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Your Sex Needs Are Not Met? Learn The Negotiation by Nobody: 8:55am On May 26, 2016 |
What happens when you want something in bed from your partner, but they are slow to grant it? Do you just give up, but keep wanting it? There is a better way! This way is called negotiation. Both men and women have all kinds of rather innocent things they want in bed. Unfortunately those desires do not always fall in line in the couple. So, why not negotiate what you want? Let’s get a practical example. A man likes to do little spanking of the bums of his wife, but she does not fancy the idea. On the other hand, she wants him to do more gentle kissing or to get a longer pre-intimacy. He can start pushing his idea through and she can be mad with him and upset for not meeting her needs. This way leaves everyone unhappy and angry. How about negotiating it? A woman can say: well, you can do little spanking If you want it so much, but first we kiss as long as I want or do the pre-intimacy my way. And the other way around. You can exchange favors in bed. That is not a bad idea, not at all! |
Re: Your Sex Needs Are Not Met? Learn The Negotiation by Nobody: 9:00am On May 26, 2016 |
I don't negotiate... If he declined to my orders, then the door is open wide..he knows where to find his way out... 1 Like |
Re: Your Sex Needs Are Not Met? Learn The Negotiation by Nobody: 9:05am On May 26, 2016 |
Rub my back and I'll scratch your back.... That works. 1 Like |
Re: Your Sex Needs Are Not Met? Learn The Negotiation by Nobody: 9:15am On May 26, 2016 |
continued... She gets what she wants and feels less resilient about giving him what he covets. Everyone is happy. And once you try those things, who knows, you may become rather fond of them. It may turn out little spanking turns her on, too. And longer kissing makes him come in a hotter fashion. Practical tips on sex negotiations: – Sit down and chat – Gently state your request – No anger or strong emotions – Never accuse your spouse of anything – Do not tell what makes you unhappy, but talk of what makes you happy instead – Be polite – Be an active listener and mirror what s/he says to you – Offer valid exchange options for what you want – Be willing to go an extra mile and pay the price – Set up boundaries (the things you can do and the things you can’t and won’t) – Be loving**Bed is a great place for experiments and negotiations. It is a give and take game. Everyone losses when they push their ideas through, but everyone wins, when you do little favors in exchange. |
Re: Your Sex Needs Are Not Met? Learn The Negotiation by swtdrms(m): 10:37am On May 26, 2016 |
KashyBaby: Wat re the orders like? He shd go and hang himself b4 u can grant it abi....So pathetic 1 Like |
Re: Your Sex Needs Are Not Met? Learn The Negotiation by Nobody: 10:58am On May 26, 2016 |
swtdrms: Thats none of Ur biznez...I'm NOT dealing with u anyway |
Re: Your Sex Needs Are Not Met? Learn The Negotiation by swtdrms(m): 11:25am On May 26, 2016 |
KashyBaby: I do wonder all the times, wat do gals of today take themselves for? Some kind of god or what? Look at urself and wat u re saying. U're not dealing with me doesn't in any mean i can't correct you when u go wrong, am only helping ur life. 2 Likes |
Re: Your Sex Needs Are Not Met? Learn The Negotiation by Nobody: 11:30am On May 26, 2016 |
swtdrms: Help urself first before u help others...it only means u never attended the life saving program of red cross... Now..move! 1 Like |
Re: Your Sex Needs Are Not Met? Learn The Negotiation by Nobody: 11:37am On May 26, 2016 |
KashyBaby: E dey show for your face sef Na your kind still dey find husband @40 KashyBaby: E dey show for your face sef Na your kind still dey find husband @40 1 Like |
Re: Your Sex Needs Are Not Met? Learn The Negotiation by Nobody: 11:42am On May 26, 2016 |
DanyWest: And? Does it bothers u? Its none of Ur problem anyway..why comment nonsense? |
Re: Your Sex Needs Are Not Met? Learn The Negotiation by Nobody: 11:49am On May 26, 2016 |
KashyBaby: Why won't it bother me? Cause you're gonna constitute a public nuiscance to these country Which fellow nigerians don't want.. Retarded fool KashyBaby: Why won't it bother me? Cause you're gonna constitute a public nuiscance to these country Which fellow nigerians don't want.. Retarded fool |
Re: Your Sex Needs Are Not Met? Learn The Negotiation by Kiish(m): 2:34pm On May 26, 2016 |
lol danywest. Pls take it easy |
Re: Your Sex Needs Are Not Met? Learn The Negotiation by Nobody: 7:28pm On May 26, 2016 |
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