herbie27:
You sound like you've been having affairs with married men.

herbie27:
You sound like you've been having affairs with married men.

Proffdada:
Interesting but I don't know why women fight over men instead of beating the unfaithful man

herbie27:
There's no way any mistress won't knw a man is married.

Girls jst love going after married men, nt minding the consequences, wives build homes...they bring the best out of their husbands and even wen these men want to cheat, there's always an accomplice and is wrong to be a home wrecker.

cekhoe:
don't mind her, thats how one bitch told my uncle to send his wife with two kids away,so she can come and take over, some ladies are just home wreckers by occupation combined with the stupidity of the married men,it becomes disastrous for the women and children

Proudlesbiangal:
There are cases where the other people don't know. What about all those married men who leave their wives in Nigeria and go and have affairs or marry other woman. Are they always aware that the man is married?
If a man wants to cheat he will cheat irrespective of whether the woman is a saint at home or not. if my husband cheats then the blame goes to him. He was the one that made the commitment to me not the third party.

Like I said you cant force people to be morally upright or feel guilty for dating others who are married or in a relationship. That's why you will find good and bad people in this world so for blaming someone and getting frustrated about someone else's moral campus is pointless and stupid cos at the end of the day the person did not force the husband/boyfriend to cheat. A man cannot be forced to do what he doesn't want to do. I will rather face him then run around like a mad hatter chasing and fighting other women. Its highly embarrassing just look at the woman for example. Went to chase and fight another woman only for her husband to side with his mistress and people will be laughing at her as well. Well to each their own. If that's your forte then who am I to stop you

Proudlesbiangal:
Lol when they can't come up with a suitable rebuttable then they come up with the usual bs. Sorry to disappoint you but i dont go for men let alone married men but i am sensible enough to know that when a partner cheats on me the blame goes to my partner. I could care less who the other party is.

herbie27:
forget abt all these internet hypocrisy you guys exhibit.

Lets jst wait until it happens to you....trust me wen i say you will fight for ur husband either physically or otherwise.

herbie27:
Is a shame how people are blaming the woman for her actions.

If i shld catch my hubby wit a woman, i won't bother fighting her cos i hate fight. there are many ways to kill a rat.

Proudlesbiangal:


What internet hypocrisy. I am telling you the truth. I am a civilised human being. I have never been one to go around shouting and fighting. I have experienced a cheating partner before and I didn't go around causing mayhem and screaming and fighting. Will it make a difference and the answer is no. Like I said before that if that's the kind of person you are then fine. Good for you I just find it distasteful.

herbie27:
if[b] ur husband cheats on u, u should blame yourself and not him.[/b]

It either means there's something wrong wit u sexually, or there's something you're doing wrongly wit him.

Proudlesbiangal:
Lol when they can't come up with a suitable rebuttable then they come up with the usual bs. Sorry to disappoint you but i dont go for men let alone married men but i am sensible enough to know that when a partner cheats on me the blame goes to my partner. I could care less who the other party is.

herbie27:
I have also been with a cheating partner too and i jst walked away...becos he was jst a bf, i can't say same for a husband because i'm nt married yet n don't think i will end up wit one.

So we are much alike, jst dat u're supporting the wrong thing, which u are entitled to.

No beaf.

cekhoe:
Abeg teach me the other way o,so that I can learn before I get married

SemuhleB:
There is only a certain kind of woman(ghetto,ratched,jobless etc) who will have the time and energy to be chasing hoes all the time.

If my husband cheats I will confront him about it and if he continues to cheat then I leave him simple. I ain't got time to be chasing every girl he decides to put his dk in.

°Wouldn't that make him the "hoe" then?
Since he's the 1putting it in more than 1 woman?

KingCheezyPuff:
°Yesss! She shoulda beat the hell outta him!!!
He clearly had it em when he cheated! Yes!!

Proudlesbiangal:


I don't realise that you were one of those type of girls. if your husband beats you its your fault. If tour husband cheats on you its your fault. I can't stand such people to be honest. Those are the kind who live miserable lives and end up 6 feet under.

Let me entertain you. So let's say there is something sexually wrong. So can't the husband discuss with his wife the issue. Would that not be the reasonable thing to do? So now if I decided to cheat on my partner my partner should be blamed. Is there any logic in that? Also when tour partner is not enjoying sex with you then you will know. When someone doesn't do something correctly then you tend to know. Besides cheating is not just about sex. I mean why do ppl cheat if its about sex when you can get it from or spouse. Its about many things as well.

Also if you believe a cheating spouse is your fault why then go attack the 'mistress'? Just a question let's say your husband cheats and then you go and beat his mistress up then he gets another mistress then will you also go and beat her up. What if the mistress is stronger than you and you rather get beaten or she is the crazy type and then you get stabbed in the process and die. Will it be worth it?

herbie27:
mind you.

All the characters men exhibit in marriages were already coherent in them, u jst failed to see it while dating him.

My husband can't lay a hand on me, and the day he does it by mistake or otherwise, i will make sure he learns never to lay a hand on me.

KingCheezyPuff:
°Wouldn't that make him the "hoe" then?
Since he's the 1putting it in more than 1 woman?

Proudlesbiangal:


Okay I believe the same thing goes with cheating. Isnt cheating also exhibuted during dating? Why not deal with the husband too?

SemuhleB:
He is a hoe and will be dealt with severally! Only jobless ratched women accept such crass behaviour and since they rely on their husband for bread and butter that's when they turn their frustrations on the other woman.

Proudlesbiangal:
Herbie 27 and cekhoe. If for example your brothers wife is cheating on him. Would you advice him to go and beat the other guy as he is a homewrecker. Or would you advise him to beat his wife so she can get sense. Or will you blame him because he was not doing his husband duties? I know you women will give different answers for this same exact scenario

herbie27:
What is my business in my brother's marriage?...as a man i suppose my brother can decide wat's gud for him.

And suggesting that you think, i will ask him to go n beat up the guy or the wife is an insane suggestion to make. Is my brother my puppy?. *winks*.

Proudlesbiangal:


Yet its okay for you to go and beat up another person when your husband cheats. Is she or business. I was just showing the fallacy that I knew you would come too.

1 more question. If you cheat based on everything you have said that means its your husband fault cos he probably not pleasing you sexually or not doing something correctly right? And or husband should attack the other guy if any attacking must be done. Surely you can see how retarded that sounds?

herbie27:
Go back to all my post, n u won't see where i said i will have a physical combat wit any woman for sleeping wit my husband....rather i said i will fight for my husband. they don't mean the same thing.

ENCOUNTER:
Dis attitude of hers might evn b d rison d man cheats, mayb wit a less troublesom lady. I dnt suport chaetin bt most tymz b4 we caastin stone on d chaetin man check d knife he married @hm as wife. Women must learn d act of submission.

laikas:
she tried, buh she was no match for the mans wife.