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Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by jopretty(f): 10:02am On Jun 15, 2016
Thanks for that. I pray you don't experience any form of accident where you'll be stitched without any painkiller because a min wasted would result to a serious problem. I went thru such pain
doskie:
no obviously i think you're lying

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Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by Pinkieblue(f): 10:03am On Jun 15, 2016
doskie:
sure you don't have nl as an app on your phone. The speed with which you responded is like chatting

My network never disappoints
Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by yunnyp(m): 10:04am On Jun 15, 2016
Ladycloud:
wetin this one dey talk.
watin u dey hear?
Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by Pinkieblue(f): 10:05am On Jun 15, 2016
doskie:
hahahahaha. You're such a funny person. Im sorry sweedie.
thank God the anger did not pass your finger tips..... Thanks
Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by Titilayooni(f): 10:07am On Jun 15, 2016
jopretty:
Had an accident after seeing him off, was admitted and spent two weeks writhing in pain cos I was badly injured and stitched. The dude came one faithful day and called it off reason being my 'beautiful' face won't be as it used to. I cried, reported him to God and moved on. New guy came onboard and helped me through, I became more "prettier." Years later, dude had a devastating accident that left him imbecilic, now he's back asking for my hand in marriage saying God showed him I'm his wife. I just laughed.
God don punish am...

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Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by Pinkieblue(f): 10:07am On Jun 15, 2016
doskie:
no obviously i think you're lying
Doskie doskie.....
Oya shut up and drive
Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by Unionised(m): 10:09am On Jun 15, 2016
Freakypinky:
Going radio silent is the best way to break up.
Just create distance until you're no longer missed.
Thank me later.

Going radio silent on a guy who's invested his emotions on you is actually wicked!

How would you like to be on the recieving end?

Closure at the end of a relationship can not be over emphasised.
Be upfront.

Seriously
Can't believe you actually got likes for this post.

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Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by Boyooosa(m): 10:10am On Jun 15, 2016
Pinkieblue:


Well if u had read it deeply u would have understood that I never compared myself with him....... Well maybe I don't know how to express myself in written form........ But I feel if u want to correct someone u should not also do the same thing u are correcting someone for........ And one person should not dominate over the other in a relationship cos there won't be any form of sincerity.......
Your point(s) got my attention most esp. this...'But I feel if u want to correct someone u should not also do the same thing u are correcting someone for........' and this.... 'And one person should not dominate over the other in a relationship cos there won't be any form of sincerity'. Let me cite an example of some pastors that mount the pulpit and tell congregation not to lie (that God forbids it), before they climb down d pulpit, they lie more than necessary times... do you believe it happens, if you dont believe, it happens for real! what i mean is that its better to learn a lesson from d message of a messenger and not the character of the messenger himself. You can change him by simply enduring and obeying, the problems opposite sexxx have is they dont know how close they are, to the heart of each other even if they are extremely-close not until they (tend) to call it off. As women have tender heart, men too do have, they are the worst specie (am referring to reasonable ones). We pretend as if we are not moved with all your cares and respect, but hiding the truth kill us more! cheesy. About dominating(ion)... that depends on two of you, if you dont have a tendency of being a dominant, you will not observe that somebody is trying to dominate over you in a relationship. check yourself, its either you are not successful in dominating the relationship or you were hooked to a BOYFRIEND out there to catch his fun!
Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by doskie(m): 10:12am On Jun 15, 2016
Pinkieblue:


Doskie doskie.....

Oya shut up and drive
who is this.
Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by doskie(m): 10:15am On Jun 15, 2016
jopretty:
Thanks for that. I pray you don't experience any form of accident where you'll be stitched without any painkiller because a min wasted would result to a serious problem. I went thru such pain
im sorry. Didn't mean any harm okay.
Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by vicese(m): 10:17am On Jun 15, 2016
A friend was in a relationship with this girl, she just called him one day and told him to see her.
She suddenly presented a card to him, telling him that she is getting married next week. She was inviting him for the wedding and that was i shocked grin
Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by Titilayooni(f): 10:18am On Jun 15, 2016
He kept pictures of his fiancee through out the period we dated(almost 2yrs)when he had what he wanted,he just hung back her pictures and proposed to her using it as dp on bbm,I was speechless when I saw it....he invited me to the wedding but I cursed him*laughs*

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Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by Ladycloud(f): 10:22am On Jun 15, 2016
Benblaq:
he doesnt wnt to leave u cus no guy leaves a cheerful giver *u knw wat i mean slide to unlock too much boobies nd kitty
with people like you there is no hope for this country..

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Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by Ladycloud(f): 10:22am On Jun 15, 2016
Benblaq:
he doesnt wnt to leave u cus no guy leaves a cheerful giver *u knw wat i mean slide to unlock too much boobies nd kitty
with people like you there is no hope for this country..

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Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by Pinkieblue(f): 10:22am On Jun 15, 2016
Boyooosa:

Your point(s) got my attention most esp. this...'But I feel if u want to correct someone u should not also do the same thing u are correcting someone for........' and this.... 'And one person should not dominate over the other in a relationship cos there won't be any form of sincerity'. Let me cite an example of some pastors that mount the pulpit and tell congregation not to lie (that God forbids it), before they climb down d pulpit, they lie more than necessary times... do you believe it happens, if you dont believe, it happens for real! what i mean is that its better to learn a lesson from d message of a messenger and not the character of the messenger himself. You can change him by simply enduring and obeying, the problems opposite sexxx have is they dont know how close they are, to the heart of each other even if they are extremely-close not until they (tend) to call it off. As women have tender heart, men too do have, they are the worst specie (am referring to reasonable ones). We pretend as if we are not moved with all your cares and respect, but hiding the truth kill us more! cheesy. About dominating(ion)... that depends on two of you, if you dont have a tendency of being a dominant, you will not observe that somebody is trying to dominate over you in a relationship. check yourself, its either you are not successful in dominating the relationship or you were hooked to a BOYFRIEND out there to catch his fun!

Hmmmmmm....... U are really twisting my words

Why would I want to dominate when the man Is always the head.......

If I don't observe what my partner is doing how will I tell if he is good for me or not

Everyone gets jealous but not to that extent...........
Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by Antina(f): 10:26am On Jun 15, 2016
Pinkieblue:


If he has any important thing to say he can say it over the fone........... Don't go anywhere.........
Don't mind him, he said no until we see.
Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by Nobody: 10:32am On Jun 15, 2016
Nawa ooooo grin grin
See stories

HEROES of HEARTBREAK grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by Sadrey1(m): 10:33am On Jun 15, 2016
Antina:

Can u state the reason for not calling her for 2-3weeks? She might be thinking u are not serious. Haba!! 2 weeks of no calls.
Well, I get bored and tired calling a girl everyday, nd I love callin like once in a week bcus I would av miss her nd feel fresh, but she concluded dat I am not caring and serious... Heart Break hurt mehn.. Gat to move on

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Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by Antina(f): 10:37am On Jun 15, 2016
Sadrey1:
Well, I get bored and tired calling a girl everyday, nd I love callin like once in a week bcus I would av miss her nd feel fresh, but she concluded dat I am not caring and serious... Heart Break hurt mehn.. Gat to move on
Sorry for that!!
Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by Titilayooni(f): 11:02am On Jun 15, 2016
Boyooosa:

Your point(s) got my attention most esp. this...'But I feel if u want to correct someone u should not also do the same thing u are correcting someone for........' and this.... 'And one person should not dominate over the other in a relationship cos there won't be any form of sincerity'. Let me cite an example of some pastors that mount the pulpit and tell congregation not to lie (that God forbids it), before they climb down d pulpit, they lie more than necessary times... do you believe it happens, if you dont believe, it happens for real! what i mean is that its better to learn a lesson from d message of a messenger and not the character of the messenger himself. You can change him by simply enduring and obeying, the problems opposite sexxx have is they dont know how close they are, to the heart of each other even if they are extremely-close not until they (tend) to call it off. As women have tender heart, men too do have, they are the worst specie (am referring to reasonable ones). We pretend as if we are not moved with all your cares and respect, but hiding the truth kill us more! cheesy. About dominating(ion)... that depends on two of you, if you dont have a tendency of being a dominant, you will not observe that somebody is trying to dominate over you in a relationship. check yourself, its either you are not successful in dominating the relationship or you were hooked to a BOYFRIEND out there to catch his fun!
you nailed it,you guys won't know how much you mean to each other till you break it off.....Love can be crazy,you just have to find someone worth the craziness

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Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by piagetskinner(m): 11:15am On Jun 15, 2016
jopretty:
If you are an actor, tell them you have a true life story, don't forget to contact me for approval, then I'll introduce the guy to you and you'll see the scars on me. cry
M truly sorry...really thought it was a movie script. cos iv watched one with the exact details of what u narrated.

Again..m sorry
Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by Topmaike007(m): 11:15am On Jun 15, 2016
jopretty:
You can say that again!
am sorry to offend you
Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by Gorgeousolasco(f): 11:20am On Jun 15, 2016
Well, my ex was very annoying. I mean xoxo annoying. He complains a lot, to him I never do anything right. So u know wat....
I broke up with the idiot. Later, I found out I love him. To beg him dey do me but my ego no gree. Dat d most painful breakup experience. grin grin grin
Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by jopretty(f): 11:30am On Jun 15, 2016
No offence taken
piagetskinner:

M truly sorry...really thought it was a movie script. cos iv watched one with the exact details of what u narrated.

Again..m sorry
Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by Bellfun(m): 11:34am On Jun 15, 2016
Freakypinky:
Going radio silent is the best way to break up.
Just create distance until you're no longer missed.
Thank me later.

It's called"ghosting"...ghost-mode activated!

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Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by larabae13(f): 11:35am On Jun 15, 2016
Dexema:
please desist from letting kids play with such objects as scissors, you might not be around the next time she picks it up. gracias
yea tnx *noted* wink de nada
Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by Nelrulez(m): 11:35am On Jun 15, 2016
Antina:

A bad style, shows u are not mature enough
really? Silence is golden, so I learnt from my own school of thought. Is there another matured way of handling such situation since you feel my style is immature
Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by queend: 11:39am On Jun 15, 2016
Pinkieblue:


Hmmmmmm....... U are really twisting my words

Why would I want to dominate when the man Is always the head.......

If I don't observe what my partner is doing how will I tell if he is good for me or not

Everyone gets jealous but not to that extent...........

I have read all your posts. You have made valid points. Please only stay in a relationship where you are respected. There are lots of good men who respect their women and don't dominate them. Any domineering relationship is bound to get violent.

All your thoughts about how a woman should be treated is right.
Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by The0d0ra(f): 11:52am On Jun 15, 2016
Kondomatic:
And the best way to tell him that was to give him her wedding Iv card?
..atleast she could give him..if it were some other people theyll leave it to u to find out..which is worse?
Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by Pinkieblue(f): 11:54am On Jun 15, 2016
queend:


I have read all your posts. You have made valid points. Please only stay in a relationship where you are respected. There are lots of good men who respect their women and don't dominate them. Any domineering relationship is bound to get violent.

All your thoughts about how a woman should be treated is right.

Thanks
Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by daveP(m): 12:19pm On Jun 15, 2016
Seeing her LIVE in bed with the guy she always constantly tells me is disturbing the midnight outta her....... I felt like Ramsey Noah catching Nse Ikpe with Majid.

And like Liverpool in Istanbul, She's still tryna stage a comeback using my closest friends.

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Re: The Most Painful Way Of Breaking Up, Share Your Experience Here by jabojafa(m): 12:24pm On Jun 15, 2016
ngobaby23:
Mine was in 2013.dude just woke up one morning and broke up with me. Reason being that I was always falling sick and that he wouldn't love to marry a wife that was always ill. Funny enough after he left I stopped falling ill all the time. I felt really hurt. But God will always judge Shaa. I'm still single though.
had a gal lik u then but funny enof she gave up on me.

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