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Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by greatness22(m): 6:15pm On Jun 01, 2016
Medsimon01:


An unbeliever is someone that doesn't believe in Jesus as his/her saviour and also do the will of The Father-God wholeheartedly.. Muslim and others with those dat just attend church service and called themselves Christian but do not have 'Christ like' character are UNBELIEVERS..
Why are you talking as if you're drunk? Who are you to judge?
Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by Rukkydelta(f): 6:16pm On Jun 01, 2016
Why the heck will you develop feelings for someone that doesn't share the same religious view with you ? :-/ Smh
Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by Surfboard(m): 6:24pm On Jun 01, 2016
greatness22:
But can't things just change a little bit?

Things can change, but it will also mean that you both will have to ignore everyone that doesn't want you to be together. You may be ready to stick to your guns, but can the same be said about her?
Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by Surfboard(m): 6:26pm On Jun 01, 2016
Rukkydelta:
Why the heck will you develop feelings for someone that doesn't share the same religious view with you ? :-/ Smh

Why can't he? Does having a different religious view mean he can't love her? Na wa for you o
Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by Medsimon01(m): 6:30pm On Jun 01, 2016
greatness22:
Why are you talking as if you're drunk? Who are you to judge?

study the word of God.
am not judging anyone..
It is already written in the scriptures.
better go and study d word of God and have wisdom. and understanding...
Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by greatness22(m): 6:33pm On Jun 01, 2016
Omotayor123:

I think sharing the same view about politics strengthen their bound.
Bola and remi are politicians... Politicians will hold hands with anybody. Even their worst Enemy.


I had like that love to find me a Muslim brother wink cheesy
Tayo sef grin
Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by greatness22(m): 6:36pm On Jun 01, 2016
Medsimon01:


study the word of God.
am not judging anyone..
It is already written in the scriptures.
better go and study d word of God and have wisdom. and understanding...
I've heard you king Solomon angry
Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by annnikky(f): 6:53pm On Jun 01, 2016
Medsimon01:


An unbeliever is someone that doesn't believe in Jesus as his/her saviour and also do the will of The Father-God wholeheartedly.. Muslim and others with those dat just attend church service and called themselves Christian but do not have 'Christ like' character are UNBELIEVERS..
With all this u just explained I dnt think that religion should be a barrier to relationship/marriage cos wen two grown up people r in luv one day, one of them will definitely convert d other into being a member of his/her religion.

Wen there's luv nothing is impossible cos luv endureth and conquers all things.

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Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by greatness22(m): 7:40pm On Jun 01, 2016
annnikky:

With all this u just explained I dnt think that religion should be a barrier to relationship/marriage cos wen two grown up people r in luv one day, one of them will definitely convert d other into being a member of his/her religion.

Wen there's luv nothing is impossible cos luv endureth and conquers all things.
I love you for this brilliant comment. You took the word out of my mouth.

I feel like kissing you. wink

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Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by annnikky(f): 7:53pm On Jun 01, 2016
greatness22:
I love you for this brilliant comment. You took the word out of my mouth.

I feel like kissing you. wink
Tnx..greatness22... smiley

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Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by greatness22(m): 8:02pm On Jun 01, 2016
annnikky:
Tnx..greatness22... smiley
You're welcome sweetness
Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by Rukkydelta(f): 8:08pm On Jun 01, 2016
Surfboard:


Why can't he? Does having a different religious view mean he can't love her? Na wa for you o

Yeah it does unless you aren't a true beliver of your religion
Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by Rukkydelta(f): 8:09pm On Jun 01, 2016
Surfboard:


Why can't he? Does having a different religious view mean he can't love her? Na wa for you o

Yeah it does unless you aren't a true worshiper and believer of your religion
Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by annnikky(f): 8:14pm On Jun 01, 2016
greatness22:
You're welcome sweetness
So I hope u'll go on with wat u've with d lady cos to me religion isn't a barrier to relationship/marriage.... smiley

Wat matters most is luv, peace, happiness n character.....
Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by asid(m): 8:24pm On Jun 01, 2016
Medsimon01:


An unbeliever is someone that doesn't believe in Jesus as his/her saviour and also do the will of The Father-God wholeheartedly.. Muslim and others with those dat just attend church service and called themselves Christian but do not have 'Christ like' character are UNBELIEVERS..

What is the most important commandment in the Bible, if you don't mind my asking?

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Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by Surfboard(m): 8:34pm On Jun 01, 2016
Rukkydelta:

Yeah it does unless you aren't a true worshiper and believer of your religion

Who makes these rules? And how do you even determine who a true worshipper is?

And to think that our generation was meant to be different...smh
Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by greatness22(m): 8:47pm On Jun 01, 2016
annnikky:

So I hope u'll go on with wat u've with d lady cos to me religion isn't a barrier to relationship/marriage.... smiley

Wat matters most is luv, peace, happiness n character.....
Nope, she's married now.
Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by annnikky(f): 8:53pm On Jun 01, 2016
greatness22:
Nope, she's married now.
Ehya..sori.
Dnt wori u'll soon fall in luv again undecided
Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by annnikky(f): 8:57pm On Jun 01, 2016
asid:


What is the most important commandment in the Bible, if you don't mind my asking?
LOVE
Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by greatness22(m): 9:01pm On Jun 01, 2016
annnikky:
Ehya..sori.
Dnt wori u'll soon fall in luv again undecided
Thanks
Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by Nobody: 9:27pm On Jun 01, 2016
I'm really sorry Op...

There was this muslim girl i really liked and believed there was a possibility of tieing the knot with her ( not now though ), i was extremely disappointed when i found out that their holy book condemns marriage between a Christian male and a Muslim female( in this case, the children would grow up being christians) but supports the one between a Muslim male and a Christian female( in this case, the children will grow up being muslims ofcourse)....
You should know the penalty for going against this rule...

Whoever that wrote that book made sure they could convert nonbelievers through any possible way including taking advantage of ones emotions (love) ....

Well, if you feel you both can face the pending consequences, then go on and marry her.... I'm christian and i dont wish you to convert to her religion though thats your choice but if she converts to christianity, she's putting herself and possibly you in serious danger....

I advise that you leave her and find someone else ( that would be really hard though)....

Really sorry bro...
My 2 cents wink
Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by annnikky(f): 10:19pm On Jun 01, 2016
greatness22:
Thanks
U wlcm dear
Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by asid(m): 11:00pm On Jun 01, 2016
annnikky:

LOVE

That answers the OP question, and the guy preaching believer or UNBELIEVERS, segregating yourself based on religional sentiments , just shows he knows nothing of what he's talking about.
To speak from his angle, Jesus himself mixed with UNBELIEVERS with love, so permit me to say he's speaking absolutely RUBBISH.

I like your open-mindedness Annnikky

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Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by Impactever(m): 5:04am On Jun 02, 2016
This religion barriers to marriage is really causing a serious proplem among young people who intend getting married soon .


They worst aspect of this issue is even among the Christian religion where some Christian denominations are forbidden from getting married to other Christians in a different denomination.

for instance, the JEHOVAH'S WITNESS members only marry within themselves...... ...and so many other Christian denominations like that ..

I am being tempted to think that such ideas among the Christiandom doesn't encourage unity and mutual understanding among the Christian faith .
Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by Smellymouth: 7:04am On Jun 02, 2016
greatness22:
Boss, you gats say something oh, cos am falling in love with a beautiful Muslim lady again

You should go ahead bro. The issue here is --" will your folks agree to it? " smiley

My dad got married to a christian and today, he is a christian..I saw some comments on this thread and I weep for Christianity..

Lol.. Enjoy ur day bro cool
Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by Smellymouth: 7:06am On Jun 02, 2016
Medsimon01:


An unbeliever is someone that doesn't believe in Jesus as his/her saviour and also do the will of The Father-God wholeheartedly.. Muslim and others with those dat just attend church service and called themselves Christian but do not have 'Christ like' character are UNBELIEVERS..


Lol. So it's only BELIEVERS that will enter Heaven? cheesy
Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by sanandreas(m): 9:11am On Jun 02, 2016
Stay away from such temptations. Leave a Muslim girl to her muslim brothers. Religion today is one of the major cause of disunity in our nation today. Although there are cases where Muslim men marry Christain women and they both practice their faith separately.
Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by greatness22(m): 9:16am On Jun 02, 2016
Impactever:
This religion barriers to marriage is really causing a serious proplem among young people who intend getting married soon .


They worst aspect of this issue is even among the Christian religion where some Christian denominations are forbidden from getting married to other Christians in a different denomination.

for instance, the JEHOVAH'S WITNESS members only marry within themselves...... ...and so many other Christian denominations like that ..

I am being tempted to think that such ideas among the Christiandom doesn't encourage unity and mutual understanding among the Christian faith .
You're very correct. However, what can be done to revert this religion madness of a thing?
Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by greatness22(m): 9:22am On Jun 02, 2016
GloryIsaac:
I'm really sorry Op...

There was this muslim girl i really liked and believed there was a possibility of tieing the knot with her ( not now though ), i was extremely disappointed when i found out that their holy book condemns marriage between a Christian male and a Muslim female( in this case, the children would grow up being christians) but supports the one between a Muslim male and a Christian female( in this case, the children will grow up being muslims ofcourse)....
You should know the penalty for going against this rule...

Whoever that wrote that book made sure they could convert nonbelievers through any possible way including taking advantage of ones emotions (love) ....

Well, if you feel you both can face the pending consequences, then go on and marry her.... I'm christian and i dont wish you to convert to her religion though thats your choice but if she converts to christianity, she's putting herself and possibly you in serious danger....

I advise that you leave her and find someone else ( that would be really hard though)....

Really sorry bro...
My 2 cents wink
Thanks Bro.
Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by greatness22(m): 9:31am On Jun 02, 2016
sanandreas:
Stay away from such temptations. Leave a Muslim girl to her muslim brothers. Religion today is one of the major cause of disunity in our nation today. Although there are cases where Muslim men marry Christain women and they both practice their faith separately.
Thanks.

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Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by greatness22(m): 9:38am On Jun 02, 2016
Smellymouth:


You should go ahead bro. The issue here is --" will your folks agree to it? " smiley

My dad got married to a christian and today, he is a christian..I saw some comments on this thread and I weep for Christianity..

Lol.. Enjoy ur day bro cool
Thanks boss. Religion intolerance everywhere, but we go jump am pass.



mimzy all the way.

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Re: Should Religion Be A Barrier To Relationship/marriage? by annnikky(f): 10:12am On Jun 02, 2016
asid:


That answers the OP question, and the guy preaching believer or UNBELIEVERS, segregating yourself based on religional sentiments , just shows he knows nothing of what he's talking about.
To speak from his angle, Jesus himself mixed with UNBELIEVERS with love, so permit me to say he's speaking absolutely RUBBISH.

I like your open-mindedness Annnikky
Tnx dear

All he's talking about is wat d Bible says n wat about wat Christ says about LOVE? Cos LOVE is the greatest commandment in the Bible.

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