It’s MAKE it or BREAK it time.

You know that sagging, awful feeling in the pit of your gut that things “aren’t quite right” with your relationship? Well it’s time to get cracking at that right now. Here are 13 signs that your relationship is in desperate need of repair (or a breakup):



1. You can’t communicate anymore.
Or your conversations have been limited to boring exchanges about mundane topics. Even spirited arguments have given way too.

2. Spending time together is no longer a TOP priority.
Time for each other feels like it’s become an afterthought.

3. One (or both) of you have gotten a “work friend” who knows more about your relationship than they should.
This doesn’t automatically mean that you or they are cheating, but the transfer ofintimacy from your partner to someone outside the relationship can be really bad for your bond.

4. You argue about the same crap OVER and OVER.

Ever had those conversations where you go around and around with your partner but things only get better for a little while or nothing ever changes? Me too.

5. You’ve discussed and analyzed your relationship with close friends/family — and they don’t like where things are headed.

Usually our people have a pretty good idea of how things are going — even if we don’t share the nitty gritty details.

6. You become suspicious of your partner.
Whether they are cheating or not, the fear that they’re having an affair has started to plague your thoughts. Petty jealousy seems to crop up even though you’ve never feltjealous in the past.

7. “It’s not the same anymore” pretty much sums up how you both feel.

8. You don’t think you (or they) care anymore.

Now, whether or not this is true is not the real barometer. It’s the sense of not feeling cared for that is most telling.

9. You dream about what things USED to be like.

You know that feeling where you wish you could rewind things back to the way it used to be before you had the sinking pain deep in your gut?

10. You feel like you’ve done all you CAN do to save the relationship.

Sometimes you’re trying too hard — other times it’s just that you’re the only one actually trying.

11. You’ve started thinking about what it’s like without them.

The internal “I know I can end this,” pep talk starts. You start considering whether you should “put up with this” any longer.

12. You’ve stopped (or avoided) talking about the future

“Concert next month? I don’t know … that’s a long way out”

It’s still possible to repair things at this point, but it takes focus, strategy and effort. Relationship insecurity panic (even when your relationship is really at risk) feels low value and desperate. It’ll just push them away even further.

Spot on op

Love story

*sigh*....

AngelAhnie:
Love story

You have an issue with love?

op, try falling in love with mimzy
your life wee never be the same!
#HalaMimzyAbeg

slyIsaac:
Spot on op

Thanks man

AirSultan:
op, try falling in love with mimzy

your life wee never be the same!

#HalaMimzyAbeg

Tell me something

KashyBaby:
*sigh*....

*sign back*

All these things you mentioned are natural, there will always be conflict in the human world, conflict is part of us, it's what makes us grow. The most important thing is how to deal with conflict the best way not trying to avoid it. If you try so hard to avoid conflict, you would not grow or be happy, you would get disappointments and more depressed.

MarshRiley:
It’s MAKE it or BREAK it time.

You know that sagging, awful feeling in the pit of your gut that things “aren’t quite right” with your relationship? Well it’s time to get cracking at that right now. Here are 13 signs that your relationship is in desperate need of repair (or a breakup):



1. You can’t communicate anymore.
Or your conversations have been limited to boring exchanges about mundane topics. Even spirited arguments have given way too.

2. Spending time together is no longer a TOP priority.
Time for each other feels like it’s become an afterthought.

3. One (or both) of you have gotten a “work friend” who knows more about your relationship than they should.
This doesn’t automatically mean that you or they are cheating, but the transfer ofintimacy from your partner to someone outside the relationship can be really bad for your bond.

4. You argue about the same crap OVER and OVER.

Ever had those conversations where you go around and around with your partner but things only get better for a little while or nothing ever changes? Me too.

5. You’ve discussed and analyzed your relationship with close friends/family — and they don’t like where things are headed.

Usually our people have a pretty good idea of how things are going — even if we don’t share the nitty gritty details.

6. You become suspicious of your partner.
Whether they are cheating or not, the fear that they’re having an affair has started to plague your thoughts. Petty jealousy seems to crop up even though you’ve never feltjealous in the past.

7. “It’s not the same anymore” pretty much sums up how you both feel.

8. You don’t think you (or they) care anymore.

Now, whether or not this is true is not the real barometer. It’s the sense of not feeling cared for that is most telling.

9. You dream about what things USED to be like.

You know that feeling where you wish you could rewind things back to the way it used to be before you had the sinking pain deep in your gut?

10. You feel like you’ve done all you CAN do to save the relationship.

Sometimes you’re trying too hard — other times it’s just that you’re the only one actually trying.

11. You’ve started thinking about what it’s like without them.

The internal “I know I can end this,” pep talk starts. You start considering whether you should “put up with this” any longer.

12. You’ve stopped (or avoided) talking about the future

“Concert next month? I don’t know … that’s a long way out”

It’s still possible to repair things at this point, but it takes focus, strategy and effort. Relationship insecurity panic (even when your relationship is really at risk) feels low value and desperate. It’ll just push them away even further.

Wah Will Be Will Be....
















Mama Segun Did All Those.....
Buh Now Yhu Already Now...

this ix all m always thinking bou her

MarshRiley:

Tell me something

So you ain't mimzyfied yet?

Slyisaac, olihilistic, smellymouth, muva, iamlegend1, creamish, obiorathesubtle, suzan404, xoella.. can y'all believe this guy ain't mimzyfied yet??


oya bring the holy water and the anointing oil.. marshriley, kneel down and be induced with the mimzy gospel..


e shabaraba shabara skilo, skilo..

AirSultan:

So you ain't mimzyfied yet?
Slyisaac, olihilistic, smellymouth, muva, iamlegend1, creamish, obiorathesubtle, suzan404, xoella.. can y'all believe this guy ain't mimzyfied yet??
oya bring the holy water and the anointing oil.. marshriley, kneel down and be induced with the mimzy gospel..
e shabaraba shabara skilo, skilo..

Where the guy dey?

MarshRiley:

Tell me something

Oya knee down!

AirSultan:


So you ain't mimzyfied yet?

Slyisaac, olihilistic, smellymouth, muva, iamlegend1, creamish, obiorathesubtle, suzan404, xoella.. can y'all believe this guy ain't mimzyfied yet??


oya bring the holy water and the anointing oil.. marshriley, kneel down and be induced with the mimzy gospel..


e shabaraba shabara skilo, skilo..

so there's still someone on NL who hasn't gone through mimzification!! Chaii thank God we saw you on time ooooo airsultan carry on!!

AirSultan:


So you ain't mimzyfied yet?

Slyisaac, olihilistic, smellymouth, muva, iamlegend1, creamish, obiorathesubtle, suzan404, xoella.. can y'all believe this guy ain't mimzyfied yet??


oya bring the holy water and the anointing oil.. marshriley, kneel down and be induced with the mimzy gospel..


e shabaraba shabara skilo, skilo..

he will be mimzyfy

slyIsaac:

so there's still someone on NL who hasn't gone through mimzification!! Chaii thank God we saw you on time ooooo airsultan carry on!!

Hmmmmmm
Hope she's worth all the hype

olihilistic:




he will be mimzyfy

Hahhahahhaha
No be only

@Nos 1,2,3,7,8,9,10 that's what you get when you try to practice Telemundo kinda love in naija with our harsh economy. A brother is out there hustling to make money for the babe, comes back at night tired and worn out, eats and sleep only to continue the cycle next day.
Dear sisters, cut a brother some slack, you can't eat ur cake and have it . It's not easy.

slyIsaac:

so there's still someone on NL who hasn't gone through mimzification!! Chaii thank God we saw you on time ooooo airsultan carry on!!

abeg abeg abeg what's all the noise about mimzy. Is it the name of a kiddies cartoon or a drink?
Biko Make we hear word jare

never meant for it to fail

But a girl gotto do wat a girl gotto do

slyIsaac:

so there's still someone on NL who hasn't gone through mimzification!! Chaii thank God we saw you on time ooooo airsul.tan carry on!!

Abi na

thanks boss

MarshRiley:

Hmmmmmm
Hope she's worth all the hype

Abeg she is o... you need to get close to her to know mehn..

she da bomb..

MarshRiley:

Hmmmmmm
Hope she's worth all the hype

Oh trust me bruh.. We aint hyping.. We just pointing out facts bruh....
Bro gimme your bbm pin lemme introduce you to her

halfricanadian:
never meant for it to fail

But a girl gotto do wat a girl gotto do

There's so much pain in some of your posts... I wanna kill the dude who did tis.....

You gon meet tat special someone... Sure there are gonna be some assholes along the way but when HE comes, he's gon be worth it...

slyIsaac:

There's so much pain in some of your posts... I wanna kill the dude who did tis.....

You gon meet tat special someone... Sure there are gonna be some assholes along the way but when HE comes, he's gon be worth it...

tanx

slyIsaac:

Oh trust me bruh.. We aint hyping.. We just pointing out facts bruh....
Bro gimme your bbm pin lemme introduce you to her

Oya naw
pin:2B1CFBAE

AirSultan:
Abeg she is o... you need to get close to her to know mehn..

she da bomb..

Bombs are dangerous bro

MarshRiley:

Bombs are dangerous bro

not this one..


if this one ezplodes , you'll be in bliss, not hell. and she doesn't explode self, she only detonates her pure heart, selflessness, kindness on all and sundry..

we love you mimzy
I love you
I'm casting my vote for you.

the question is, will you make the right choice of doing so..

don't worry, I know my answer, its a yes.

#HalaMimzy

Yo slyisaac

olihilistic:



he will be mimzyfy

olihilistic:



he will be mimzyfy