kaboninc:
Someone go just carry your matter for head, even when you're correct and not at fault but because of their hatred for you, they are ready to go a million mile just to discredit you.

Sadly, they end up making a f.ool of themselves. Disgracing themselves yet still feel satisfied. Tomorrow they'll claim to be intelligent. They have a stu.pid justification for arguing. See argument from the lens of winning rather than learning.

Like a drunk guy telling you he's not drunk but rather his body is drunk. Now I see why they say communication is the key to a successful relationship

Vickyydera:
before I start an argument ,I take my time to study everything. so you can never win me in one. bye and don't quote my cognomen again.

Tallesty1:
A Lady after reading this:



Lady: Oh, I love this. Thanks MizMyColi, I just wish our ladies will learn.

Then she receives a message from boo.

Boo: Are you free? Let's hang out.

Lady: Oh! I love this. Thanks boo.


So she goes out with boo, straffs him all night and everything she read wipes out automatically.


And everything still remains thesame.




BTW, the op failed to realize that marriage increases a man's or a woman's worth too. I don't care who you are or what you have achieved, if you are single then you are incomplete.


And What's with people and their recent attack on marriage btw? Is marriage the only institution that is failing?

Nothing on earth is better than a blessed marriage, it's an achievement on its own, the reason most fail is is our sin.

It is sin that will make a man to hit his woman. It is sin that will make a man see a woman as a lesser being, it's sin that will make a man to cheat on, beat or mistreat his woman in any way. Same thing goes for the woman.


Listen, if we all should repent and follow God's guidelines for marriage then believe you me that marriage will become the best thing on earth.



I know that people will misunderstand me here but I am only responsible for what I mean, not what they understand.


First thing first, a single man is a lonely man and loneliness is an awful thing; it is emptiness, incompleteness, lack of communion, lack of personal companionship. Loneliness is the lack of opportunity to share yourself with someone who understands. If you don't have that person, you are incomplete.

You quoted Bible first so let's rub mind there too, a woman was created to be a helper suitable for man, compatible with him spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically. She is his complement, providing what he lacks and fulfilling his potential.

How woman was created: God took a rib out of the man and from it made a woman. While he created man out of the constituents of soil, he made woman out of man. She is part of him. In fact, she has part of him, and man is incomplete until he gets that part back in the person of a wife.


You mentioned 19th century, bro does it mean that the purpose of marriage then and now are no longer the same? If yes then who changed it?




Though I have replied you before but I want you to understand something, for what it's worth.

A single man is incomplete unless he has the divinely bestowed gift of celibacy! The Bible teaches that celibacy is a special gift from God which is sometimes bestowed on a man or woman when the single status would permit him or her to be more effective in the service of Jesus Christ.

It's a special calling for a special purpose.

kaboninc:
Someone go just carry your matter for head, even when you're correct and not at fault but because of their hatred for you, they are ready to go a million mile just to discredit you.

Sadly, they end up making a f.ool of themselves. Disgracing themselves yet still feel satisfied. Tomorrow they'll claim to be intelligent. They have a stu.pid justification for arguing. See argument from the lens of winning rather than learning.

Like a drunk guy telling you he's not drunk but rather his body is drunk. Now I see why they say communication is the key to a successful relationship

Vickyydera:
this argument has nothing to do with hatred, you just wanna view it that way. Am trying to let the op know that marriage is important and its ok for women to want marriage. Then I used she getting married as an example after all her feminist rants.

Vickyydera:
this argument has nothing to do with hatred, you just wanna view it that way. Am trying to let the op know that marriage is important and its ok for women to want marriage. Then I used she getting married as an example after all her feminist rants.

kaboninc:


You don't know the op. Sadly you don't understand her point of view. Painfully too, someone tried to make you have better understanding. But shamefully, out of ignorance, you vehemently refused to see reasons.

She's not a feminist. And if you think she is, then your understanding of feminism is flawed and as confused as the feminist themselves.

Vickyydera:
this is what am trying to say but some say am jealous cos mzmycoli got married despite her feminist rants.

Vickyydera:
don't mention this anywhere else o. Everybody know mizmycoli as a serious feminist in Nairaland.
cc:tallesty1

Vickyydera:
don't mention this anywhere else o. Everybody know mizmycoli as a serious feminist in Nairaland.
cc:tallesty1

Tallesty1:
4st thing first.

She don marry?

kaboninc:


Like I said, you don't know her.

By the way she claimed you have an alternate

ShaqFu:
What I can't understand is why you sound pained, as long as they're not making a fool of you, that is.

kaboninc:


Which of the goons club you represent?

ShaqFu:
Must I represent a goon club for you to answer a simple question?

Tallesty1:
4st thing first.


She don marry?

Vickyydera:
yes ,she got married without telling anyone.

kaboninc:

Mr, which of the goons club do you represent?