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Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by AngelAhnie(f): 7:27pm On Jun 01, 2016
BiafraBushBoy:


Yo baby am fine.. Rain just spoilt my day...
Sorry sweet,hope you are okay?
Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by Nobody: 7:28pm On Jun 01, 2016
firstEVA:
it's genuine love, one you've never experienced in your life. Q
love is not sufficient in marriage, that same love will make u spend the rest of your life in agony.
Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by Masterclass32: 7:29pm On Jun 01, 2016
This is a dilemma.

This girl is doing this thing few months to your wedding. There's no guarantee she would stop after marriage. Its also not certain that she will continue the double dating game after tying the knot. She may indeed change. Human nature is quite complex.

If I were in your shoes, I would think hard before proceeding. I'd rather go with someone known not to double date than one that has the tendency. Once the tendency is there, it could happen within or outside marriage. The fact that she is indulged in this act few months to your wedding doesn't help matters.

Yet she could also change and severe all ties with her other romantic interests. That will depend on her level of respect and love for you. I''ve seen notorious flirts really settle down after getting married.

Think deep and hard and follow your heart. Your happiness is the main thing here.
Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by lizarazus(m): 7:31pm On Jun 01, 2016
Bros run for ur life. it happend to me i forgave her after a lot of apology and promises. but it repeated itsef later. she will not change leave that thing.

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Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by BiafraBushBoy(m): 7:31pm On Jun 01, 2016
AngelAhnie:
Sorry sweet,hope you are okay?
Back to my Hot_el room.. hope u understand.
Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by BiafraBushBoy(m): 7:31pm On Jun 01, 2016
AngelAhnie:
Sorry sweet,hope you are okay?
Back to my Hot_el room.. hope u understand.
They booked for me...
Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by ronald4lif(m): 7:33pm On Jun 01, 2016
MUVA:



Does your pm work? I'd like to discuss something private with you.

Yes, it does. Alternatively, you can drop me a mail at harmony4fizzy@gmail.com for swift response.
Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by AngelAhnie(f): 7:34pm On Jun 01, 2016
BiafraBushBoy:

Back to my Hot_el room.. hope u understand.
They booked for me...
Alone?
Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by BiafraBushBoy(m): 7:35pm On Jun 01, 2016
AngelAhnie:
Alone?
Should I have gone with family members??...
lol
Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by dnawah(m): 7:39pm On Jun 01, 2016
POWEROFPEACE:
My fiancée took money from me one day only to wire it into another guys account. God so kind, she forgot the teller inside her bag and I saw it. I took the name and brows it on Facebook. I was very honest with the guy during our chats so that he told me the whole truth. I wish to quit the relationship even though she is begging but I don't know if that is the right decision because I will be 35 years in just few days from now. Your quality advice might just give way to meaning, Please.
bros find another one.if u do DNA tst 4 ur children 2morow and some fail no blem us.belive me or not,she loves d other guy and na him d give am d real koko.the only thing is him no get money.

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Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by Nobody: 7:41pm On Jun 01, 2016
teeghurl:
What a mentality! Chai
Di fuq is your problem with that?

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Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by plaetton: 7:43pm On Jun 01, 2016
Omotayor123:

Did you also take time to ask her why she wire the money to the guy?

The guy might be trying to Black mail her for something that has transpired between them in the past.

Pls. Calm down and take time to find out what the truth really is before taking decision.

Remember, Nobody is perfect. To err is Human and to forgive is Divine.


I wish you a fruitful wedding.

It's always amazing the way that women rationalize their wrong doings.

I am assuming that you would give same advice to your blood brother or son in similar situation ?

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Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by Michellla(f): 7:43pm On Jun 01, 2016
It may seem of little consolation now, but better you found out now before getting married.
Exiting a marriage is considerably more
difficult that exiting an engagement. As for how you exit, that's up to you. If you
feel it's right, then it's the right thing.On the other hand, tomorrow morning you may feel differently after you have cooled off a bit.
or you could go through with the wedding knowing you'd constantly be bugged about it for the rest of your life...

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Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by GodblessNig247(m): 7:45pm On Jun 01, 2016
firstEVA:
Since you are even thinking about it, I believe you should forgive her and go on with the wedding plans.

But truth is, there is tendency for her to cheat again in the future, except she has become a born again fire brand christian or truly understands the marital vows.

Hmmmm. Y are u contradicting yourself? Pls put Gender sentiment aside and advice rationally
Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by plaetton: 7:45pm On Jun 01, 2016
hukslaw:
God has opened your eyes to see what you are about to put yourself into. Believe me God loves you. If you wish to continue with her go ahead brother but the consequence___ you are on your own.

Exactly.
It was a well-timed gift to him.

This guy should be giving testimonies in Church for the great and timely revelation.

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Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by waynejesus: 7:49pm On Jun 01, 2016
ogbeni no dull ur self. ban d wedding

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Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by masterpix(m): 7:49pm On Jun 01, 2016
Hillzy:
Dude sit her down n talk to her to find out wat are problem really is, before u take any decision. But look op u did'nt say wat d order guy said to u( wich I do understand), d guy was plain wit u n d money part wich d bae send to him, which clearly we both know there is sometin going on between both of dem, so op since u have listen d part of d guy in question u should also sit ur financee down n talk to her cos dat nigga might just fabricating some lies just to get even wit ur woman( or maybe he is blackmailing her) or if possible invite d order guy over n let three of u have a round table discussion to know where u stand before taking any decision, u too check am na all wat u guyz have might pass tru be4 even coming to d point of marriage, would just go down d drain like dat ehmm bros
just listen to your analysis why is she begging if she is not guilty

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Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by Coldfeets: 7:51pm On Jun 01, 2016
PapiDShipCapt:

so as him don come look d bag see evidence of promiscuity make he no scream abi?

in this new generation relationship learn to love yourself more

Don't mind all these pὐssy men

Always quick to take a woman's side with the hope that it will make them ladies like them some more. embarassed

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Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by Alezy(m): 8:00pm On Jun 01, 2016
AngelAhnie:
Fine and you?
Am great. hope u had a great day too.

Been seeing ur comments. u really enjoying urself out here.
Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by Fourwinds: 8:00pm On Jun 01, 2016
firstEVA:
Since you are even thinking about it, I believe you should forgive her and go on with the wedding plans.

But truth is, there is tendency for her to cheat again in the future, except she has become a born again fire brand christian or truly understands the marital vows.
she loves d other guy some how... Dat guy must be browsing her website... Nothing dey more painful to know d person wey dey shoki shoki ur wife
Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by Yaboski: 8:03pm On Jun 01, 2016
Fogive her aand cary on with d weeding as planed pls
Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by Fourwinds: 8:08pm On Jun 01, 2016
ireneony:
Forgive and forget
hmmmmm...na so e easy! Wey dat guy don dey browse her website tei tei ...
Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by freelancer01(m): 8:09pm On Jun 01, 2016
Your headache.... grin
Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by seangy4konji: 8:24pm On Jun 01, 2016
I just leave the girl I wanted to marry and we been satin fr five years some weeks ago.

While I was hustling in Abuja for just 2 months and there was a misunderstanding of u don't call me and motile her am just and no time to call all the time die to work load. She said she thought we had moved on and she was tired and went to ick a guy. She forgot I still remember her password. I saw everything and worst part she said she has been loyal for five years and she made one mistake that I caused it.

I call her mama and tell am say if she no wan die make she o calm my phone again. After five years. If work carry me go Australia or Ghana for 5 months. My mind go deh there say she go fuckkkk.


With stress of Nigeria. If you marry wrong woman. Bit truth is all this wen are not faithful. 80% o them. God help us.

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Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by E20BILLION(m): 8:28pm On Jun 01, 2016
jasysandra:
There are so many things that can make a woman cheat.

You might even be the reason why.

I just think you should sit her down and have a heart to heart talk.find out why she did it except she did it for the fun of it then there's a problem but even at that,you can't find a perfect partner.
If She's not a cheat,she'll be a thief or even a lier.
If you love her,make it work.

Can you just shut that mouth pls! A cheater ll always be a cheater regardless... If a man is doing anything wrong in a relationship, a lady with virtue will rather opt out of the relationship and prepare for better relationship.

Sluts all over Nairaland...

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Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by godoluwa(m): 8:30pm On Jun 01, 2016
grossintel:
I understand you, but you shouldn't stereotype. Because she did ask you for an affair doesn't make it an appropriate response hence to your generosity. Okay because she did you saying it's not cool to offer assistance to a married lady? Haba.
you missed my point, a married woman that ask for such must be wayward during her days as a single just like op galfriend
Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by E20BILLION(m): 8:36pm On Jun 01, 2016
diva90:
The devil you know is better than the devil that you don't know. What's the guarantee that the next girl won't be worse. I would recommend you forgive and overlook what she did but let her know that there won't be a second chance if she is caught again. Let her cut ties with the man... And start a completely honest life with you. It's not too late to make amends. Secondly do u mean to tell me that you have never cheated on her, had intentions to cheat or helped another female since u have known her? If you love her u will overlook.


You are nothing but a pathetic hoe.
Can you just shut that mouth pls! A cheater ll always be a cheater regardless... If a man is doing anything wrong in a relationship, a lady with virtue will rather opt out of the relationship and prepare for better relationship.

Sluts all over Nairaland...

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Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by sanyahkod(m): 8:47pm On Jun 01, 2016
E20BILLION:



You are nothing but a pathetic hoe.
Can you just shut that mouth pls! A cheater ll always be a cheater regardless... If a man is doing anything wrong in a relationship, a lady with virtue will rather opt out of the relationship and prepare for better relationship.

Sluts all over Nairaland...

Lol. That's harsh though.
Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by teeghurl(f): 8:48pm On Jun 01, 2016
Julianyao:

Di fuq is your problem with that?
Don't be rude boy. Now run along tongue
Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by yenum4u: 8:52pm On Jun 01, 2016
iAmCharis:
There are some set of people I feel very little pity for when their marriages are in shambles - those that saw red flags before tying the knot and ignored it.

Op, use your brain.
Re: I Caught Her Double Dating Just Few Months To Our Wedding. by E20BILLION(m): 8:52pm On Jun 01, 2016
sanyahkod:


Lol. That's harsh though.

You think that was harsh, no Bruv, it wasn't. What is harsh here was her response to that Op situation. Can she ask her brother or son to go ahead with such marriage? I guess the answer is No.

Let her bounce from here and play with her fellow hoes who r taking over the thread

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