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| The New Me That Is Affecting Everyone Including Me by argon500: 8:48am On Jun 12, 2016 |
To be honest, life has been so fair to me. My dad trained me how to be self independent and self reliance which really work out for me. To start with, I am an introvert. I talk less and listen more. My self confidence is unshakable. I do my things in my own way and with God, things has been going perfectly even though ( Oliver Twist). My believe about friendship is that if you have 10 friends, true friends can not be more than 3. The remaining 7 are just always there during good time. They need more from you than what you need from them. They take advantage of your weakness and capitalise on it. Honesty and generosity has been part of me which I am very proud of but I am thinking of putting it on hold. I gave a lot without getting anything in return. People praise you when you are there for them but backbite you when you can't help. For the past 2 months, my concentration had been about a better future. Though solid plans are on ground to achieve it but I think I need more time for myself in order to stay focus. This has affect my social life, kindness and generosity. I had reduced my communication with people, ( facebook, whatsapp, calls and text) single and happy. Infact, people complained everyday about this and I can't help the situation. Sometimes, I am moved by their consign but at the same time, my future is more important to me. This is the time for me to make it happen. How do you advice I handle the people complaining about my new lifestyle? 1 Like |
| Re: The New Me That Is Affecting Everyone Including Me by Debbywills(f): 8:53am On Jun 12, 2016 |
Change is constant, That's what you should know. But wait, you shouldn't really give yourself this credit, let someone do it  |
| Re: The New Me That Is Affecting Everyone Including Me by histemple: 8:59am On Jun 12, 2016 |
Just love and focus on your future. |
| Re: The New Me That Is Affecting Everyone Including Me by youngest85(m): 9:01am On Jun 12, 2016 |
Debbywills:2 cartons of champagne 4 u |
| Re: The New Me That Is Affecting Everyone Including Me by anyicash(m): 9:09am On Jun 12, 2016 |
Let me be honest with you...more people you have in your live, more problems and heartbreak you will encounter..and the more you help people you know, the more they hate you and the more they want your down fall..i can only advice you to make friends only with the needy(motherless babies) not with so called friends you see around you always..they are not happy that you are doing well or you are more focused than them... but if you do want to make nearby friend or friends, then you have to choose your friends "neva let them choose you, you choose them" and always mind the kinda discussion you talk with them..most importantly when you are tempted to tell so called friends about your secret private live...plz kill that feelings immediately...cos d best way to keep secret is to say nothing...wish i can say more but i can't ..God bless your good heart. |
| Re: The New Me That Is Affecting Everyone Including Me by argon500: 9:15am On Jun 12, 2016 |
anyicash: God bless you too. I will keep to that.. thanks |
| Re: The New Me That Is Affecting Everyone Including Me by anyicash(m): 9:34am On Jun 12, 2016 |
argon500:welcome...i am a realist, my approach to issues is based on reality..i don't sensor my thoughts, i don't filter i give them out wholeheartedly,, i give out the raw files..as a logical positivist that i am..i believe in realism. |
| Re: The New Me That Is Affecting Everyone Including Me by argon500: 9:41am On Jun 12, 2016 |
anyicash: That is how it suppose to be. When you are being honest with yourself before making that move, inner peace of mind is always guaranteed. You do not need to tell a blind man is raining...lol |
| Re: The New Me That Is Affecting Everyone Including Me by anyicash(m): 9:47am On Jun 12, 2016 |
argon500:but you will have to very strong cos alot of peeps will dislike you for being real..but don't give a fvck..your smart phone is ur best companion..lol |
| Re: The New Me That Is Affecting Everyone Including Me by Debbywills(f): 9:58am On Jun 12, 2016 |
| Re: The New Me That Is Affecting Everyone Including Me by youngest85(m): 10:05am On Jun 12, 2016 |
Debbywills:uwlc.....am a clairvoyant u knw! |
| Re: The New Me That Is Affecting Everyone Including Me by argon500: 10:10am On Jun 12, 2016 |
anyicash: That has been my lifestyle. Like I said, I am an introvert. Self employed and I work from home. I spend more than 90% of my time on myself. Still Learning continues |
| Re: The New Me That Is Affecting Everyone Including Me by Nobody: 10:19am On Jun 12, 2016 |
The new you arnt affecting me  |
| Re: The New Me That Is Affecting Everyone Including Me by argon500: 10:24am On Jun 12, 2016 |
| Re: The New Me That Is Affecting Everyone Including Me by anyicash(m): 10:51am On Jun 12, 2016 |
argon500: |
| Re: The New Me That Is Affecting Everyone Including Me by anyicash(m): 10:52am On Jun 12, 2016 |
argon500:good....learning indeed continues...Socratez once said that. |
| Re: The New Me That Is Affecting Everyone Including Me by Debbywills(f): 2:15pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
| Re: The New Me That Is Affecting Everyone Including Me by youngest85(m): 5:24pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
Debbywills: |
| Re: The New Me That Is Affecting Everyone Including Me by youngest85(m): 5:24pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
Debbywills:Smiles |
| Re: The New Me That Is Affecting Everyone Including Me by rheether(f): 6:08pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
That's my kind of man. To hell with what people think or say. |
| Re: The New Me That Is Affecting Everyone Including Me by argon500: 7:03pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
| Re: The New Me That Is Affecting Everyone Including Me by Nobody: 7:53pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
Just remain who u are. When u get there, those people complaining abt ur life style will mellow. Ur future shld b ur numb one priority, but u shld at list try and retain those few friends u think they matters. No b those people.........all is well. I keep few friends and am happy that way. Stay calm and focus, NOTHING DO U |
| Re: The New Me That Is Affecting Everyone Including Me by Debbywills(f): 9:54pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
youngest85: Laughs# |
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