She broke up with me on January,although it was indirectly. She was like she has made the decision long ago.

Anyway we went out separate ways for five months,deleted her on all social medias, during those times she stalks me , she told me so herself. She has been in school those time

Now she came to me saying she just wants me to remove the grudges I have for her. That she has found Christ, that she has changed. Anyway I resisted her for like three days, but she didnt give up on me. So I knew she wanted more than what she was asking for. She later confessed that she still loves me and wants to be a lover again. She told me she never dated any guy during the period but that she told a guy bearing my middle name that she might consider him in two months time. All her exes are bearing the same name/middle name. Anyway I told her that, we shld just be friends, since our problem was lack of understanding , and she said ok, she wld remain friends until I ask her out.

Now I still feel both hatred and love for her , I dont even know if I love her anymore. She suggested we deleted our previous chats on fb , so that I can give her a second chance to start all over again as acquaintance. I agreed.

Now I even feel stupid to have allowed her back even as a friend, considering all the emotional roller coaster I have been through with her despite me not giving up on her still .

Why would a girl come back after 5 months?

I dont think I love her anymore. I dont know what I feel towards her anymore. I dunno if it's hatred or love.

No insults pls. Just pass by if you dont like my post.

@op, just move on. I had a similar experience before with one of my ex last year. As a matter of fact it's like you talking about my ex. She broke up with me for no reason, January last year came back begging six months after saying the exact things yours told you but the reunion was short lived. She ended it herself when she noticed that I was not into her as before. Op, I would advise that you move on, she is might be coming back to you after the one who she hoped on disappointed her. She might want to use you to pass time. Talking from my own experience.

don't trust girls they r Evil. is either she regrets her mistake of living u or coming back for revenge HIV. be alert. one sex can ruin u.

Jackofall:
She broke up with me on January,although it was indirectly. She was like she has made the decision long ago.

Anyway we went out separate ways for five months,deleted her on all social medias, during those times she stalks me , she told me so herself. She has been in school those time

Now she came to me saying she just wants me to remove the grudges I have for her. That she has found Christ, that she has changed. Anyway I resisted her for like three days, but she didnt give up on me. So I knew she wanted more than what she was asking for. She later confessed that she still loves me and wants to be a lover again. She told me she never dated any guy during the period but that she told a guy bearing my middle name that she might consider him in two months time. All her exes are bearing the same name/middle name. Anyway I told her that, we shld just be friends, since our problem was lack of understanding , and she said ok, she wld remain friends until I ask her out.

Now I still feel both hatred and love for her , I dont even know if I love her anymore. She suggested we deleted our previous chats on fb , so that I can give her a second chance to start all over again as acquaintance. I agreed.

Now I even feel stupid to have allowed her back even as a friend, considering all the emotional roller coaster I have been through with her despite me not giving up on her still .

Why would a girl come back after 5 months?

I dont think I love her anymore. I dont know what I feel towards her anymore. I dunno if it's hatred or love.

No insults pls. Just pass by if you dont like my post.

WTF.....afta she slept around for 5 month?...bro r u kiddddin me?..F****K NO...thats why Nigerian women muss never be truuusssted!!!!!(no oofeinse)

She just realised ur greatness...

Kingsasian:
@op, just move on. I had a similar experience before with one of my ex last year. As a matter of fact it's like you talking about my ex. She broke up with me for no reason, January last year came back begging six months after saying the exact things yours told you but the reunion was short lived. She ended it herself when she noticed that I was not into her as before. Op, I would advise that you move on, she is might be coming back to you after the one who she hoped on disappointed her. She might want to use you to pass time. Talking from my own experience.

Wow. Why can't she use another guy to pass time? Why me? This gal actually gave me her fb password during the time we were dating without me asking.

Jackofall:

Why would a girl come back after 5 months?
I dont think I love her anymore. I dont know what I feel towards her anymore. I dunno if it's hatred or love.
No insults pls. Just pass by if you dont like my post.

Her azz got slayed by the dude she left you for and after he was done with her, he dumped her. now she is back to claim the mugu she left behind. that could be the reason

uupgrade:
don't trust girls they r Evil. is either she regrets her mistake of living u or coming back for revenge HIV. be alert. one sex can ruin u.

Revenge of her breaking up with me?

joins queue, pls am at your back and i will come back to comment when i have something to say.

omega25red:
Her azz got slayed by the dude she left you for and after he was done with her, he dumped her. now she is back to claim the mugu she left behind. that could be the reason

Lol. Any other possible reasons?

Jackofall:


Wow. Why can't she use another guy to pass time? Why me? This gal actually gave me her fb password during the time we were dating without me asking.

She thinks that you are the only guy who can be manipulated but you just have to ignore her in order to avoid a second heartbreak. Mine left the second time for one other guy who later dumped her after he left the shores of this country.

Kingsasian:
She thinks that you are the only guy who can be manipulated but you just have to ignore her in order to avoid a second heartbreak. Mine left the second time for one other guy who later dumped her after he left the shores of this country.

Anyway, I have pass the level of usiing my heart in relationship, I dint have heart anymore. I will just enjoy myself this time around. Doesn't matter how it ends .

Jackofall:


Anyway, I have pass the level of usiing my heart in relationship, I dint have heart anymore. I will just enjoy myself this time around. Doesn't matter how it ends .

exactly what I did in her second coming...lol.