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Apparently, people behind monikers with "-smart" are not so smart after all.

I cud be of help..holla me so we talk better

JeffreyJamez:
Apparently, people behind monikers with "-smart" are not so smart after all.

That's really harsh and insensitive of you

Aremu01:


That's really harsh and insensitive of you

Bite me!

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listen dear, people fall out of love and fall back in love with a new person all the time so why not you? It might be hard at first but times heals most wounds. I'm not sure why your father wants you to stop the relationship, but if you think you know this guy more than your father does? you can pull a nollywood stunt and "runaway" with him .

jk, I wouldn't advise that. But if your situation forced you to stop seeing him, trust me you will fall in love again and move on. These things just takes time.

David25:
listen dear, people fall out of love and fall back in love with a new person all the time so why not you? It might be hard at first but times heals most wounds. I'm not sure why your father wants you to stop the relationship, but if you think you know this guy more than your father does? you can pull a nollywood stunt and "runaway" with him .

jk, I wouldn't advise that. But if your situation forced you to stop seeing him, trust me you will fall in lover again and move on. These things just takes time.

At least someone with sense

David25:
listen dear, people fall out of love and fall back in love with a new person all the time so why not you? It might be hard at first but times heals most wounds. I'm not sure why your father wants you to stop the relationship, but if you think you know this guy more than your father does? you can pull a nollywood stunt and "runaway" with him .

jk, I wouldn't advise that. But if your situation forced you to stop seeing him, trust me you will fall in love again and move on. These things just takes time.

Nice, but moving on ain't really the answer here.

What if she really likes this particular guy? Who knows the pain she'd been through when she parted from the previous ones?

@jummiesmart, My advice, stand up to your dad. Know his reasons. Is it because of immorality? Does he want you to finish school first? Or is he just being stuck up?

From his answer, you will know how to approach the situation. Don't just throw tantrums and break up with every guy that you fall in love with because daddy said so.

Grow up.

jummiesmart:
u dnt understand d kinda pain am going tru ryt nw,i dnt need ur beefing,nly ur opinion and neva mind,u nt helping

You're obviously a "Daddy's girl"...only daddy can say who you should marry and who you shouldn't...

Be there sulking, don't stand up for yourself and what you want...you'll tell me if its Daddy you'll marry.



You humans can be so annoying and petty sometimes.. mchew.

JeffreyJamez:



You're obviously a "Daddy's girl"...only daddy can say who you should marry and who you shouldn't...

Be there sulking, don't stand up for yourself and what you want...you'll tell me if its Daddy you'll marry.



You humans can be so annoying and petty sometimes.. mchew.

Hear hear! The perfect god has spoken

Jay cut her some slack!

Twaci:


Hear hear! The perfect god has spoken

Jay cut her some slack!

There's no slack to even cut... sometimes people need to hear things the way it really is,..tough love!

JeffreyJamez:


There's no slack to even cut... sometimes people need to hear things the way it really is,..tough love!

Someone piss u off somewhere?

Twaci:
Someone piss u off somewhere?

You don't want to know the answer to that...trust me!

JeffreyJamez:


You don't want to know the answer to that...trust me!

If I didn't, I wouldn't have asked

Twaci:
If I didn't, I wouldn't have asked

OK....yes.....

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jummiesmart:
@jefjamez i dnt knw y u talking some1 else issues personaly,am a yoruba lady and i understand well,u dnt tel some to marry his dad or mom it very forbideen if u dint comment on dis thread atal it would av bin better because wat u typed dint help atal it just as if u scoldin me.nly needed ur opinion dats all,am an totaly imperfect lady dat cnt b compared to a perfect man like u.tanks 4 dropping by

The guy may have a strange spiritual problem o, so don't rush anything. Obey your father no matter how painful it is... Remember how as kids u wanted sweets n your parents must have stopped you from having some the things you feel like you wanted until now you are grateful that they stopped you else your teeth or your health would be bad. Your father or a pastor may have seen a Vision about how bad it will be for you if you go ahead so I kindly suggest you go and pray or meet a prophet to help you understand the way forward and if you are not yet therewith school, I suggest u finish up and know that you have a brighter future ahead. Life is Spiritual. Don't rush it. Someone else may be calling you or trying to be your friend... Simply encourage it and allow new people into your life and finally study or go to relationship meetings where you can learn frompast mistakes. No one is perfect but someone is willing to try. PM me