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Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by Nobody: 7:34am On Jun 05, 2016 |
MizMyColi:@doveda I guess this is why pibkiberry and Arsenate called her a hypocrite. She said she dont want to marry and got married so is this not contradiction? anti marriage feminists try and practice what you preach. bye. |
Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by MizMyColi(f): 7:38am On Jun 05, 2016 |
Vickyydera: I concur o o. Thank you eehh Marriage is truly essential. I hope you will not bring your Shell brother worker along if I invite you
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Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by Nobody: 7:42am On Jun 05, 2016 |
MizMyColi:yeah sure, just tell me the day. I will be getting married next year too if God willing. Marriage is a thing of joy and achievement, that's what am trying to tell doveda. nobody should say marriage is unimportant. |
Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by Nobody: 7:52am On Jun 05, 2016 |
but mizmycoli if I had knew then that you are a feminist I won't let my brother marry o lolz ,feminists are always strong headed and stubborn ,my bro like submissive women. |
Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by MizMyColi(f): 7:56am On Jun 05, 2016 |
Vickyydera: Hehehehehe Beht Vicky That makes the two of us naa. Have you forgotten you created a thread with the following extracts The general consensus amongDon't modify o I have screenshots Now how is what I posted on this thread any different from what you, Vicky posted above? Humor me please I believe that such backward thinking, rather than creating strong stable marriages only leads to a weak form of it. For a marriage should be between two individuals who know themselves and are complementing each other on their personal growth and development and NOT where one person seeks value and worth in another person or institution ^^^ Aren't we communicating same thing? 1 Like |
Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by MizMyColi(f): 8:05am On Jun 05, 2016 |
Vickyydera: Why won't Vickyydera/vickydera and pinkiberry think the same thing when it is one individual operating both accounts and thinking from one shallow brain? 1 Like
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Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by MizMyColi(f): 8:15am On Jun 05, 2016 |
Hehehehehe More Evidence It's no coincidence that Pinkiberry and Vickyydera are studying one and the same course in the same institute. Using two accounts to act like a confused attack dog on the same thread. Nne, Do you have Multiple Personality Disorder? 1 Like
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Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by Nobody: 8:34am On Jun 05, 2016 |
MizMyColi:I seriously dont have your time and for your info I dont have a shallow Brain, how about you just keep basking in the euphoria of you finally finding a man to marry your fat n ugly atheist asss, ur husband must really be unlucky. thank God you are finally married,now we can hear word on Nairaland cos someone finally cured your insecurity. don't forget to tag "hubby" in all your posts ,cos I know that's your long life dream. 4 Likes |
Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by johnson232: 8:38am On Jun 05, 2016 |
pinkiberry:@bold na for only NL o.... she is a very submissive and understanding wife to her hubby, probably the one doing everything possible to sustain the union... she is just propagating this message to deceive 'em gullible ladies, debasing marriage, when she pray's secretly everyday to God to preserve her marriage... 6 Likes |
Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by Nobody: 8:45am On Jun 05, 2016 |
johnson232:I guess she posted all those things to comfort herself cos she really wanted to be like other married NL like kachisbarbie and others. 3 Likes |
Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by doveda: 8:57am On Jun 05, 2016 |
why are you reading her upside down? Do I still want to get married? No "still want" is Undermining...I DESIRE to get married. If it is marriage you desire, you will have it. It will come. Know the one in whom you have believed. If you do not desire marriage, forget the 1980s talk on this thread....don't force yourself to desire it. It is not compulsory. Fulfilling your inner purpose is what's compulsory. Marriage it is for those who desire it, for those who don't it is not compulsory. There are people who do not desire marriage and outside religious reasons, there is no one to say that marriage is compulsory.. You cannot force marriage on someone who doesn't want it. She already what she desired and gave reasons for it however she believes that people are more than marriage, that fulfilling what is central to their being is more important. I would expect you tell her too much focus on individuality can make one selfish and unsympathetic. An individual person who consider his being and purpose more important than everything else would inadvertently make selfish decisions just to fulfil them. I am very big on the concept of individuality however I realise that everything must be balanced. So it cannot be what I want all the time, there should be consideration for pros and cons and I am not talking about what the society would think. I am part of the group who doesn't care about the society. Myself and my religion are enough for me therefore marriage is important to me because God says it is and I believe that it is for most of the same reason Mizmycoli desires marriage. [b]Why? I want to form a lifelong partnership with someone who understands what it's like to be me. I want to build a home and kids who are replicas of their creator. I am aware that two heads are better than one. I want to be with someone whom I will share my completeness with, someone who understands that I am not lacking in any way. He helps me grow, I help him grow. I want to be the wife of someone who understands that CHRIST IN US IS OUR ONLY HOPE OF GLORY. Not woman in man or man in woman is our only hope of glory. She is right to tell those who haven't found a man yet to look beyond marriage and focus on themselves. Or would rather they cry all day and marry any man because they are getting older? . She is merely telling them to believe that it would happen at the right time and I so agree with her. Vickyydera: 2 Likes |
Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by doveda: 9:08am On Jun 05, 2016 |
I told you intially taht you are the type that don't think for yourself. You #have an irrational fear of being bitter, miserable and lonely. A woman should not train herself for marriage. That I very much agree with. You cannot tell her girl-child to be neat because of her husband. She should be neat because neatness is everything; she shouldn't burn food because of her husband, she shouldn't burn it because it is wasteful and a sign of irresponsibility. . She should train herself because everyone she will address the way she presents herself. THAT IS WHAT SHE IS TALKING ABOUT Vickyydera: |
Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by doveda: 9:09am On Jun 05, 2016 |
Did you read Mind.fullness reply to that guy? I don't like him! There are many unmarried powerful women especially in the corporate world. Vickyydera: |
Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by doveda: 9:12am On Jun 05, 2016 |
You are always stalking me. The report button here I come johnson232: |
Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by doveda: 9:18am On Jun 05, 2016 |
If you were not a follow-follow, you would have attacked him when he mentioned Hilary. There is no sane person on earth who doesn't know that Hilary is married and is still staying married because her marriage is her source of power. She is obsessed with power. She will do anything to be powerful. I am a big fan of that. She is using what she has to get what she wants. For unmarried women like Oprah, they created the power themselves. Marriage to a certain man did not give her power. She is powerful because she is powerful not because she has a powerful spouse I admire both of them. I don't fault Hilary neither do I fault Oprah. To each his/her own. Live and Let live! Vickyydera: 1 Like |
Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by Nobody: 9:18am On Jun 05, 2016 |
she goes round talking about how she dont need marriage. hahahahaha.@doveda
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Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by Nobody: 9:25am On Jun 05, 2016 |
this one got me cracking.
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Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by doveda: 9:25am On Jun 05, 2016 |
You need to learn to comprehend Do you know what desperation mean? It is negative. A desperate person will do anything to achieve something even if it is harmful to their being including marrying an abusive man and a serial cheat. I know all about that. I grew up on in Nigeria Basically, she is saying that one needs to open eyes like frog and not just jump into marriage because they are desperate. People who are desperate will make bad decision and will end up wallowing in regrets. They shouldn't be desperate to marry because of what mo.rons would say. There are times without number on Nairaland where men claim to be doing women a favour by marrying them. I don't flow with that logic at all. I would also stay unmarried than get married to a man who thinks he is doing me a favour because I believe marriage is a two way thing. We would be dong OURSELVES a favour. Vickyydera: |
Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by Nobody: 9:34am On Jun 05, 2016 |
doveda:if I quite instances she said she don't need marriage,she is better as a single lady , my MB go finish . let's just forget her talk. |
Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by doveda: 9:43am On Jun 05, 2016 |
In your mind now you done so but I have managed to refute them all. She has never said she doesn't need marriage so you need to get your facts right. You have serious issues. Vickyydera: |
Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by donephi(m): 9:46am On Jun 05, 2016 |
To each is own. Marriage does not make you Unfulfilled or Fulfilled. Been Fulfilled in life has a lot to do with your personal successes, goals, purpose, achievements but marriage, except it's one one your personal goals. Even though marriage could make you look or claim to be responsible in the eyes of the society but you might be very irresponsible even though you are married. People should quit looking at people as responsible with the lens of marriage. Be you a man or woman and you are not ready for the baggage that comes with marriage but you just want to be tagged Responsible, kindly ponder again and again, it might be very suicidal and at the same time fulfilling. |
Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by Nobody: 9:47am On Jun 05, 2016 |
doveda:in all mizmycoli posts all I can see is a frustrated single lady trying so hard to form boss lady but at the end she still landed under a man's roof. let's see if she won't be humble n good since she is miss independent. |
Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by Nobody: 9:47am On Jun 05, 2016 |
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Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by doveda: 9:50am On Jun 05, 2016 |
Cry me a river You jealous girl Vickyydera: |
Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by Nobody: 9:53am On Jun 05, 2016 |
doveda am not jealous, I dont like people doing the opposite of what they preach. this is what a married woman told her in one of her lamentation thread.
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Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by doveda: 10:02am On Jun 05, 2016 |
Don't quote me again. You are a broken record, I am tired of you Vickyydera: |
Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by Nobody: 10:02am On Jun 05, 2016 |
mizmycoli I dont have a problem with you getting married,my problem with you is that I have always known you to be the head of 'single ladies dont need men association' cos you go about preaching how you want to be a woman of substance and single ladies should forget about men and focus on becoming rich, marriage is the last thing on your mind. so why contradict yourself? 3 Likes |
Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by Nobody: 10:04am On Jun 05, 2016 |
doveda:before I start an argument ,I take my time to study everything. so you can never win me in one. bye and don't quote my cognomen again. |
Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by MizMyColi(f): 11:02am On Jun 05, 2016 |
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Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by JoeBlocks(m): 11:09am On Jun 05, 2016 |
MizMyColi:Is the argument over? Was really having fun reading it all... |
Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by Nobody: 11:11am On Jun 05, 2016 |
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