So you saying? As a 20year old guy. . . . .I should start looking for a 10year old girl to date
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Smh

personally, i believe age is just a number that has little correlation with one's maturity......I get along easily with mature minds, regardless of d age....

Olushow144:

I wonder what age you want men to get married then cos 10yrs gap means you'll have to wait for her to finish schooling plus some other personal ambitions

men should get married 22-31. Girls should get married 18-26. the thing with girls is they need to be led. school does not prohibit marriage if anything it prevents girls from sleeping around during the University.

the issue is the world has changed and marriage i believe is far from what God intended it to be.

@OP my lovely wife is just 3 months younger than me. I got married to her because she was the bes after I've dated younger girls for years hoping to prepare for the future, but their drama was just too much. You also have to have this at back of your mind, all women are almost the same when it's comes to drama, but some handle it better. My queen treat me like the king I ought to be, she reciprocate the respect, honour & joy I give her. My ex ( a younger girl) once told me she wasn't ready for a serious relationship & when I told her she could lose me, she said she can always get any man. I don't want anyone having the impresion of doing me a favour, but an older, mature lady see it the other way round. Every decision have it's merits & demerit. In conclusio, marry whoever that makes you happy & travel the journey of life together.

Cheers!!

Is true that ladies age fast, but for me when it comes to marriage what I think guys shuld look out for is a lady with understanding n good attitude , bcox that what really makes a home not just apperance

marvelck:
Since women naturally age faster than men, its not advisable for a guy to marry a girl his age or within his age range. Guys need to marry girls they are far older than with at least 10 years, so that when she's aging everything will still be balanced. You can still be enjoying her breast, and also admiring her full waist line for a long time to come. Compare to when you marry a girl that's only 3 or 5 years younger than you. Before you know it, she'll start looking older than you apart from adding weight anyhow after giving kids. So, let there a space of like 10 years between you and the girl you want to marry, just like fathers used to do it in the past.

There is more to marriage than sex my guy.

babatunx:
personally, i believe age is just a number that has little correlation with one's maturity......I get along easily with mature minds, regardless of d age....

I get what d OP is trying to communicate tho..

Appearance over the years.. Guys age slowly than girls

You dnt want to be looking at ur wife 30 yrs into marriage with d urge to address her as ma instead of honey or sweetie

The age matter comes in only when the heart is not truly involved, which is a situation every guy should avoid when considering a gal for marriage.

On the long run, everything disappears except the true glow in your hearts.

Ontarget:

It depends. I look very much younger than my age. Some girls think I am 9 years younger than my actual age. In this case what it means is that girls who are 5yrs younger than me will look down on me thinking I am their junior, and when I come them they look too old for me. In this case I will have to end up marrying a girl 15 years younger than me to balance my young appearance.

Woah! this is a serious something ....

I dont think the young appearance would last forever, and there's 90% possibility you would live half of your life getting unneccessarily pissed at some decisions she'll take if she's 15 yrs younger b'cos your levels of reasoning are entirely different.... This could make inferiority complex creep into your relationship and make her do weird stuff that you can't imagine.....

If you feel 5 yrs difference makes you look younger, then i think you could go for 7-8 yrs 15 is out of the story ...

My 2 cents though

halfricanadian:
Its how well u take care of your body

A yonger person can look older

And an older person can look younger

Especially when u bang less as a lady, or u start banging late. It helps greatly...

back2sender:

Not with women

ok

That's actually the OP's opinion, not ours.

Mr Marriage counselor

joshrare:


Especially when u bang less as a lady, or u start banging late. It helps greatly...

abi na

guys/girls be warned. 95% of nogerians are hypocrites. how many side chicks are same age as the wives?

the only way older woman can work is if theguy has had his fun....

halfricanadian:
Its how well u take care of your body

A yonger person can look older

And an older person can look younger

Thanks for not falling my hand.... You deserve a gold star.

AVRecruit:


men should get married 22-31. Girls should get married 18-26. the thing with girls is they need to be led. school does not prohibit marriage if anything it prevents girls from sleeping around during the University.

the issue is the world has changed and marriage i believe is far from what God intended it to be.

I can't see a 10yr gap in this your 18-26, 22-31 analysis. And maybe it is in your own version of the bible that women should be 5-10 yrs younger. Pls stop deceiving ppl by placing age above true love

sapiosexual1:
Op leave mata for matthias. I don't date ladies who are more than 3yrs below my age. Trust me, I cope better with the older ladies, dating those with a wide age gap would be like teaching a kid how to talk.

Your point is sustained but dating is quiet different from marriage....certainly older ladies are cool with dating..

I used to say I can't date a small girl,and even used to run away from the ones that liked me,until I met one lately. I'm planning to wife her asap and she's 12yrs younger than me. Sometimes when I look at the age difference,I feel embarrassed but hey,love and understanding is what matters and why her case is different,is cos she's very intelligent and matured. Age shouldn't really be the focus in settling down though.

tempem:

Thanks for not falling my hand.... You deserve a gold star.

Ok o

Mtcheew,Ops must be high with weed

Anyway Still thinking about" Who to marry", where to marry and what age to marry

Help pls

marvelck:
Since women naturally age faster than men, its not advisable for a guy to marry a girl his age or within his age range. Guys need to marry girls they are far older than with at least 10 years, so that when she's aging everything will still be balanced. You can still be enjoying her breast, and also admiring her full waist line for a long time to come. Compare to when you marry a girl that's only 3 or 5 years younger than you. Before you know it, she'll start looking older than you apart from adding weight anyhow after giving kids. So, let there a space of like 10 years between you and the girl you want to marry, just like fathers used to do it in the past.

THATS UR OWN CLASS AND STANDARD. 5 YRS DIFFERECE IS ENOUGH. MORE THAN THAT IS BAD FOR ME. LOVE AND CARE IS MOST IMPORTANT AND USEFUL FOR LASTING CO EXISTENCE. LEARN.

Olushow144:

I can't see a 10yr gap in this your 18-26, 22-31 analysis. And maybe it is in your own version of the bible that women should be 5-10 yrs younger. Pls stop deceiving ppl by placing age above true love

i didnt say it must b 10 years. the ages i listed are already young.

Kachisbarbie:
Is it your sugarrr?

my uncle is my father/mother's brother, he isn't my uncle. He is my husband.

Eehn? Wow

I like older women. All my girlfriends have been older and my wife to be older too. Age remains a number. Marrying a younger woman will not prevent you from looking else where...so its not important. If you fall in love with an older woman, marry her.

The silly op thinks marriage is all about sex

Shakiri February 2, 1979 and Gerard Pique February 2, 1989.

Shakira February 2, 1979 and Gerard Pique February 2, 1989.

BiafraBushBoy:
I will marry a girl older than I am....

Deal with it.. Op..

correct man! No mind dis yeye op

demydea:



My brother, if u see this babe I can assure u that u will not think twice about wanting to wife her

My 3 cent

Whoa!! she must be some egyptian goddess

But i'll pass , 8 yrs is too much... There are lots of fishes in the sea, all it takes is getting the right one (meant for you) ....

My 4 cents

My wife is older than me with 2 yrs and we living happily

sangfroidJJ:
Shakira February 2, 1979 and Gerard Pique February 2, 1989.

I'll love to see a similar picture but with black folks in it ...... this are celebs and you definitely dont know how much is spent to maintain those looks...

kennywiz:
The age matter comes in only when the heart is not truly involved, which is a situation every guy should avoid when considering a gal for marriage.

On the long run, everything disappears except the true glow in your hearts.

words of the wise one.