Freakypinky:
Going radio silent is the best way to break up.
Just create distance until you're no longer missed.
Thank me later.

chai!!

guys yaf suffer fr ur hand no b smal

platypus:


When your past hunts you and you continue to blame other for it, no good results come out.
Continue to blame others for your past until no one gives you his heart to break again.
#justsaying

ok dear, but when you are cute, there is always heart to break.. but will think about your advice but it won't stop me from breaking this one

laughs #hahahahahaha#
that wasn't funny I know

jopretty:
Zoom well, below my left eyebrow.

but dat lil scar shouldnt scare a MAN away, may be he had other reasons..... i think u edited a lot in ur story. anyway, how is d nu guy doing?

Ranchhoddas:
You must have one hell of a past.

yeah and it wasn't pretty at all....

NoBorders:

Na you gangan be psycho. To even harbor such thoughts shows why Mr A messed you up

Maybe
Maybe not...

but it won't stop me from doing what I want

mizthorlu:
gave me a nice treat, I love eating and I ate to my fill. we sat close to the sea, talked and i left his place, later at night, he told me on phone his with someone else.
2year's now and it's just like yesterday. I don't really regret it tho I still miss and love him but he gave me a departing parry (lol)

happy birthday have fun dear

Kondomatic:
The lady who did that is a killer.

..nooh nt at all..there are plenty fishes in d sea..maybe she saw dat she had no future with him.

You don't get my story, he ran when I was still in Hospital. Then my face was swollen and that left eye was closed. I didn't see with it for more than 2 yrs. The accident happened over 6yrs...Time, they say, heals. Ryt?

Boyooosa:

but dat lil scar shouldnt scare a MAN away, may be he had other reasons..... i think u edited a lot in ur story. anyway, how is d nu guy doing?

The silent treatment hurts so much.

Kondomatic:
Until it happens

It won't oooo

Boyooosa:

but u did not mention anyone you played a Breaker na, shuuuu! Do you still have heart @all since they broken it all, next man go suffer o

Ok

I broke one guys heart sha...... Not really ooooo

He was the jealous lover, he does not want me to talk to any guy, sometimes he seizes my fone cos he wants me to give him full attention..... One day he smashed my fone against the wall because I was chatting...... He was too controlling abeg..... One day my fone rang he saw a guys name and almost beat me up so I used that as an excuse to end the bondage

At least I was fair enough to give him a good reason to end it....... Later he started begging me saying he won't do it again, started calling his close friends to beg me....... But I think leaving him was the best thing to do...... Your life first before love so that we don't hear stories that touch

Boyooosa:

but dat lil scar shouldnt scare a MAN away, may be he had other reasons..... i think u edited a lot in ur story. anyway, how is d nu guy doing?

D scar is already healed, n remember she said not just her face, if there were other things why is becoming back now, and to think that he was d person she just finish seeing off before d accident, yet he still has d mind to break up with her when she's still in d hospital, the guy is wicked.




Karma best dished cold!

doskie:
i tried to check for 'pretty' but nothing to show

Check again

Thanks dear. Most persons think I cooked up the story.

Chommieblaq:


D scar is already healed, n remember she said not just her face, if there were other things why is becoming back now, and to think that he was d person she just finish seeing off before d accident, yet he still has d mind to break up with her when she's still in d hospital, the guy is wicked.




Karma best dished cold!

berndodlion:
A friend was in a relationship with this girl, she just called him one day and told him to see her.
She suddenly presented a card to him, telling him that she is getting married next week. She was inviting him for the wedding and that was it.

All the guy needed to do was smile, collect the IV and congratulate her. It will give her the impression that she meant nothing to her all the while. Its a psychological thing. It will hurt the guy but if he handles it well, he 'll hurt the girl too. If someone wants to hurt you, you hurt them too. Its simple.

yunnyp:


which means u are not dating one Man..
chai....

wetin this one dey talk.

jopretty:
You don't get my story, he ran when I was still in Hospital. Then my face was swollen and that left eye was closed. I didn't see with it for more than 2 yrs. The accident happened over 6yrs...Time, they say, heals. Ryt?

I got you better there, well, some pple are like dat. Thank God for the new guy, i guess i he should be the RIGHT

Boyooosa:

but u did not mention anyone you played a Breaker na, shuuuu! Do you still have heart @all since they broken it all, next man go suffer o

Suffer ke.......

My ex told me that not every relationship leads to marriage..... But it helps you correct your errors and character and prepare you for your next relationship......

So when someone leaves me I let the person be and just reflect on things I might have done wrong and correct them before I go into another one......

I date one guy at a time...... So because one guy left me I should let the next guy suffer...... For what na

Heart break is really painful but u have to accept the fact that the person is gone and just move on........

jopretty:
For those doubting my story, check my profile and zoom on my left eye. Will take down the pix after 30mins

yeah can see something a lil out of the ordinary, you look pretty and healthy which is all that matters, sorry for your immbe ex

It was so painful cus she left as a virgin after 3yr. I was so mad in love dat i always wanted to pls her.

PERFECT, I'd say

Boyooosa:

I got you better there, well, some pple are like dat. Thank God for the new guy, i guess i he should be the RIGHT

jopretty:
His state didn't allow me to do that.

Chai his condition might have been worst than yours then

Realhommie:
I concur.

Some of their stories is just BS! straight out from a movie scene.

Thanks

Dexema:
yeah can see something a lil out of the normal, you look pretty and healthy which is all that matters, sorry for your immbe ex

Pinkieblue:


Suffer ke.......

My ex told me that not every relationship leads to marriage..... But it helps you correct your errors and character and prepare you for your next relationship......

So when someone leaves me I let the person be and just reflect on things I might have done wrong and correct them before I go into another one......

I date one guy at a time...... So because one guy left me I should let the next guy suffer...... For what na

Heart break is really painful but u have to accept the fact that the person is gone and just move on........

i find it difficult to read from a young lady this kind of text, most esp in this our present society, its quite encouraging. You even learnt something great from your ex- wao! Most ladies forget about brain when they get entangled in a relationship these days... money the motivating factor

You can say that again!

Topmaike007:
Chai his condition might have been worst than yours then

Goldie88:


Maybe
Maybe not...

but it won't stop me from doing what I want

if your so called "past" was due to circumstances beyond your control then there is no issue (I wish you heal up and find love). But if your said past was of your own making and total volition then whatever comes your way is your challenge, you can't force a guy to accept you anyway even if you are now a "converted " virgin mary.
You sound strong-willed and vindictive, take hold of one, the other is dangerous.

AuroraB:
It won't oooo

Amen.







On her behalf

The0d0ra:
..nooh nt at all..there are plenty fishes in d sea..maybe she saw dat she had no future with him.

And the best way to tell him that was to give him her wedding Iv card?

Kondomatic:
My favourite.


They will call it off when they get tired of trying to make it work, some pf them may even think it was them that dumped you.

Not knowing that you have moved on a long time ago.

that's really mean and selfish.

how about doing the simplest thing, talk!

say it. over text, phone, email. you don't just leave someone in the dark and let them keep chasing you.

this genius idea of yours has done damage to lots of people.

how would you feel if you think you are in a relationship with someone and trying to make it work (for months) going through the emotional and psychological stress, only to find out the person has dumbed you long ago?

Goldie88:
well, he asked me to tell him everything about me and I started confessing like a witch... thinking he would be able to handle my past but I got home that day and he went silent on me, didn't call, I was so oooo ooo hurt... I jumped, I cried, I did a sort, it didn't change his mind....

years later, I met someone but I will break his heart and I am doing it already, not that I want to but I can't Marry a psychopath... a woman beater

according to his records, he has break a lot of girls heart, slept with two sisters, and all kind of atrocities

it's bad he changed when he met me but it still doesn't change the fact that I am going to smash that heart to pieces... throw into the trash can

he would never raise his hands to beat any lady again

fucking psycho!

Babe don't let your past destroy what comes tomorrow....... Therz so much to loose and also so much more to gain......
Don't give up on love.......

Just free your mind and love........ True love is somewhere

Infact I am currently experiencing the silent treatment........ But what the hell....... If he does not want abeg swerve comot make another one come

Forgive that your ex and give your present guy a chance

Don't think u want to punish guys for what your ex did........ U are only doing yourself

Pinkieblue:


Ok

I broke one guys heart sha...... Not really ooooo

He was the jealous lover, he does not want me to talk to any guy, sometimes he seizes my fone cos he wants me to give him full attention..... One day he smashed my fone against the wall because I was chatting...... He was too controlling abeg..... One day my fone rang he saw a guys name and almost beat me up so I used that as an excuse to end the bondage

At least I was fair enough to give him a good reason to end it....... Later he started begging me saying he won't do it again, started calling his close friends to beg me....... But I think leaving him was the best thing to do...... Your life first before love so that we don't hear stories that touch

I am also jealous (to the ones that i love) and i dont take bullshit from my GF. why should i hang around with you and you place priority on other activities, most esp. texting or chatting, i wouldnt take dat sheet. Respect is reciprocal, put yourself in his own shoes. If you r doing somting gr8, nice and understandable, but chatting, who is on d other syd? I will like to know. Mama, let me tell you the truth, if your bf is not jealous, he has a spare (that is just the basic truth) and you likely to be the spare. But on the other syd, guys shouldnt be dat aggressive - smashing phones, screaming, beating, slapping and crazying. But to be sincere, their actions are better than mine: i will make you love me back and stroll away. You will love to have me forever but you wont have me, Screamers are better than me!