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Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by dammyjay93(m): 12:15pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
It has happened to me on like two occasions and in both cases I lose respect for them afterwards. Romancelanders what are your views? |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by Pheals(f): 12:18pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
Y not u want the gal to die in love affection |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by sinaj(f): 12:19pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
It's not kul coz most guys tend to loose respect for them. Guys always wana b in charge. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by dammyjay93(m): 12:24pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
I tried to reciprocate the affection and all but you know, they just came off as cheap Pheals: |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by ErnieSmallzz(f): 12:34pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
Nah, i can't do it. Cos d guy won't take me serious even if he accepts to date me. Seen a situation lyk dis when i was in sec-sch, a girl asked a guy in my class out, but as a sharp guy he accepted because he knows the girl is going to give him anything he ask 4 (money). So any money he gets from this girl he spent it on his Real Gf!.. |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by dammyjay93(m): 12:36pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
You're on-point sinaj: |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by Nobody: 12:40pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
If it's cool for guys to ask girls out, why's it wrong for girls to ask guys out? Aren't they humans? Don't they have feelings? Can they not express their feelings? I don't see anything wrong with that #IMO 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by gannod(m): 12:45pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
Recently,I had two ladies who admired me and told me they liked me for a relationship. I obliged for one, the other one is married so I told her no but we are still friends till date. It's no big deal 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by firstking01(m): 12:48pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
It's not cool in this part of the world cos of how uncivilized and myopic we africans can be @times. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by Nobody: 12:49pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
It's perfectly fine for a woman to ask a man out. But there's social stigma **She runs the risk of be labeled and taken as everything from desperate to a hoe **And some men perceive her as such and take advantage of her Or want nothing to do with her. °•*I'm feeling defiant these days though So not only would I but I will make it my mission to ask men out. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by Nobody: 12:50pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
i dont know but this thing isnt meant for guys alone now,. Afterall, we all are humans |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by dammyjay93(m): 12:54pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
Comman ask me out ButteredBiscuit: |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by Maxi112: 12:55pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
if guys can ask girls out, why not the girls doing same to guys?? my problem is, dey should do it d right way |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by Smellymouth: 12:56pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
I've had a lady ask me out before. I was surprised, frankly, but it did pique my interest in the individual. Didn't work out, in the end, but it was very exciting just because the lady actually made decisions and I still respect her till date. So. Yea. Do it. Sometimes we MEN get tired of having to initiate everything. 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by tee59(f): 12:57pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
Why not? Maturity matters a lot. It doesn't mean d lady is cheap. Though, som guys see dis approach as not pleasant enof, while odas wil respect and appreciate d lady for comn out of her shell. Who told u dat d one he chases arnd can make a better partner dan d one dat woo him. Not all married couples out dre, d wooing was don only by d man. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by Nobody: 1:01pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
dammyjay93:.... If you let me take you out I will give you a tour of New York,show you the statue of liberty take you to the sun Only say yes! ..... |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by dammyjay93(m): 1:06pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
OMG yes yes! We'll go to NewYork, we'll see the statue of liberty 2geda but ermm be going to the sun, I'll come and meet you there Baby ButteredBiscuit: |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by lovingT(f): 1:07pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
I think it's just the Nigerian mentality. I don't c anything wrong with it. Just like giving flowers is a beautiful thing but not appreciated by most Ladies. Guys can still take charge not withstanding who asked who out. But since we in this country, ladies should rather keep quiet n maintain their respect. |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by Nobody: 1:10pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
dammyjay93:...You something See now I wish I could take you out fo real |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by dammyjay93(m): 1:13pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
nutty you! ButteredBiscuit: |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by Nobody: 1:17pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
dammyjay93:so they tell me |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by Nobody: 1:20pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
lovingT:*Mmm,I'm African American And you would think we would be more liberal ...nope The same social stigma that comes with asking a man out there applies here. An women fear them the same ....sad. |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by Smellymouth: 1:39pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
sinaj: It'll vary from guy to guy, I would say. It's likely that the more confident, or, dare I say it, cocky, the guy is, then he'll either not appreciate a girl thinking that she gets to ask him out, or he'll let it feed his confidence and think that he's just that great. And for less confident guys, they might appreciate being asked out, since that means you must like him at least a little bit. It takes the guess work out of it. It takes guts to ask someone out no matter what gender you are. So I totally respect someone who asks me out. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by sinaj(f): 2:07pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
Smellymouth: Individual varies tho Dnt think I will be able to ask a guy out tho |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by Smellymouth: 2:21pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
sinaj: Lol.. Be brave |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by sinaj(f): 2:55pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by David25(m): 3:08pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
Having girl bold enough to ask a guy out is priceless!! If she is someone I like, then YES! we are a go. Some boys who sees it otherwise need to grow up. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by Smellymouth: 3:11pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
David25: Well said bro |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by Smellymouth: 3:12pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
sinaj: Lol.. I understand your point though. Okay, lemme ask you out then |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by SuperSupremo(m): 3:15pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
Normally girls asks us out everyday but they do it indirectly, if only you have the capacity to decode actions and inactions of ladies you gonna find out Few will say it directly but me for instance even before you say it I'd already decoded it and will lead the way. My decodings are so accurate so I got no wahala. I got a lot of problems with such ladies when I was younger and it only fortified me with experience which I now use wisely 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by dammyjay93(m): 3:35pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
Oshey baddest SuperSupremo: |
Re: Is It Okay For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? by UyiIredia(m): 3:46pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
dammyjay93: Why would you lose respect for them ? There's nothing wrong with a lady asking a guy out. As a matter of fact, it shows she's a go-getter which is good. |
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