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Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by deskhal(m): 12:42am On May 27, 2016
Audray:
You just don't know good shows when u see em tongue. Now swerve dude cool.
Breaking bad
Game of thrones
The Walking dead
The fosters
I can go on. I know shit shows when i see em.
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by joseph1832(m): 12:46am On May 27, 2016
Audray:
You will have to step thru ur phone, come over here and pump me full of truth serum just to get me to talk.
Where is here? If here is anywhere in Nigeria, I'll be glad to come there. I'm one who is always please to pay to get knowledge.

What sayeth thee?
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by Audray(f): 12:47am On May 27, 2016
deskhal:

Breaking bad
Game of thrones
The Walking dead
The fosters
I can go on. I know shit shows when i see em.
Oh No... We are not about to have a fan war right now. You watch ur shitty shows, I watch my shitty shows. Everybody wins grin
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by Audray(f): 12:50am On May 27, 2016
joseph1832:
Where is here? If here is anywhere in Nigeria, I'll be glad to come there. I'm one who is always please to pay to get knowledge.

What sayeth thee?
You are not kidding. Well... Check out my location on my profile. If you make it.. We'll talk.
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by deskhal(m): 12:58am On May 27, 2016
Audray:
Oh No... We are not about to have a fan war right now. You watch ur shitty shows, I watch my shitty shows. Everybody wins grin
Fair Enough! smiley
Nice shows you could recommend?
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by Audray(f): 1:04am On May 27, 2016
deskhal:

Fair Enough! smiley
Nice shows you could recommend?
grin
OrphanBlack
Sense8
Fringe
Jessica Jones.
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by deskhal(m): 1:13am On May 27, 2016
Audray:
grin
OrphanBlack
Sense8
Fringe
Jessica Jones.
Seen Orphan Black, think Sense8 is terrible(not judging). Gonna check out the other two.
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by Audray(f): 1:21am On May 27, 2016
deskhal:

Seen Orphan Black, think Sense8 is terrible(not judging). Gonna check out the other two.
don't worry,I agree... Sense 8's plot is sort of piss poor.It's just d whole sci fi concept I'm interested in.
PS. Do u recall that birthing sequence?It was horrifying.
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by Anas09: 1:26am On May 27, 2016
joseph1832:
LOL. Many like me will exhaust all scientific as well as logic and reason, before they start thinking about spirits, demons and devils.

So far, I've listened to like 4 lesbians talk about what triggered their sexuality, and all 4 of them showed tremendous signs of parental negligence, and influence. (That is including the 2 here in Nairaland, who have diaries, audray excluded).
Yea Joe, we all have different inclinations. But the claim that they were neglected by their parents hence; their sexual orientation, is so warped to say the least? This crap is gradually creeping into our society. Very soon, we will begin to hear that a man, a Nigerian became a serial killer because his parents didn't kiss him when he was a boy. This is serious. What about kids whose parents died even before they grew up to know anything?
This is a more believable story.
A far more older lady (Prostitute who slept with men for money, but with girls for 'what?') disvirgined a small girl. She kept the little girl under her wraps for a long time, she provided all she needed, made her enjoy sex(if that's what it's called) with her, thought her things about themselves. When she eventually grew up, she didn't know any other thing other than what this lady and her did. She saw her fellow girls following boys as silly.

She started craving for other little girls. She had never been with a man, then she got preached to, she then saw that what or who she was was wrong, unfortunately for her, a female pastor (supposed) in the church she started attending, cornered her again and brought her back. As at when I knew this, she was as confused as hell. She wanted to stop, but the devil was waiting for her at every turn.
But to say, my parents were not there, so I started craving for a fellow girl with breast. Where will I even start? Put my mouth in her mouth. Ekwensu
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by deskhal(m): 1:33am On May 27, 2016
Audray:
don't worry,I agree... Sense 8's plot is sort of piss poor.It's just d whole sci fi concept I'm interested in.
PS. Do u recall that birthing sequence?It was horrifying.
Maybe, i don't recall. I got to episode 4 or 5 and i pulled the plug.
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by Audray(f): 2:30am On May 27, 2016
deskhal:

Maybe, i don't recall. I got to episode 4 or 5 and i pulled the plug.
Alrighty,It's better if u don't see it. U got anything for me?
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by Stanleywaxy(m): 2:38am On May 27, 2016
What does a man even find attractive in a fellow man undecided Yuk ! What rubbish .
All these people are just deceiving themselves , they've probably earned themselves a place in hell .
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by Stanleywaxy(m): 2:48am On May 27, 2016
joseph1832:
No thanks, I'm a lover of Venus. Leaving you alone is what can't happen, however, you can choose to ignore my mentions, but still, I'll still mention you.

So, tell me, how did you become a lesbian, what triggered it? I've always been interested to get varying views from lesbians and gays as to why they prefer their own kind.

So, humor me once again.

If truly that girl's a lesbian , then you must be mysterious . How did you get to know about that Man .
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by deskhal(m): 9:14am On May 27, 2016
Audray:
Alrighty,It's better if u don't see it. U got anything for me?
Better call Saul
How to get away with murder
Suits
Pretty little liars
The flash
American Horror Story
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by Audray(f): 9:24am On May 27, 2016
deskhal:
Better call Saul How to get away with murder Suits Pretty little liars The flash American Horror Story
Yeah.I've seen PLL, Suits, and HTGAWM. Better call Saul sounds good.
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by joseph1832(m): 9:37am On May 27, 2016
Audray:
You are not kidding. Well... Check out my location on my profile. If you make it.. We'll talk.
Your location reeks of one, who despite shouting and wanting to be heard, still desire to remain fucking_ anonymous.

I find it humorous that many of you now see this site, as the only place you can come and showcase your sexuality, just because of the anonymity the site offers.
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by joseph1832(m): 9:47am On May 27, 2016
Anas09:

Yea Joe, we all have different inclinations. But the claim that they were neglected by their parents hence; their sexual orientation, is so warped to say the least? This crap is gradually creeping into our society. Very soon, we will begin to hear that a man, a Nigerian became a serial killer because his parents didn't kiss him when he was a boy. This is serious. What about kids whose parents died even before they grew up to know anything?
Parenting involves many things, and our environment also influence us. What a child sees, hears and perceive goes a long way to affect the child's psyche. I'm sure you know of kids who witnessed their parents fighting, how they're prone to violence and easy fit of rage. That's how homosexuality is. A child who grew up, watching Nicki Minaj shaking her booty, is inclined to become sexually aroused by Nicki Minaj's fine curves... Thus, that child will want to explore and seek our females.

This is a more believable story.
A far more older lady (Prostitute who slept with men for money, but with girls for 'what?') disvirgined a small girl. She kept the little girl under her wraps for a long time, she provided all she needed, made her enjoy sex(if that's what it's called) with her, thought her things about themselves. When she eventually grew up, she didn't know any other thing other than what this lady and her did. She saw her fellow girls following boys as silly.

She started craving for other little girls. She had never been with a man, then she got preached to, she then saw that what or who she was was wrong, unfortunately for her, a female pastor (supposed) in the church she started attending, cornered her again and brought her back. As at when I knew this, she was as confused as hell. She wanted to stop, but the devil was waiting for her at every turn.
But to say, my parents were not there, so I started craving for a fellow girl with breast. Where will I even start? Put my mouth in her mouth. Ekwensu
Have you ever had a discuss with gays and lesbians, I tell you, the reasons why they become who they became to be, stem from what you spoke about above, and parental neglect, even the story as posited by you, reeks of parental neglect.

I've come across some lesbians, and gays, what they told me about their childhood still bother on influence, and lack of proper parenting.
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by kay1baba: 10:00am On May 27, 2016
Jay na evil spirit not by birth
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by Audray(f): 11:27am On May 27, 2016
joseph1832:
Your location reeks of one, who despite shouting and wanting to be heard, still desire to remain fucking_ anonymous.

I find it humorous that many of you now see this site, as the only place you can come and showcase your sexuality, just because of the anonymity the site offers.
Yeesh! Mister-random-guy-I-just-met-online ,If i decide to remain "fuckin* anonymous" online how's that anyone's headache? It's the internet! For a guy who'd pay for knowledge,I say u've got misplaced priorities.Why not save ur cash for more useful knowledge than how a person "becomes" gay?There are sevral sites with gay people "backstories" .U could read till u got fed up.
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by joseph1832(m): 11:33am On May 27, 2016
Audray:
Yeesh! Mister-random-guy-I-just-met-online ,If i decide to remain "fuckin* anonymous" online how's that anyone's headache? It's the internet! For a guy who'd pay for knowledge,I say u've got misplaced priorities.Why not save ur cash for more useful knowledge than how a person "becomes" gay?There are sevral sites with gay people "backstories" .U could read till u got fed up.
Okay, let your narrow mindedness not lead you astray. I suppose the school you went to was free right? Anyway, I don't want you having a bitch_ fit on my behalf.

Kindly provide me with a link to these sites lemme check it out... Mind you, what I term useful is different from what you term useful. And I'll sure save or spend my money on anything I see fit, so your advice isn't needed.

Thank you.
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by Audray(f): 11:44am On May 27, 2016
joseph1832:
Okay, let your narrow mindedness not lead you astray. I suppose the school you went to was free right? Anyway, I don't want you having a bitch_ fit on my behalf.

Kindly provide me with a link to these sites lemme check it out... Mind you, what I term useful is different from what you term useful. And I'll sure save or spend my money on anything I see fit, so your advice isn't needed.

Thank you.
Yeah...u just had to insult me. Anyways, I haven't got any links. Simply use ur internet,type in the words and click on the results.I fully agree.U don't have to take any advice.Use ur money as u like. Afterall, Each man to his taste.
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by Anas09: 4:21pm On May 27, 2016
joseph1832:
Parenting involves many things, and our environment also influence us. What a child sees, hears and perceive goes a long way to affect the child's psyche. I'm sure you know of kids who witnessed their parents fighting, how they're prone to violence and easy fit of rage. That's how homosexuality is. A child who grew up, watching Nicki Minaj shaking her booty, is inclined to become sexually aroused by Nicki Minaj's fine curves... Thus, that child will want to explore and seek our females.

Have you ever had a discuss with gays and lesbians, I tell you, the reasons why they become who they became to be, stem from what you spoke about above, and parental neglect, even the story as posited by you, reeks of parental neglect.

I've come across some lesbians, and gays, what they told me about their childhood still bother on influence, and lack of proper parenting.
I will drop it here then.
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by joseph1832(m): 4:30pm On May 27, 2016
Anas09:
I will drop it here then.
Okay dear. How are you by the way? smiley
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by joseph1832(m): 4:32pm On May 27, 2016
Audray:
Yeah...u just had to insult me. Anyways, I haven't got any links. Simply use ur internet,type in the words and click on the results.I fully agree.U don't have to take any advice.Use ur money as u like. Afterall, Each man to his taste.
Well me saying you're narrow minded doesn't mean I insulted you, but if you felt I did, then I apologize.
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by DamiG(f): 4:55pm On May 27, 2016
sexuality isn't a choice,you are either born straight,gay or bisexual.
TO ALL STRAIGHT PEOPLE WHO SAY BEING GAY IS A CHOICE,THAT ALSO EQUALS THAT BEING STRAIGHT IS A CHOICE,SO IF I MAY ASK WHEN DID YOU DECIDE TO BE STRAIGHT,WHEN DID YOU REALISE THAT YOU WERE STRAIGH AND WHAT INFLUENCED YOUR STRAIGHTNESS

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Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by ValerianSteel(m): 1:20am On May 28, 2016
Anas09:

Being gay is not natural. It is a demon possession, and that happens at a child's very tender age.
Biitch please.Demon possession,Christian fanatics never seem to amaze me with how they've lost their every sense of logic and reasoning undecided

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Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by Sarang(f): 5:17am On May 28, 2016
Anas09:

Yea Joe, we all have different inclinations. But the claim that they were neglected by their parents hence; their sexual orientation, is so warped to say the least? This crap is gradually creeping into our society. Very soon, we will begin to hear that a man, a Nigerian became a serial killer because his parents didn't kiss him when he was a boy. This is serious. What about kids whose parents died even before they grew up to know anything?
This is a more believable story.
A far more older lady (Prostitute who slept with men for money, but with girls for 'what?') disvirgined a small girl. She kept the little girl under her wraps for a long time, she provided all she needed, made her enjoy sex(if that's what it's called) with her, thought her things about themselves. When she eventually grew up, she didn't know any other thing other than what this lady and her did. She saw her fellow girls following boys as silly.

She started craving for other little girls. She had never been with a man, then she got preached to, she then saw that what or who she was was wrong, unfortunately for her, a female pastor (supposed) in the church she started attending, cornered her again and brought her back. As at when I knew this, she was as confused as hell. She wanted to stop, but the devil was waiting for her at every turn.
But to say, my parents were not there, so I started craving for a fellow girl with breast. Where will I even start? Put my mouth in her mouth. Ekwensu


I think neglect is really one of them.
You don't even know what those who never knew their parents go through..or are you one of them?

Still Homosexuality is a Choice same way Fornicating is a choice and a Sin

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Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by Sarang(f): 5:21am On May 28, 2016
DamiG:
sexuality isn't a choice,you are either born straight,gay or bisexual.
TO ALL STRAIGHT PEOPLE WHO SAY BEING GAY IS A CHOICE,THAT ALSO EQUALS THAT BEING STRAIGHT IS A CHOICE,SO IF I MAY ASK WHEN DID YOU DECIDE TO BE STRAIGHT,WHEN DID YOU REALISE THAT YOU WERE STRAIGH AND WHAT INFLUENCED YOUR STRAIGHTNESS


IT IS A CHOICE

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Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by Sarang(f): 5:35am On May 28, 2016
I understand those attractions,those abnormal attractions and feelings that makes you wanna die.

But you don't have to act on them.
Even though you can't dictate what you feel,you can dictate your actions. And you are not gay because you feel this way. There is nothing you can do about the way you feel

Some sam-sex attractions at teens_thats when involuntary sexual arousal is at it's worst..

But You do not have to act on those desires that you know aren't normal And from their movie and music propoganda. Keep away.

At the end It's your choice either to sleep with same sex or not and thats gay.
Although you may not have complete control over your desires, you do have control over your actions. You can choose not to act on wrong desires

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Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by Creamish(f): 7:47am On May 28, 2016
GSKing:


Then go and get busy with something else and quit being a homophobic bigot.

OK...so u were born gay? grin grin cheesy
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by Creamish(f): 8:12am On May 28, 2016
Sarang:
I understand those attractions,those abnormal attractions and feelings that makes you wanna die.

But you don't have to act on them.
Even though you can't dictate what you feel,you can dictate your actions. And you are not gay because you feel this way. There is nothing you can do about the way you feel

Some sam-sex attractions at teens_thats when involuntary sexual arousal is at it's worst..

But You do not have to act on those desires that you know aren't normal And from their movie and music propoganda. Keep away.

At the end It's your choice either to sleep with same sex or not and thats gay.
Although you may not have complete control over your desires, you do have control over your actions. You can choose not to act on wrong desires
Re: Do People Decide To Be Gay Or Lesbian Or They Were Born That Way? by Anas09: 9:09am On May 28, 2016
Sarang:



I think neglect is really one of them.
You don't even know what those who never knew their parents go through..or are you one of them?

Still Homosexuality is a Choice same way Fornicating is a choice and a Sin
One of the Homos? Naaa. And my parents where there and are still here. Most of these things starts in the dometries and I was a day student. I never knew what lesbianism was until I was 22. While in the uni already, they were everywhere, I was seeing them but I didn't know what they were doing. I was so innocent and the God factor too.
There's nothing like a strong man with strong arms. You know, the kind that lezz describes? grin. But for now, am celibate.

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