck how a man looks and long as he is financially capable. #Oshiomole. #OBJ.

DeeCherry:
4.Commitment

Some men are commitment phobic; they love their girlfriends but are afraid of making a commitment as they are not sure about the future of the relationship. They try to run away from making commitments because of various reasons; they could be uncertain about their finances, career etc.

You sure say you know wetin insecurity mean? Commitment is not an insecurity as it pertains to this topic.

Laveda:
Right on point

Except for numbers 2 and 4.

CaroLyner:
How he measures down there. he will
wonder incessantly about how he measures up to other guys his age

If i hear the taste of the pudding is in the cooking

7,8&9 is the most common

well 2 sum xtent wat a nice thread u've gat op

unapapadeycraze:
vote lanicky, vote mimzy, vote refiner, vote mysticgal, vote optional1. Allow them make them reach final.

when be the election sef? Make them go hire meekassassin for rigging and ballot box snatching

DeeCherry:
8.Height

Men get very insecure when their height does not match up to their partner. The fact that they are shorter than their partner brigs them much ridicule and makes them feel inferior. Height is something which we have no control over and it would not be wise to to let go of a girl you like just because she is taller than you.

leg lengthening surgery, anyone?

just2okworld:
Samhay

Op,tell me wat u gained afta revealing most of my secrets

What is there to gain in becoming miss nairaland pls? Just being curious to know.

optional1:
Nice one Op u try.

More zobo to ur cup more diamond to ur crown.

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Fact:

The more you give a fvck about life, the more insecure you become.
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maleeks:

when be the election sef? Make them go hire meekassassin for rigging and ballot box snatching

Vote Lanicky dear. She be sure bet.