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My Story, My Cry For Help by koife(m): 10:49am On Jun 14, 2016
Hello house,
Permit me start by introducing myself. I am Efiok joseph, I hold Bachelors of Science Degree in Marine chemistry(2008), Masters of Science Degree in PHysical Chemistry(Distinction :4.4-2015). I may not be the best brain around but I am humble, teachable and versatile. I am putting up this thread because at this stage in my life, I am having a great pressure within and outside my sphere of influence. I have done everything I think is worthwhile to have a descent life. I. Am almost feeling frustrated and depressed, this is due to the fact that at 30+ and still living in my parents house (insult me if you like), I feel I am just alone in this entire world. I can barely afford basic need of life. Before you crucify and blame everything on my laziness, let me give a bit of what I have been up to lately.

Rewind to 2008/2009- I had a job with a hotel..was paid 7 thousand as start up, I took up the job not even considering my academic status, I believed in God, while I was there I was able to save money and I enroled in many trainings and seminars. Some include basic safety course, customer service relationship, I also obtained a diploma in basic ict/computer appreciation, oil tanker farmilirization, LNG HSSEQ and other related oil and gas certificate courses. I saved enough money to buy a car and registered business name as a logistic enterprise, I was able to get an office space for that but some how high taxing and unfriendly business environment made me close down the office and returned to taxi (town drop) services. I had an accident and was forced to sale the car into instead of total loss, i could no longer afford my rent and moved in with my parents, i was devasted. As the saying goes that quitters never win and winnersnnever quit, I picked up my pieces, swallowed my pride and enrolled in sure-p, luckily I made it through the selection process and I was placed as an intern with an entertainment company with 15k take home after all sortings.

I simultaneously ran this alongside my MSc program which I almost single handedly sponsored myself till late last year..well, I had a further knock when in lost my 4yrs+ relationship, my fiancee who was hitherto very supportive left without any sign, I went bipolar, I hated life and depression set in. I sometimes wonder if there anyone out there with my kind of experience....as I write this I am sitted on the road side, I am confused, I am tired, I am teary...I sometimes think I have offended God so much that he has forgotten about me. I have updated my CV, I have applied for countless jobs, adjusting my CV accordingly. I have tried my hands on all sort of things, from marketing job, phone call business, laundry services trust me, have hustled. Many times I have contemplated suicide but I know its not the best option coz I would break the heart of my parents and all those who believed and invested in me and most importantly God. I have listened to lost of motivational/inspirational CD to stir my faith, but trust me its as if its taking forever, I ammlossing it BIG TIME.

I have read of stories here on nairaland about people who carried placard and some how were lucky, this is my own placard ooo, i am using this opportunity to beg you all for your assistance for a JOB or a loan.....I have written my proposals for companies telling them about the ideas I have but some of them end up hijacking them. I seriously need an urgent help, even if as PA, voluntary, paid, partial paid...anything' I am ready to relocate if need be.
Thank you and God bless you.
Kindly reach me through
08030972730,08078661082 cry cry
Re: My Story, My Cry For Help by PRISTINEMUSCLES: 11:32am On Jun 14, 2016
Hmmm, i am so touched right now and truth be told you have been through alot in so little time. But my brother don't loose it. Don't think of giving up right now. You have got that strong and resilient spirit and trust me that will take you very far in life.
You have cried out for help and i know this forum have people who can be of help to you. Someone's heart is going to get touched and will render the neccessary assistance to you be it in form of a paid employment or an avenue for entrepreneurship. To say i am not touched is indeed far from the truth but what can i do? I will do my little by encouraging you to keep on being hopeful and optimistic. Mark today the 14th day of june 2016, YOU WILL SMILE AGAIN FOR NATURE DOES REWARD A HARDWORKING AND DILIGIENT PERSON IN DUE TIME.

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Re: My Story, My Cry For Help by koife(m): 12:20pm On Jun 14, 2016
PRISTINEMUSCLES:
Hmmm, i am so touched right now and truth be told you have been through alot in so little time. But my brother don't loose it. Don't think of giving up right now. You have got that strong and resilient spirit and trust me that will take you very far in life.
You have cried out for help and i know this forum have people who can be of help to you. Someone's heart is going to get touched and will render the neccessary assistance to you be it in form of a paid employment or an avenue for entrepreneurship. To say i am not touched is indeed far from the truth but what can i do? I will do my little by encouraging you to keep on being hopeful and optimistic. Mark today the 14th day of june 2016, YOU WILL SMILE AGAIN FOR NATURE DOES REWARD A HARDWORKING AND DILIGIENT PERSON IN DUE TIME.
Tnx bro

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