N/B: This topic isn't speculating on the differences between having sex with prostitutes than having sex with those who aren't into prostitution. My main concern on centres on the reasons why Men should stop patronizing prostitutes



They say prostitution is as old as man himself and it's eaten deep into the fabrics of the society. Just as churches are springing up here and there, so are brothels found at strategic locations in every area. Certain topics have emerged on nairaland and have discussed why men patronize sex workers. But in this thread, I shall be discussing reasons why men should quit patronizing these sex workers.

My aim is not to spoil anyone's business(no offence to any sex worker reading this) but be that as it may, I would like to advice these ladies that there are better handworks out there than prostitution. That is going to be a topic for another day. Now Let us see reasons why men should stop patronizing sex workers.


1. Prevention of Sexually Transmitted diseases

Condoms are not 100 percent safe in preventing STDs from coming in contact with body fluids, their might be cases where these condoms will mistakenly break and should such sex worker happen to be a carrier of any sexually transmitted infection, the man may be at risk. Not only that, other forms of sex such as MouthAction do pose a great deal of concern. A sex worker who may be infected with such disease may have issues with bleeding gums and thus, such infections may be transferred through exchange of fluids into the man's body system unknowingly. Should a man wish to have MouthAction, it's best he should do it with his wife alone.


2. It destroys a man's destiny

1st Corinthians 6:16 writes, do you not know that he who joins himself with a prostitute becomes one body with her? For it is written, the two shall become one flesh. Chapter 7 says, it is well for a man not to touch a woman, but because of the temptation to immorality, each man should have his own wife. Verse 8 goes on to advise, it is better for a man to marry, than to burn with passion.


Nowadays, from my research and discussions with friends, I am being told that prostitutes secretly take used condoms to sell. Nobody knows the reason behind such acts, but it will do a man a lot of saving to practice the art of self control than to have his destiny thrown away in the wrong hands.



it reduces your self control

How many of us men can actually stay on for years without actually having sex? How many of us men can turn down sexual advances? I'm pretty much sure only a few. Whenever these sexual urges aka "konji" sets in, the next thing our minds rush to is how to locate the nearest brothel to ease off. It is very possible that these sexual urges will eventually die down, irrespective of how long they can trigger off in a man. It's just all about the mindset. By the time u practice to live past two to three sexual urges, u'll be able to improve on your ability to have self control which easily saves you a lot from unwanted issues.



Saves Money

For those who are really inexperienced especially the young ones who are beginning to have high sexual hormones, visiting the brothel will just be the first and only option to cool off. Now i'm not saying it's cool to have a girlfrnd just because your sole aim is to have sex with her, neither is this post sighting why men should rather sleep with regular ladies insted of prostitutes. Please don't get it wrong! My main focus is just prostitutes alone. Cuz a prostitute is a prostitute.
These sex workers know an inexperienced dude when they see one, and they will really do whatever it takes for such guy to "cum" very fast. Now don't ask me how I know all these things, like I said, I do my research. And after such guy "cums" too early, he is compelled to pay for more rounds, just because he is inexperienced, thereby investing his money which he would have ought to use for something else far more important. And as Time goes on, he gets addicted to patronizing sex workers and spends all his money on them, thereby having little or no savings. Isn't it better to give to charity? Than waste all your money patronizing sex workers? Think!




prevents stereotype

A frequent customer to brothels now sees women as sex objects. They think that the only thing a human being who has breast and vagina can offer is just sex and nothing more. Hence they are seen as misogynists. They can hardly sustain a platonic friendship with the opposite sex as any type of woman appeals to him. In as much as womanhood is concerned, females are useless. This notion has to stop! The importance of womanhood to the human race cannot be far fetched, not only did God create eve as a mate to Adam, she was created to fill that loneliness gap, to be a helper, and a friend. Seeing women as just only meant for sex is in itself perversion of the highest degree.


I would have loved to add more points, buh due to time, i"l drop my pen here. Opinions from all and sundry are highly welcome.

Hector did you really write this?




Really?

Live your life. Its all that matters.

Cutehector:
They say prostitution is as old as man himself

HaHaHa! Guy who said this?

Strawman:


HaHaHa! Guy who said this?

research

Diddyydiva:





Hector did you really write this?





Really?

lol... of course I did

Its a good piece bro .
Now tell them to get one of these.

Cutehector:
lol... of course I did

#Swallows hard
hard to believe I'd say but hey whatever way it is,




Nice write up

Diddyydiva:
#Swallows hard
hard to believe I'd say but hey whatever way it is,




Nice write up

Saves money? For real? The cost of maintaining a relationship is way higher than patronising prostitutes. You haven't date any of these leeches who parades themselves as girlfriends only for them to pass their seamless demands for money. You'll know ashawo is more prudent and cheap.

STDs ke? Don't know if the risk of patronising a whoré and the average girl in contracting stds aren't proportional or which is higher. But I'd think that for these girlfriends who sometimes keep multiple sex partners they're likely to abdicate preventive measures more than prostitutes who takes it as a duty to always use protection.

While I'm not canvassing for the patronage of bordello, and not in any way saying it's better I think some of your points are hugely flawed.

ronald4lif:
Saves money? For real? The cost of maintaining a relationship is way higher than patronising prostitutes. You haven't date any of these leeches who parades themselves as girlfriends only for them to pass their seamless demands for money. You'll know ashawo is more prudent and cheap.

STDs ke? Don't know if the risk of dating a LovePeddler and the average girl in contracting stds aren't proportional and which is higher. But I'd think that for these girlfriends who sometimes keep multiple sex partners they're likely to abdicate preventive measures more than prostitutes who takes it as a duty to always use protection.

While I'm not canvassing for the patronage of bordello, and not in any way saying it's better I think some of your points are hugely flawed.

alright. In the aspect where I discussed on saving money.. don't u think addiction to smth can really make that person even use his last kobo just to get a satisfaction from it?


In the case of std, it's a well known fact that sleeping wit a lot of women especially sex workers makes a man more prone to sexually transmitted diseases... I made sure I sighted one good example how that could happen.. the key word here is "prone"

Like he is at risk...

A word they say is enough for the wise!

Jadekitana2:
Live your life. Its all that matters.

Get your point sis... if it's prostitution(or patronizing prostitutes that gives you satisfaction) that gives you joy.... Just make sure you do things that make you happy... we may be in the same school of thought dear

I agree with little of your illustrated point @Cutehector but think @ronald4lif is also on the right channel. I've seen victim of either point highlighted by you guys and neither is preferable so I would rather implore God's protection rather than trying to outsmart what could be inevitable at some point...

The only point that made sense to me is "Saving Money" and that is to an extent. Some relationships cost more than a hundred sex workers. And some relationships are less than $1 for 1 year.

- STDs: A prostitute won't let you have sex with her without a condom

- Destiny: Please, Save it! Let's be logical for once. There is no such thing as destiny neither is there anything that you quote some bible passage we atheist don't give a fvck about. Say something else

- Misogyny: This is not true also! Lots of men patronise prostitutes yet they have wives and female daughters whom they respect. Prostitutes are sex objects. That's who they are not women in general.

- Self Control: Wrong! What do you say about porn actors? Who have sex almost 3 times everyday? Do they fvck like that outside camera? No! They have self control. Same thing applies to the customers of sex workers

guy stop spoiling people's biz

Drnos16:
I agree with little of your illustrated point @Cutehector but think @ronald4lif is also on the right channel. I've seen victim of either point highlighted by you guys and neither is preferable so I would rather implore God's protection rather than trying to outsmart what could be inevitable at some point...

yeah he is entitled to his opinion and I respect him for that... that is why I wrote, opinions are welcome from all and sundry...


I agree that some prostitutes practice safe hygiene buh dat shouldn't make me to become an addict in patronizing them..

Cutehector:
They say prostitution is as old as man himself and it's eaten deep into the fabrics of the society. Just as churches are springing up here and there, so are brothels found at strategic locations in every area. Certain topics have emerged on nairaland and have discussed why men patronize sex workers. But in this thread, I shall be discussing reasons why men should quit patronizing these sex workers.

My aim is not to spoil anyone's business(no offence to any sex worker reading this) but be that as it may, I would like to advice these ladies that there are better handworks out there than prostitution. That is going to be a topic for another day. Now Let us see reasons why men should stop patronizing sex workers.


1. Prevention of Sexually Transmitted diseases

Condoms are not 100 percent safe in preventing STDs from coming in contact with body fluids, their might be cases where these condoms will mistakenly break and should such sex worker happen to be a carrier of any sexually transmitted infection, the man may be at risk. Not only that, other forms of sex such as MouthAction do pose a great deal of concern. A sex worker who may be infected with such disease may have issues with bleeding gums and thus, such infections may be transferred through exchange of fluids into the man's body system unknowingly. Should a man wish to have MouthAction, it's best he should do it with his wife alone.


2. It destroys a man's destiny

1st Corinthians 6:16 writes, do you not know that he who joins himself with a _prostitute becomes one body with her? For it is written, the two shall become one flesh. Chapter 7 says, it is well for a man not to touch a woman, but because of the temptation to immorality, each man should have his own wife. Verse 8 goes on to advise, it is better for a man to marry, than to burn with passion.

Nowadays, from my research and discussions with friends, I am being told that prostitutes secretly take used condoms to sell. Nobody knows the reason behind such acts, but it will do a man a lot of saving to practice the art of self control than to have his destiny thrown away in the wrong hands.



it reduces your self control

How many of us men can actually stay on for years without actually having sex? How many of us men can turn down sexual advances? I'm pretty much sure only a few. Whenever these sexual urges aka "konji" sets in, the next thing our minds rush to is how to locate the nearest brothel to ease off. It is very possible that these sexual urges will eventually die down, irrespective of how long they can trigger off in a man. It's just all about the mindset. By the time u practice to live past two to three sexual urges, u'll be able to improve on your ability to have self control which easily saves you a lot from unwanted issues.



Saves Money

For those who are really inexperienced especially the young ones who are beginning to have high sexual hormones, visiting the brothel will just be the first and only option to cool off. Now i'm not saying it's cool to have a girlfrnd just because your sole aim is to have sex with her, please don't get it wrong.
These sex workers know an inexperienced dude when they see one, and they will really do whatever it takes for such guy to "cum" very fast. Now don't ask me how I know all these things, like I said, I do my research. And after such guy "cums" too early, he is compelled to pay for more rounds, just because he is inexperienced, thereby investing his money which he would have ought to use for something else far more important. And as Time goes on, he gets addicted to patronizing sex workers and spends all his money on them, thereby having little or no savings. Isn't it better to give to charity? Than waste all your money patronizing sex workers? Think!




prevents stereotype

A frequent customer to brothels now sees women as sex objects. They think that the only thing a human being who has breast and vagina can offer is just sex and nothing more. Hence they are seen as misogynists. They can hardly sustain a platonic friendship with the opposite sex as any type of woman appeals to him. In as much as womanhood is concerned, females are useless. This notion has to stop! The importance of womanhood to the human race cannot be far fetched, not only did God create eve as a mate to Adam, she was created to fill that loneliness gap, to be a helper, and a friend. Seeing women as just only meant for sex is in itself perversion of the highest degree.


I would have loved to add more points, buh due to time, i"l drop my pen here. Opinions from all and sundry are highly welcome.


Lalasticlala, mynd44

hmm

Prevention of std, spare me. Sleeping around with a girl you claim to trust without protection and sleeping with a girl you dont trust with protection, which is safer

ADDICT Nah Nah Nah... I'm not a party to that.........

Cutehector:
yeah he is entitled to his opinion and I respect him for that... that is why I wrote, opinions are welcome from all and sundry...


I agree that some prostitutes practice safe hygiene buh dat shouldn't make me to become an addict in patronizing them..

Of all your points... Saving money seems to be the most relevant

And please spare me, sex doesn't have anything to do with destiny

with the way almost all niqqa qirls are doinq runs, one beqins to wonder whoo is the prosutite and who is the normal qirl

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Cutehector:
They say prostitution is as old as man himself and it's eaten deep into the fabrics of the society. Just as churches are springing up here and there, so are brothels found at strategic locations in every area. Certain topics have emerged on nairaland and have discussed why men patronize sex workers. But in this thread, I shall be discussing reasons why men should quit patronizing these sex workers.

My aim is not to spoil anyone's business(no offence to any sex worker reading this) but be that as it may, I would like to advice these ladies that there are better handworks out there than prostitution. That is going to be a topic for another day. Now Let us see reasons why men should stop patronizing sex workers.


1. Prevention of Sexually Transmitted diseases

Condoms are not 100 percent safe in preventing STDs from coming in contact with body fluids, their might be cases where these condoms will mistakenly break and should such sex worker happen to be a carrier of any sexually transmitted infection, the man may be at risk. Not only that, other forms of sex such as MouthAction do pose a great deal of concern. A sex worker who may be infected with such disease may have issues with bleeding gums and thus, such infections may be transferred through exchange of fluids into the man's body system unknowingly. Should a man wish to have MouthAction, it's best he should do it with his wife alone.


2. It destroys a man's destiny

1st Corinthians 6:16 writes, do you not know that he who joins himself with a _prostitute becomes one body with her? For it is written, the two shall become one flesh. Chapter 7 says, it is well for a man not to touch a woman, but because of the temptation to immorality, each man should have his own wife. Verse 8 goes on to advise, it is better for a man to marry, than to burn with passion.

Nowadays, from my research and discussions with friends, I am being told that prostitutes secretly take used condoms to sell. Nobody knows the reason behind such acts, but it will do a man a lot of saving to practice the art of self control than to have his destiny thrown away in the wrong hands.



it reduces your self control

How many of us men can actually stay on for years without actually having sex? How many of us men can turn down sexual advances? I'm pretty much sure only a few. Whenever these sexual urges aka "konji" sets in, the next thing our minds rush to is how to locate the nearest brothel to ease off. It is very possible that these sexual urges will eventually die down, irrespective of how long they can trigger off in a man. It's just all about the mindset. By the time u practice to live past two to three sexual urges, u'll be able to improve on your ability to have self control which easily saves you a lot from unwanted issues.



Saves Money

For those who are really inexperienced especially the young ones who are beginning to have high sexual hormones, visiting the brothel will just be the first and only option to cool off. Now i'm not saying it's cool to have a girlfrnd just because your sole aim is to have sex with her, please don't get it wrong.
These sex workers know an inexperienced dude when they see one, and they will really do whatever it takes for such guy to "cum" very fast. Now don't ask me how I know all these things, like I said, I do my research. And after such guy "cums" too early, he is compelled to pay for more rounds, just because he is inexperienced, thereby investing his money which he would have ought to use for something else far more important. And as Time goes on, he gets addicted to patronizing sex workers and spends all his money on them, thereby having little or no savings. Isn't it better to give to charity? Than waste all your money patronizing sex workers? Think!




prevents stereotype

A frequent customer to brothels now sees women as sex objects. They think that the only thing a human being who has breast and vagina can offer is just sex and nothing more. Hence they are seen as misogynists. They can hardly sustain a platonic friendship with the opposite sex as any type of woman appeals to him. In as much as womanhood is concerned, females are useless. This notion has to stop! The importance of womanhood to the human race cannot be far fetched, not only did God create eve as a mate to Adam, she was created to fill that loneliness gap, to be a helper, and a friend. Seeing women as just only meant for sex is in itself perversion of the highest degree.


I would have loved to add more points, buh due to time, i"l drop my pen here. Opinions from all and sundry are highly welcome.


Lalasticlala, mynd44

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Rubbish

jorion:
Prevention of std, spare me. Sleeping around with a girl you claim to trust without protection and sleeping with a girl you dont trust with protection, which is safer

pls my post isn't a difference between sleeping with prostitutes and having sex with those who are not! Don't get me wrong.. I never mentioned dat... I only gave my reasons why men should stop having sex with prostitutes.



Dats how u nigerians just tend to twist a lot of things... I know very well that I re-iterated this fact in the write up there. I mentioned dat "I am not promoting sex with the regular girl, pls read my post in between lines very well befor u comment

Vinshu:
The only point that made sense to me is "Saving Money" and that is to an extent. Some relationships cost more than a hundred sex workers. And some relationships are less than $1 for 1 year.

- STDs: A prostitute won't let you have sex with her without a condom

you are very correct about that but u failed to understand that condoms aren't 100 percent safe in preventing stds.. u also failed to read the place where I hinted on having MouthAction with a prostitute who has an std without the knowledge of the customer and how this std can be contracted.. condoms do break sometimes, body fluids can come in contact with each other.


They key word here is "being prone" that means at risk

Interesting

skarlett:
Interesting

Is it, tell me more?

Olosho is still better than most girlfriends that will give you heart attack and high bp

joseph1832:
Is it, tell me more?

It is indeed but I'll reserve my comment

skarlett:



It is indeed but I'll reserve my comment

Perhaps you'll want to comment your reserve?

Cutehector:
you are very correct about that but u failed to understand that condoms aren't 100 percent safe in preventing stds.. u also failed to read the place where I hinted on having MouthAction with a prostitute who has an std without the knowledge of the customer and how this std can be contracted.. condoms do break sometimes, body fluids can come in contact with each other.


They key word here is "being prone" that means at risk

Since condoms aren't safe, what now makes one who have sex with a girl who isn't a prostitute safe?

You should know not every prostitute give blowjobs_ just like not every girl who isn't a prostitute give blowjobs_.