peezeygwiny:

sure

Thanks dear

Haute:

Smart. This should suffice.

poshestmina:



Thanks but I spoke my mind.
No need to pretend

Hope you know there is a lady waiting for you to have a family so she can also share your husband

Her slut game strong.. Zero joy... Economy sef

Kondomatik:
I know her Nairaland moniker and she's a #team marriage is not for everybody.

the chic resemble one fine geh like dat for nairaland;
Egovinma
But am sure she is too sharp to do something this stupid.

This is real wickedness from a female to another female, when will we females learn to protect our fellow gender. It's bad enough to sleep with a married man, and she takes it a step further to rub it on the madams face publicly? Who born this girl? Which family she come from? Which schools she attend? Who be her friends? My God , when will some men love, honour and protect their wives? See the insult this husband brought upon his wife through this illmannered girl.

Lord, have mercy!

cococandy:
If he didn't bring disrespect to his wife, that girl won't be disrespecting her.
Only God knows what he must have told her about his wife.

i agree with you. He has a part to play in it. But we really do not know the truth. This lady may be telling the truth afterall. The man may have been sex starved and that's why he went outside.

You may say that the man is a dog and whatever, but like i said, we really do not kow what happened. There are women out there who feel they have to with hold sex from their men as a means to punish the man. Well ladies have to understand that if they want a thing from their man, who isn't an unreasonable sex maniac, what they need to do is to talk it over. You don't go about thinking you are some moral authority to punish anyone much less your spouse. We all should know that with holding sex from our partners as a means of blackmail is completely wrong. Talk things over, that's the mature and civilized way to go about it.

As for my fellow men. If a Lady is with holding sex from you, what you need to do is not to begin to cheat on her! What you need to do is to talk things over if she has a good reason. But if she doesn't have a good reason and she is doing that thinking she has some kind of power over you, DIVORCE HER!!! She probably might have given you one or two children and that means she doesn't stand a chance very much in the dating game should she lose you. We men have to begin to make it an unfavourable game to play for those women who wouldn't talk things over with you but think they have some kind of power over the man by with holding sex from him.

yawn fake story so obvious.

Can the woman go outside too when the husband is withholding sex from her?

craziebone:


i agree with you. He has a part to play in it. But we really do not know the truth. This lady may be telling the truth afterall. The man may have been sex starved and that's why he went outside.

You may say that the man is a dog and whatever, but like i said, we really do not kow what happened. There are women out there who feel they have to with hold sex from their men as a means to punish the man. Well ladies have to understand that if they want a thing from their man, who isn't an unreasonable sex maniac, what they need to do is to talk it over. You don't go about thinking you are some moral authority to punish anyone much less your spouse. We all should know that with holding sex from our partners as a means of blackmail is completely wrong. Talk things over, that's the mature and civilized way to go about it.

As for my fellow men. If a Lady is with holding sex from you, what you need to do is not to begin to cheat on her! What you need to do is to talk things over if she has a good reason. But if she doesn't have a good reason and she is doing that thinking she has some kind of power over you, DIVORCE HER!!! She probably might have given you one or two children and that means she doesn't stand a chance very much in the dating game should she lose you. We men have to begin to make it an unfavourable game to play for those women who wouldn't talk things over with you but think they have some kind of power over the man by with holding sex from him.

cococandy:
Can the woman go outside too when the husband is withholding sex from her?

Don't sweat yourself over the story it's totally fake, not sure how you guys can't tell.

daretodiffer:
You cannot make adultery illegal in a secular country, many people (both men and women) will fight it. Adultery is not the same as polygamy.

It is not a constitutoonal right. It wasn't conferred by the Constitution.

i really like it that you made that distinction between polygamy and adultery. In a bid to paint polygamy in a bad light, i have heard believers call it polygamy when a man or woman goes outside of her marriage to cheat on his or her spouse. By doing this, they equate polygamy with adultery.

People need to know that Adultery is not the same as polygamy. When a man goes out of his marriage and have an affair with another woman who is not his wife, that man is not being polygamous; he is only been an immoral adulterer! Polygamy is a man or woman BEING MARRIED TO MORE THAN ONE SPOUSE.

Be that as it may, don't you think it doesn't make sense to criminalize polygamy (a type of marriage which is a valid as monogamy) while having no legislation at all on adultery (an immoral behaviour)?

To me, if one should be penalized, it should be adultery.

cococandy:
Can the woman go outside too when the husband is withholding sex from her?

if you read that post carefully, i never said the man should go outside when his wife is withholding sex. What i said was that he should talk things over with her if she has a good reason. And i said that if there is no good reason and it is clear that the lady is trying to be one of those ladies who just think they have power over the man and try to withhold sex as means of blackmail, what he needs to do is to divorce her! And yes, i would advice the woman to do the same if the other way round is the case.

Dis lady is curse, whn she is better than some of d ladies insulting her here, as d old says goes na thief dey beat thief pass if dey catch d thief. Ladies pls go get urself a man u cn call ur own, haba

obstead200:
the chic resemble one fine geh like dat for nairaland;
Egovinma
But am sure she is too sharp to do something this stupid.

. He fit be her ooooo, I even pay last week to cut my share

.....Wat happens wen a girl reason's wit her p^ssy......
Metcheww....NONEsense

How sure are we that dis lady is actually dating the husband of the other woman

This is the kind of reward that comes to a godly woman who decides to marry a he goat.

Moral values are gone. It is so shocking to see how most ladies uses sex as a weapon to exploit or threaten their husbands. In most marriages today sex is bargained. During the time of our parents, sex was sacred but now it is a show. My advice is for married women to go back to the drawing board and work out those things that keep their husbands outside the home

Haute:

After winning the Miss Nairaland pageant, I hope you'll use your influence to lead young ladies on the right path. Well, will you?

Lol,my guy which influence?
Hope you know what influence is?

Oktoberfest:
Save us frm karashika!

I tell u

Its a shame the wife married a man who thinks only with his crooked dicvk...
What a shame.. Sometimes one take a look at what some married men do out there, with other women and oloshos... And i ask? Wheres the joy and fulfiment in marriage?
So much disrespect to the wife
No wonder babymamas are growing everyday by the minute..
What a shame...

Icecooljay:

Ur head dey there.... Na buhari cause am

So you came back to Nairaland again? Long time no see!

Just to bear his name.

Dabbyfab:
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I said she should not leave except the husband doesnt want her.The man might be having the affair with the intention of not leaving the wife but the girl wants more than just an affair. It depends on the wife if she wants to give the husband a second chance depending on what the husbands says and act. I believe in happiness which is the most important thing. But for a girl to be bold enough to send such a message to a wife she really wants the position or the husband is in support of her actions but if it is former then the woman have to decide whether to leave everything she worked and built,for a common prostitute.This is a lesson for men that pay girls for sex without knowing that these people are not your typical or average girls,they can ruin you if they put their mind to it.

Ok why should she wait to know if the husband doesn't want her before going?Then leaving everything she built...is she the only one building? The husband that played away match did not build too? Yet he is willing to go. If it's property, a good lawyer will get her half of everything the man owns. So let's leave all these stories...The only reason the woman should stay is if she wants to. That's all.

craziebone:


i agree with you. He has a part to play in it. But we really do not know the truth. This lady may be telling the truth afterall. The man may have been sex starved and that's why he went outside.

You may say that the man is a dog and whatever, but like i said, we really do not kow what happened. There are women out there who feel they have to with hold sex from their men as a means to punish the man. Well ladies have to understand that if they want a thing from their man, who isn't an unreasonable sex maniac, what they need to do is to talk it over. You don't go about thinking you are some moral authority to punish anyone much less your spouse. We all should know that with holding sex from our partners as a means of blackmail is completely wrong. Talk things over, that's the mature and civilized way to go about it.

As for my fellow men. If a Lady is with holding sex from you, what you need to do is not to begin to cheat on her! What you need to do is to talk things over if she has a good reason. But if she doesn't have a good reason and she is doing that thinking she has some kind of power over you, DIVORCE HER!!! She probably might have given you one or two children and that means she doesn't stand a chance very much in the dating game should she lose you. We men have to begin to make it an unfavourable game to play for those women who wouldn't talk things over with you but think they have some kind of power over the man by with holding sex from him.

Guy abeg no dey deceive yourself. Who tell u say woman with 1 or 2 children no stand chance for dating game. Shuo....u dey dis country at all? Abi you no see Ibinabo, monalisa chinda, Stella damascus and gbo gbo ero? Talk another thing make we hear abeg.

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Ok why should she wait to know if the husband doesn't want her before going?Then leaving everything she built...is she the only one building? The husband that played away match did not build too? Yet he is willing to go. If it's property, a good lawyer will get her half of everything the man owns. So let's leave all these stories...The only reason the woman should stay is if she wants to. That's all.

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Your asking why should she wait so you want her to pack and go without hearing from the husband just because someone sent her message on Facebook. Odiegwu in this Nigeria you will get half of the man's property,my dear this not US.Besides when I mean built I wasn't referencing to building.I already stated that it is her decision to stay or leave. If she likes let her not analyse the situation critically and leave her marriage is her choice. The girl in question was using someone picture that goes to show you she is out to get the wife out the way. I am not in the situation but I have stated what I will do, if it is me.

Dabbyfab:
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Your asking why should she wait so you want her to pack and go without hearing from the husband just because someone sent her message on Facebook. Odiegwu in this Nigeria you will get half of the man's property,my dear this not US.Besides when I mean built I wasn't referencing to building.I already stated that it is her decision to stay or leave. If she likes let her not analyse the situation critically and leave her marriage is her choice. The girl in question was using someone picture that goes to show you she is out to get the wife out the way. I am not in the situation but I have stated what I will do, if it is me.

Oga which one u dey? U said she should stay in her marriage unless the husband doesn't want her which I responded to. Now you are talking about her leaving without hearing from d husband. Do those two sentences mean d same thing? Odiegwu!! Go n ask divorcees wetin dey happen for court these days...unless the woman no know book before dem go do Nollywood movie style for her.

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Oga which one u dey? U said she should stay in her marriage unless the husband doesn't want her which I responded to. Now you are talking about her leaving without hearing from d husband. Do those two sentences mean d same thing? Odiegwu!! Go n ask divorcees wetin dey happen for court these days...unless the woman no know book before dem go do Nollywood movie style for her.

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Yes I said she should not leave her marriage based on that message on Facebook. When someone wants what you got,they will go to great length to take that away. The man is giving you money so why are you sending message to the wife .
I don talk my own. If she likes let her not hear the husband version before walking away thereby giving the girl the satisfaction she so crave for. You think is easy to walk away from a marriage?Ask Hillary Clinton why she didn't walk out of her marriage after her husband scandal affair with Monica Lewinsky. I am not supporting infidelity,you have no idea how it disgust me but this one is obvious someone is out to kick someone out from her home. Lest I forget, I am Madam not Oga

Jackrich:
You have no idea what you're talking about .
It is well defined in Nigeria customary court and embedded in the constitution for a man to wife more than one woman. The man is still acting within the tenets of our laws and culture - The women can kill themselves abeg.

pls can i talk to u privately?

Kosy79:
pls can i talk to u privately?

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daretodiffer:
You cannot make adultery illegal in a secular country, many people (both men and women) will fight it. Adultery is not the same as polygamy.

It is not a constitutoonal right. It wasn't conferred by the Constitution.

I dont know whether to envy, be happy for or pity this Babe ' s husband

It will require a very cool headed and equally exposed/ intelligent man to handle you.