daretodiffer:
Bride price doesn't mean Sh.it. they don't pray bride price in India neither do they pay bride price in the west. Stop looking for excuses. Talk another one biko


They can't walk out. If they do, they stop being good wives. They must endure. That aside, I am not for leaving nor am I for enduring. Do what it is best your mental health and do not judge is my motto

IpopAlo.mo, I will appreciate it if you could stop tagging me as a feminist. I don't identify as one and I hate when people call me what I am not. Thanks.

kw.aso

veekid:
too long o jare, I ll read later

EVILFOREST:
OK
Finally, I have read through completely.
Let me ask the OP....
Questions are as follows... :

1) IF AFRICA adores POLYGAMY, how do we differentiate it from INFIDELITY... ?

2) IF all "MEN are cheats" Who cheated with them.. ...?
Because the LADY Who attests to it, must be a prostitute. ..

3) For every man willing to CHEAT today there is always a LADY ready for such... . Pls. Explain.. .?

4) Most LADIES now prefer Married men to singles because married ones can't disappoint them again... Explain....?

Yomieluv:
Its not new,nature made it so..

Why do you think the snake went to Eve,and not Adam,because the snake knew Eve was vulnerable like the typical female child,who is sway to be servient to the male child,Adam.

fados4sure:

Thanks & how was your 9t?

Zehner:
twas great

EVILFOREST:
OK
Finally, I have read through completely.
Let me ask the OP....
Questions are as follows... :

1) IF AFRICA adores POLYGAMY, how do we differentiate it from INFIDELITY... ?

2) IF all "MEN are cheats" Who cheated with them.. ...?
Because the LADY Who attests to it, must be a prostitute. ..

3) For every man willing to CHEAT today there is always a LADY ready for such... . Pls. Explain.. .?

4) Most LADIES now prefer Married men to singles because married ones can't disappoint them again... Explain....?

DICKtator:
Still the boy/child matter

Even James Brown sang about this.

It would always be a man's world!!!

It is presumed that a boy should be tough in order to be a man(remember the Spartan trainings? And even the Roman ones?)

Because we are seen as an epitome of strength, honour and valour!!!
It is just how the world is wired!!
That is why I always find it funny when some girls be forming feminists trying to degrade menfolk in order to "glorify "their status.

Singing Beyonce's " who run the world" not even knowing that that song was written by men and given to the puppet to sing!!!!

Iceberg3:


of cos,it will always be true 2 ya,even if lai mohammed wrote this piece..

Op,you cannot alter or change what God has ordained to be,what the female folks cause to be with their own hands, so called freedom and kinikòn independence right from the very beginning.

In Britain,its kinda natural and hard to see a gentle English man laugh or laugh loud. So it is with men and crying..... And talkin'bout crying,imagine what ladies will do and how they will make jest and fun and caricature of you as a man if they see you cry! Even your bae will be soo ashamed and term you a 'woman' and a whimp.
What they want from men and his world only the most High knows.

goingape:
this nonsense posts is to make the female LOOK more important to the society!

@op! I guess you must have given your manhood to the devil.

Decryptor:


And secondly, when God was creating in the bible, he always said "it was good" but after creating eve, he never mentioned "it was good". SMH

kwaso:
This is a beautiful write up.
But how about the ladies that actually walk out of relationships because the guy is not 'man' enough? Is easier to sit and make good write ups like this but untill MAN STOPS PAYING BRIDE PRICES of WOMEN, this will remain a literature.

theEYe21:
That's if the devil exist

Yomieluv:
Its not new,nature made it so..

Why do you think the snake went to Eve,and not Adam,because the snake knew Eve was vulnerable like the typical female child,who is sway to be servient to the male child,Adam.

Wokeyim:
I agree with the OP that most times it is the way children are brought up by their parents that causes this impropriety. I have two daughters and we only wanted two kids so i am done with kids. People have refused to accept the fact that a family can be happy or content without a male child and i keep getting subtle messages from people to try number three/four, maybe they will be boys.

A colleague explicitly asked me how i could say i was done with kids when i had not yet had a boy. Another who had two girls and then a boy kept pressurizing to try again, maybe number three will be a boy. I told her we are good with the girls and if i was ever going to consider a third child it will be because we want a third child and not a boy, and that this won't be any time soon. Her next response shocked me. She said that is still good as my daughters will have grown up by then and will be able to help me take care of their brother. So does that mean the girls are not human beings and i only had them first as a means of having someone to help me take care of an almighty son who has not even been born yet?

With mums who have this kind of mentality concerning the gender of their kids in this century, what kind of sons do you expect them to groom?

firstolalekan:
Even with all the evil tags,


I CAN NEVER TRADE MY "MANSHIP" FOR ANYTHING IN THE WORLD

uzolexis:


I have seen my Dad cry several times but I have never for once thought less of him. To me he is the most amazing man in the world cos he has always been there for me.
So stop this your wrapped thinking that a crying man is a weak man.

isalie:
Actually, i think the snake wen o eve because she was stronger than Adam. She was the one who could control Adam's opinion. Also you will notice that Adam was made from sand while Eve was make from bone... It was after the sin that God said she will from then on depend on the man for all time... Read that chapter again and tell me if i am wrong...

beyondwalls:

Hmmm, interesting!
I don't think the snake went to Eve because Eve was more vulnerable because why then was Alpha Adam not able to 'resist' Eve. The snake knew and still knows this truth, that let the male continue to do 'super alpha' all he needs is to get the fe-male and it is game over for both of them and the garden.
If we critically examine things, Eve or the female is not the more vulnerable or weaker one, it is the male. If the male hold this thought and that the determinant factor to his doing/undoing is the female, then our training will be taken seriously.
$Just thinking..

daretodiffer:
Adam must be a bigger fo.ol to have listened to Eve. If at all, it shows how men are not strong enough to think therefore they are not to be trusted to lead.