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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by dollyjoy(f): 6:55pm On Jun 02, 2016
iykekelvins:
Ladies in the house

Some girls find it hard to trust good-looking guys that are asking them out.

They feel they're flirts. Why so?
Do you really blame such ladies Almost every lady want a good looking,cool dude so it's only normal to be suspicious knowing fully well a whole bunch of ladies can deny their parent's name to be with him.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Twaci(f): 6:55pm On Jun 02, 2016
Smellymouth:



What is the most commonly missed activity or action in the bedroom that all guys should be doing?
pre-intimacy!

We do not want a slambam!

Make us want to give it up, u'know.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by iykekelvins(m): 6:56pm On Jun 02, 2016
safarigirl:
same reason guys think good-looking girls are sluts.

Girls just want security in their relationship. It's not just about him being a flirt, it's about the girl having to chase away other girls from he man every other day. You're not sure if he's still into you especially when you see the calibre of girls that hang around him sometimes.

Other times, it's like you're just waiting for him to leave you....it's emotionally draining to date a fine boy mbok
Lol, do you advice we reduce our female friends instead?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by chigoizie7(m): 6:56pm On Jun 02, 2016
safarigirl:
some girls want to know the kind of fellow drilling her hole... Just in case he deposits his sp3rm there afterwards, you want to be sure your child won't be an olodo grin

Anyway, truth is, dating is a game. Some girls want you to go the extra mile


Lolz, so, they shouldn't be annoyed or upset if I decide to abandon the game mid-way after she must have accepted to play with me

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 6:56pm On Jun 02, 2016
Cutehector:
Fourth Question

When a girl visits a guy in his house/lodge and they are just new in dating, is it appropriate for the guy to initiate any form of intimacy

or is it advisable for him to be patient enough until when she is very much confortable with him so as to avoid any form of awkward moments

It is advisable to be patient if truly the dude has good intentions for the lady, most ladies will interprete an advance from you on her first visit as " he just wants to shag and run"

Except on rare occasions where the chemistry is so high that they both cannot hold it any longer...

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 6:56pm On Jun 02, 2016
charijee:
Funny question

A little bit of jealousy is part of the love game but in this case, that jealousy can be extremely dangerous.
Why would a guy who claims to be in love have a side chick It only means one thing, which is, he's fallen out of love with the supposedly main chick.
Looking at it from all shades, it's wrong
To me, the only side chick that poses no threat is his blood sister (after all she's a chick) grin
Having side chick doesn't necessarily means you stopped loving your main chick. It's more like having s*x affair with another girl. Not love.

This could be as a result of many things. Maybe distance, not getting enough s*x from main chick, adventure, or just nature (The polygamy in men).

I think a guy who respects his GF enough to keep his side chick far far far away from his GF shouldn't be bothered tongue

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by JeffreyJamez(m): 6:57pm On Jun 02, 2016
Why do girls always like to form all cool and friendly with each other but deep down, they are full with envy, jealousy and hate for each other?

Cc: Ishilove, Safarigirl,Twaci, Charijee.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by safarigirl(f): 6:58pm On Jun 02, 2016
Cutehector:
Fourth Question

When a girl visits a guy in his house/lodge and they are just new in dating, is it appropriate for the guy to initiate any form of intimacy

or is it advisable for him to be patient enough until when she is very much confortable with him so as to avoid any form of awkward moments
it's not even appropriate for a girl to visit a guy early into their relationship to begin with.

But where she's that naive or has deposited that much trust in you, better you don't break it by coming on too strong. Girls like to be romanced and all that mushy stuff before they get down with you, they want to feel that deep, emotional connection.

Flirt with her (not heavily), just like you would if you were still toasting her, make jokes (sometimes sexual), touch her a few times so she knows you're physically interested (hands, wrists, you can just 'mistakenly' wink brush her thigh with yours)....but DON'T go in for the kill.

Tease her until she flips wink

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by RoyalBlak007: 6:59pm On Jun 02, 2016
ogorwyne:

U can ask me.

according to the saying among guys...Is it true girls never forget that guy that pops the cherry first?they even remember the color of d shorts he wore that very day cheesy....just wanna know if it's true. cool

...and dat same guy can get access to the girls honey-pot again..if he plays his cards well cool...no matter her relationship status...no matter how long...How true is this please
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 6:59pm On Jun 02, 2016
Ireneony why you ignoring me?


That's my question for you
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by iykekelvins(m): 6:59pm On Jun 02, 2016
dollyjoy:
Do you really blame such ladies Almost every lady want a good looking,cool dude so it's only normal to be suspicious knowing fully well a whole bunch of ladies can deny their parent's name to be with him.

.
Thanks for your answer joy
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 7:01pm On Jun 02, 2016
STFUareyouG0d:
Having side chick doesn't necessarily means you stopped loving your main chick. It's more like having s*x affair with another girl. Not love.

This could be as a result of many things. Maybe distance, not getting enough s*x from main chick, adventure, or just nature (The polygamy in men).

I think a guy who respects his GF enough to keep his side chick far far far away from his GF shouldn't be bothered tongue


TRUE...

A man knows who his heart belongs to! You can fry his chicken in diamond oil and do monkey flips on his dick but if you ain't the one, you ain't the one...

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by kinglekan: 7:01pm On Jun 02, 2016
rawpadgin:
ok, why is this particular girl in my street always stares at me?

Mr Street boy grin
Mr Observer
Mr Reporter... giving us breaking news
Mr "nah only u get eyes" grin
Mr "I must ask question" undecided

Kotinue askin o!

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by ogorwyne(f): 7:02pm On Jun 02, 2016
iykekelvins:
Ladies in the house

Some girls find it hard to trust good-looking guys that are asking them out.

They feel they're flirts. Why so?
Well, for some ladies its due to an experience they must have had with a good looking guy. While for some, its just their insecurities screaming out. A flirt is a flirt, handsome or not. The handsome ones just have girls trying too hard to be the one. They are not all bad.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 7:02pm On Jun 02, 2016
iykekelvins:
Why is it that some girls can't have a good relationship(I mean being friends) with guys they're a little bit older than. Even if the guy is very mature


Not so my dear.

I dated a guy who am a bit older than I gave him all I can give but d guy keeps getting jealousy wen he seems me wit other guys even wit my coursemate.

I gave him a lot of my time but he wasted it. He always think am cheating on him.

He said am not proud of avin him, but I try to introduce him to my brother nd my Priest but he refuse to see them so wat can I do. He doesnt wat to see those am close to. Why only him knows.

Am older than him but I make him to take over d relationship but he failed.

Girls doesnt reject a guy cos he is younger than them but for what d guy thinks of d relationship.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 7:02pm On Jun 02, 2016
mimzy:



TRUE...

A man knows who his heart belongs to! You can fry his chicken in diamond oil and do monkey flips on his dick but if you ain't the one, you ain't the one...
Awwwwwwwwww embarassed embarassed embarassed Your BF must be very lucky

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Twaci(f): 7:02pm On Jun 02, 2016
Announcer007:




I am very impressed with the both of your opinions almost like an expert marriage counselors. But unfortunately I am opposite of the man you described in your writeup. I shower my with complements buy her gifts every now and then , she drives the best suvs in my garage but recently I got proof that she's fvckin the driver. Even when she refuses me on the claims that she's tired from her business or tear she had over 10 yes during child birth is still paining her. Why this behavior
Like I said, communication matters.

Do not beat around the bush, tell her what you have noticed and let her defend herself.

Now ask yourself;

Is she remorseful?

Is she willing to try again?

Do you love her enough to carry on?

The answers to these questions will help you make a decision.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by safarigirl(f): 7:02pm On Jun 02, 2016
iykekelvins:
Lol, do you advice we reduce our female friends instead?
it is always advisable to reduce the number of friends of the opposite sex you hang with when you enter a committed relationship.

How would you feel if your girl had a ton of male friends she hangs out with, talks or chats to on a daily basis? You eventually begin to get paranoid and suspect her every move even though innocent and it starins the relationship.

Same goes for girls

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by charijee(f): 7:02pm On Jun 02, 2016
STFUareyouG0d:
Having side chick doesn't necessarily means you stopped loving your main chick. It's more like having s*x affair with another girl. Not love.

This could be as a result of many things. Maybe distance, not getting enough s*x from main chick, adventure, or just nature (The polygamy in men).

I think a guy who respects his GF enough to keep his side chick far far far away from his GF shouldn't be bothered tongue
You just separated sex from love in your relationship....loving another and having sex with another...what kinda relationship is that

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 7:03pm On Jun 02, 2016
RoyalBlak007:


according to the saying among guys...Is it true girls never forget that guy that pops the cherry first?they even remember the color of d shorts he wore that very day cheesy....just wanna know if it's true. cool

...and dat same guy can get access to the girls honey-pot again..if he plays his cards well cool...no matter her relationship status...no matter how long...How true is this please



IMO

The first part of your question is very true, we remember every little detail grin

But the second part of your question is nothing but a farce, once a lady has moved on, she has moved on.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 7:04pm On Jun 02, 2016
Cutehector:
Fourth Question

When a girl visits a guy in his house/lodge and they are just new in dating, is it appropriate for the guy to initiate any form of intimacy

or is it advisable for him to be patient enough until when she is very much confortable with him so as to avoid any form of awkward moments
Its better to wait till the fourth or fifth date, as you said make sure the lady is comfortable with you, to avoid stories that touch.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 7:04pm On Jun 02, 2016
charijee:
You just separated sex from love in your relationship....loving another and having sex with another...what kinda relationship is that
Things guys do grin grin grin you won't understand. You won't!

S€x with both, love one
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by safarigirl(f): 7:04pm On Jun 02, 2016
JeffreyJamez:
Why do girls always like to form all cool and friendly with each other but deep down, they are full with envy, jealousy and hate for each other?

Cc: Ishilove, Safarigirl,Twaci, Charijee.
my brother, I ask this same question everyday.

Girls in the house, please answer. Why are you people so complicated?

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by dannyben5: 7:05pm On Jun 02, 2016
av been observing, now my quest.why is it that girls can never summon the courage to walk up to a guy she like even if she dying inside to have that guy?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 7:05pm On Jun 02, 2016
STFUareyouG0d:
Awwwwwwwwww embarassed embarassed embarassed Your BF must be very lucky

There is no point giving myself headache over what I have no control over.

I've been there, done that, gone tru that road and I know where it ends.

I just can't be bothered. Checking his phone self is a no no if I don't wana have high bp cos there will always be sumfn annoying to find on his phone...

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by ivyy(f): 7:05pm On Jun 02, 2016
UyiIredia:
What's the best way to approach a girl ? Nice idea you had by the way.

When you come on as someone who isn't interested in her romantically.
Best strategy.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by JeffreyJamez(m): 7:05pm On Jun 02, 2016
safarigirl:
my brother, I ask this same question everyday.

Girls in the house, please answer. Why are you people so complicated?

You no be girl? Hahahaha grin

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by firstking01(m): 7:05pm On Jun 02, 2016
Twaci:
They want to be truly happy. smiley
Lol, Twaci, you kidding me right?, cos living your life trying to please a girl is just like my grandma competing a 1500m race with usain bolt, my sister it's impossican'ttongue
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Smellymouth: 7:07pm On Jun 02, 2016
mimzy:


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Most guys don't like it and ladies in actual fact prefer this to the real deal


Twaci:
pre-intimacy!

We do not want a slambam!

Make us want to give it up, u'know.

It may sound harsh, but when I want to have sex,I actually want to have sex; I don't want to spend hours fiddling around and pretending to get more and more turned on - if I'm in bed with you and you're naked, believe me when I say I'm already turned on.
grin

Too much pre-intimacy not only means that we won't be able to last as long,but also that we won't want to, as we're likely to be so tired from hours of endless wanky-pokey that we won't have the energy for a marathon session. Trust me - men find nothing sexier than a woman who's raring to go right away.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Twaci(f): 7:07pm On Jun 02, 2016
Cutehector:
Fourth Question

When a girl visits a guy in his house/lodge and they are just new in dating, is it appropriate for the guy to initiate any form of intimacy

or is it advisable for him to be patient enough until when she is very much confortable with him so as to avoid any form of awkward moments
I'd advice he be patient. She could be testing waters, to see what he's really all about. Is he really in for sex? Or commitment?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by safarigirl(f): 7:07pm On Jun 02, 2016
JeffreyJamez:


You no be girl? Hahahaha grin
oh no, not fully. I'm kind of a hybrid, so yeah sometimes, i don't understand certain female behaviour

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by dollyjoy(f): 7:08pm On Jun 02, 2016
naijamakossa:
big or small dickson
which do girls prefer
An average NigerIan girl is okay with a moderate size dick,just be smart and tactful irrespective of the size of your joystick in the act.

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