mizthorlu:


still affects me cos he pops up once in a blue moon to say hi... Not loved another like I loved him since then....thinking of just focusing on my career fully, bag as many certificates as I can and be happy... love has been coming but ve not been open to receive it.

happy birthday to you. Yeah focus on ur career and acquire all the certificates as soon as possible.

Pinkieblue:
This thread got me so emotional this morning..... Making me remember all my painful breakup..... Is it the one I ended when I found out he had a two year old child after dating him for 6years....the annoying part was that he told me over a drink and some guys were there supporting him...... Or is it the silent treatment I experienced from two different guys.....

After reading every comment here I just had to listen to westlife's song titled if your hearts not in it

ah urs is really touching... Bt what were u doing with a guy for 6solid years? You try shall. Am happy u are still strong even all the hrt brks.

Titilayooni:
He kept pictures of his fiancee through out the period we dated(almost 2yrs)when he had what he wanted,he just hung back her pictures and proposed to her using it as dp on bbm,I was speechless when I saw it....he invited me to the wedding but I cursed him*laughs*

hmmm... You are everything someone is praying for. Nice signature txt.

Antina:

Don't mind him, he said no until we see.

he wants to mk it up to u by paying u off.

The0d0ra:
..atleast she could give him..if it were some other people theyll leave it to u to find out..which is worse?

It is better she don't tell me

Had to break up with my last gf using a text message, we dated for 2 yrs plus but d understanding was not there. We always had quarrels here n dere and i was used to given her d silent treatment which cud go on 4 wks non stop. I just got fed up with d routine and cald tins off. She was very strong headed maybe cuz she's a lawyer...

jabojafa:
ah urs is really touching... Bt what were u doing with a guy for 6solid years? You try shall. Am happy u are still strong even all the hrt brks.

I dated him from my 100 level till after service......

Fine girl gats stay strong na

Have known this guy for over 8 years now, though we avent been together all this while. He proposed, I accepted, he met my parents, then started avoiding my calls. Called severely but he wnt pick, even went to his place but he wnt see me. I moved on, after two months, he came bck apologising, that he had some challenges. I forgived him, the day he was suppose to come meet my people again to fix the introduction date, he stopped picking again. It's been weeks now, haven't heard from him since then

mizzkweenbee:
Have known this guy for over 8 years now, though we avent been together all this while. He proposed, I accepted, he met my parents, then started avoiding my calls. Called severely but he wnt pick, even went to his place but he wnt see me. I moved on, after two months, he came bck apologising, that he had some challenges. I forgived him, the day he was suppose to come meet my people again to fix the introduction date, he stopped picking again. It's been weeks now, haven't heard from him since then

Seriously? !!!!!!!!!!!

AlfaAce:


Seriously? !!!!!!!!!!!

Am telling you the gospel truth, but am getting over it. Life goes on

Where do broken hearts go?

mizzkweenbee:
Am telling you the gospel truth, but am getting over it. Life goes on

I can't believe guys like that exist!! He is far from a human being..

Titilayooni:
He kept pictures of his fiancee through out the period we dated(almost 2yrs)when he had what he wanted,he just hung back her pictures and proposed to her using it as dp on bbm,I was speechless when I saw it....he invited me to the wedding but I cursed him*laughs*

What could that be?

One thing I know is that " A Broken Heart is not a Broken DESTINY".

Pinkieblue:


I dated him from my 100 level till after service......

Fine girl gats stay strong na

ooh i see. For your mind you be fine girl abi?

Goldie88:
well, he asked me to tell him everything about me and I started confessing like a witch... thinking he would be able to handle my past but I got home that day and he went silent on me, didn't call, I was so oooo ooo hurt... I jumped, I cried, I did a sort, it didn't change his mind....

years later, I met someone but I will break his heart and I am doing it already, not that I want to but I can't Marry a psychopath... a woman beater

according to his records, he has break a lot of girls heart, slept with two sisters, and all kind of atrocities

it's bad he changed when he met me but it still doesn't change the fact that I am going to smash that heart to pieces... throw into the trash can

he would never raise his hands to beat any lady again

fucking psycho!

Don't you think that's mean. Although I view any guy that raises his hands against a lady as an absolute disgrace, I believe you should not derive joy from intentionally breaking someone else's heart.

Freakypinky:
Going radio silent is the best way to break up.
Just create distance until you're no longer missed.
Thank me later.

The Best

jabojafa:
ooh i see. For your mind you be fine girl abi?

My beauty is trending right now

mizthorlu:


still affects me cos he pops up once in a blue moon to say hi... Not loved another like I loved him since then....thinking of just focusing on my career fully, bag as many certificates as I can and be happy... love has been coming but ve not been open to receive it.

Is he the one you met at the hospital?

Focusing on your career is definitely a good thing but perhaps might not be the best way out..
Well! It all boils down to you cos if it were me, the certificates, awards, achievements etc. might possibly not give me that inner satisfaction

Give it a trial, open up your heart

@emboldened
That definitely won't allow you heal, don't you think so?

Happy birthday to you
Age with grace

yours was similar to mine. The fellow got married to the same ex-girlfriend he kept denying just a few days after leaving mine. I'm sure he was a descendant of Judas Iscariot. Hmmmmm! He still calls me and wants to see me and keeps begging, but we can never be friends again. I handed him over to God, his punishment is nigh.

my dear it was a terrible experience, but i think it made me a better person

One thing u guys don't know is this...


There is a way to love a girl, that even if she leaves first, she will crawl back and say "sorry"


Ask ilegend!

AlfaAce:


I can't believe guys like that exist!! He is far from a human being..

Things that men do this days will shock even the devil

Ladycloud:
with people like you there is no hope for this country..

no one likes anybody dat speaks d truth* sori sha

after she has traumatized my life I told her to never call my number again but before then we cursed the hell out of ourselves, parents not excluded,after 7months we came back again and still fought like the previous one and bliv me we still came back until she got married and we talk it out. though she still loves me

Pinkieblue:


My beauty is trending right now

i for like partake of dt ur trending beauty

daveP:
Seeing her LIVE in bed with the guy she always constantly tells me is disturbing the midnight outta her....... I felt like Ramsey Noah catching Nse Ikpe with Majid.

And like Liverpool in Istanbul, She's still tryna stage a comeback using my closest friends.

Very articula8,,bro..Shakespeare would be proud of Ye.

Perfectionist11:


Very articula8,,bro..Shakespeare would be proud of Ye.

Gracias.

the most painful breakup is the one done via the gateman "oga say make I no open gate for you" you'll know it's definitely over

AlfaAce:


I can't believe guys like that exist!! He is far from a human being..

Sharap abeg. Have you heard the guy's side of the story?

Pinkieblue:


Well let's relax........ I said is this for real because u said from your previous comment that he has a right to be jealous......... That's why I made u know that what he is preventing me from doing he does it too and I don't complain.......

You also talked about respect.......... Can u be with your girlfriend and still hold another lady on the waist and call that lady baby or mama......... Even if your girlfriend tells u later when the lady has gone she does not like it......... And u still repeat it with other ladies
Then u prevent me from talking to other guys I have no interest in outside my brother, your brother or your male friends....... Come on its a relationship not bondage

Hope u see what I endured and why I call it a man's world

With the little av read from you, I noticed/know (in assumption) that you are a good girl but you can never prove it until you hook up to a good guy. Being a good girl does not reflect how faithful you are to your guy, intelligent - nope, beautiful - nope, meek - nope; but how smart you are able to combine all your qualities to discover a worthy man for yourself. No matter what life requires from you, get him! because he is the one that can give you a marital peace

Boyooosa:

With the little av read from you, I noticed/know (in assumption) that you are a good girl but you can never prove it until you hook up to a good guy. Being a good girl does not reflect how faithful you are to your guy, intelligent - nope, beautiful - nope, meek - nope; but how smart you are able to combine all your qualities to discover a worthy man for yourself. No matter what life requires from you, get him! because he is the one that can give you a marital peace

You only get to know someone when u come very close to that person...... That's why you experience people's character in different ways...... From when they are trying to woo u...... To when u have entered into a relationship with them even until after marriage......

Most people pretend because they want something from you when they get it they show u their true colour

A very good example is money matter....... U start a business with someone, agree on how to share the money....... When the money arrives...... Story go change

Its quite difficult to determine a good person from afar

it was and still surreal,it just happened. communication was dwindling and finally stopped. it was quite mutual tho.

Been a year and still no explanations...