Same old

I agree with what you said, but not all, especially number one. I am an introvert. That is who I am. It is not an habit. It is a character. I have an uncle that is rich as hell but an introvert to the core. An introvert does not mean foolish or clueless, we chit chat, smile to customers and cut business deals.

Sharing problems: Well thank God for your friends, A problem shared is solved but it depends on who you share it with.

Be a giver:Nothing beats a giver.

Number one is like a covenant one takes with God Almighty. As you give, you receive in abundance. I don't know how to make friends and I don't need em. I also don't know how to share my problems with people, I will rather deal with it on my own, call it pride or something. I did rather help you solve yours so that you become indebted to me

is this now worthy of fp?

Gender inequality is what I see!

Givers never lack! I confirm

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ITS VERY NICE TO BE FAMILIAR WITH PEOPLE

Anuoluwapo23:
Its nice to write again and I'm really excited to share this story of mine to every Nairalander so i would be needing your help(mods) also to reach more people on this interesting tips of mine..

I'll be giving out just 3 tips,I was in a bus today and I was thinking about my life and giving thanks to God and how I could have saved over 500k in my twenties even without supports from my parents or family,we arent really financially stable so i just had to source funds for myself and all sorts by myself.


1.Socialize and Make Friends:Some people call themselves introverts but I think this is a very bad thing because it would really affect your standard of living even if you're the richest in this world because you would need someone's help to get rich or get high in life,you know you can't do this alone,just socialize,make friends,let your friends help you,let them pay for your food,let them pay for your drinks,let your rich colleague pay for your lunch, it might look like begging or some sorts but because you know where you came from,don't be shy to ask people to help you,don't be shy to talk to anyone thats helpful,it might be your lucky day.


2.Tell people your problem;In 2009 I remember when I needed a job so bad that I told a friend of mine about my difficulties,but my friend that I told had another friend,she told her friend about my issues,I should be angry but I wasn't because I didn't expect her to tell someone I don't know about myself,and I didn't request her "uncalled for BC",but I I don't know who's who,so I kept my cool,and few weeks later her friend got me a job which was actually my dream job in an accounting firm and its a very good one,when I got the job,first week,my boss liked me so much just because I was the open minded type,I do not hide my problems from people,he always pay for my lunch and drops me at the busstop of my area and it went on and on that my salary was really enough because I don't even remove up to 10k out of it in month,isn't it cool?



3.Be A Giver ;What do I actually mean by this?its not just about giving and not expecting a return on investment,its about giving and expecting nothing to come out of it,not even 5N.
Earlier this year,my aunt had her wedding ceremony and we were all excited and all sorts,some people just came and said they haven't eaten but I don't know them,and they were my aunt's guest but they had gone home for verification so I just overlooked it,although I should be angry because even me I hadn't eaten for the day so it should be annoying that someone came "after party" for God!Nobody really does that but these men did it for real,and I gave them my food that I had reserved for myself, (they were two) so they ate my one plate until earlier this month,I saw one of them in Abeokuta at a store where i was trying to decide on which blender to purchase from the 3chub store somewhere in panseke,and what they had that day was a syinix blender and the man didn't just purchase the blender though, he also bought me a huaweii device because I said I had non at the moment although I had non,I got robbed in my street by 9pm(May God Help Us In Nigeria) so they snatched my bag which had (a boom j8,a vodafone tab,my makeup kit,my shawarma,8k,and my devices charger and different stuffs " but I'm grateful to God that I wasn't even stabbed.So it just happened that way..


That scenario is really funny but that's how to stay rich,Thats how I stay rich even when I have a very low income,I hope we all make use of these beautiful steps of mine, I didn't even read them from a book,Its my idea,please read and share and like.

adepiero:
Save! save!! save!!! This is my own key to being rich. a lot of people invest in their stomach and other frivolous things but the key is to save more than you can spend, that way you'll find it easier to give.

Nobody can say it better, Saving is the key.

Experience is the best teacher... they say and I agree. Thanks for sharing and may God visit u Financially.

ChazzyGee:
Nice write up OP.... Buh please 1 & 2 are feminine agenda...
(just acknowledged that you are a gurl)

True talk brother...feminine charm

Nice Idea Men

Stop the rough play mate.

jayriginal:
Avoid alcohol.

You will drink, host friends, and spend more than you can sustainably afford.

Then you lose all inhibitions, engage in risky behavior, might crash your car and then spend more than you spent on the whole outing.

OP, that negates your first point about socializing.

U talk well. Make I employ u. U go like change job

Typical feminine living code...

A guy tries this and you are jonzing

Nice though.

I am an introvert and proudly so, but this does not stop me from actually seeking for meaningful help from reasonable people when i am in need. Nice points anyways

bsaying:
Am here thinking on what will happen if dollar is at 250 in the parallel market after the CBN flexible rate steps in..... Wetin i go buy for aliexpress and amazon ehn..... Lol....

please,have u bought from aliexpress lately?what's their rate like?

If you wish to be annoyingly clingy and parasitic, adopt these strategies.

An introvert would always be an introvert. Some persons just want to remain in their tent, and don't want to disturb the peace of others. That's who they are, and it would be great to appreciate them just the way they are.

You don't have to be annoyingly parasitic before you get HELP. Try and be clingy as a woman, and get approached rudely for se.x by randy men.


Nice effort regardless

#4: Be a girl. Ladies get help easily. A lady once told me she's to broke to buy data. Same day I checked her phone and saw bank SMS alert with balance of above 200k. If you were a guy...bukata won't let you save much.

PureWays:
Nice Write-up.

There are blessings in giving.

To the introverts; the world is tough, sometimes you have to break yourself to achieve your goals. Don't be rigid.

You're right but folks who can't make friends didn't choose to be rigid, though. If they try to make friends, they'd fail. They're just that way.

maybe OP can help me get a job at this "accounting firm" biko.

kikio1992:
Wondering Why when I order Dowells in this shiity hotel they find a way to attach groundnut .I still don't know why they don't add d thing that goes. MEAT...


Though to feel rich just move your life to instagram.

Kindly checkout www.kikioTolu.com for the beat romance, comedy, poems, entertainment, funny pics and lots more

Peanut reduces your chances of getting high

Nice points. But Saving is the number 1 key o my sister. "A man that receive #10,000 monthly and spend #9,800 on Groundnut and Guguru is on the way to NEVERLAND " -- Says NOEL.

Nice Advice. It work for Real.

jayriginal:
Avoid alcohol.

You will drink, host friends, and spend more than you can sustainably afford.

Then you lose all inhibitions, engage in risky behavior, might crash your car and then spend more than you spent on the whole outing.

OP, that negates your first point about socializing.

It doesn't. You can socialise without drinking. You can even opt for friends that don't drink. Besides, there are highly successful people who drink. Where op got it wrong is with introverts. Nobody chooses to be introverted.

@ OP, nice write-up. U have said it all. It should have been how to stay content instead of stay rich, my opinion though.


Anyway, u might still be right because "rich" is a relative term.

Anuoluwapo23:
Its nice to write again and I'm really excited to share this story of mine to every Nairalander so i would be needing your help(mods) also to reach more people on this interesting tips of mine..

I'll be giving out just 3 tips,I was in a bus today and I was thinking about my life and giving thanks to God and how I could have saved over 500k in my twenties even without supports from my parents or family,we arent really financially stable so i just had to source funds for myself and all sorts by myself.


1.Socialize and Make Friends:Some people call themselves introverts but I think this is a very bad thing because it would really affect your standard of living even if you're the richest in this world because you would need someone's help to get rich or get high in life,you know you can't do this alone,just socialize,make friends,let your friends help you,let them pay for your food,let them pay for your drinks,let your rich colleague pay for your lunch, it might look like begging or some sorts but because you know where you came from,don't be shy to ask people to help you,don't be shy to talk to anyone thats helpful,it might be your lucky day.


2.Tell people your problem;In 2009 I remember when I needed a job so bad that I told a friend of mine about my difficulties,but my friend that I told had another friend,she told her friend about my issues,I should be angry but I wasn't because I didn't expect her to tell someone I don't know about myself,and I didn't request her "uncalled for BC",but I I don't know who's who,so I kept my cool,and few weeks later her friend got me a job which was actually my dream job in an accounting firm and its a very good one,when I got the job,first week,my boss liked me so much just because I was the open minded type,I do not hide my problems from people,he always pay for my lunch and drops me at the busstop of my area and it went on and on that my salary was really enough because I don't even remove up to 10k out of it in month,isn't it cool?



3.Be A Giver ;What do I actually mean by this?its not just about giving and not expecting a return on investment,its about giving and expecting nothing to come out of it,not even 5N.
Earlier this year,my aunt had her wedding ceremony and we were all excited and all sorts,some people just came and said they haven't eaten but I don't know them,and they were my aunt's guest but they had gone home for verification so I just overlooked it,although I should be angry because even me I hadn't eaten for the day so it should be annoying that someone came "after party" for God!Nobody really does that but these men did it for real,and I gave them my food that I had reserved for myself, (they were two) so they ate my one plate until earlier this month,I saw one of them in Abeokuta at a store where i was trying to decide on which blender to purchase from the 3chub store somewhere in panseke,and what they had that day was a syinix blender and the man didn't just purchase the blender though, he also bought me a huaweii device because I said I had non at the moment although I had non,I got robbed in my street by 9pm(May God Help Us In Nigeria) so they snatched my bag which had (a boom j8,a vodafone tab,my makeup kit,my shawarma,8k,and my devices charger and different stuffs " but I'm grateful to God that I wasn't even stabbed.So it just happened that way..


That scenario is really funny but that's how to stay rich,Thats how I stay rich even when I have a very low income,I hope we all make use of these beautiful steps of mine, I didn't even read them from a book,Its my idea,please read and share and like.

u quite true, one who is quite cant help him or herself , telling people your problem hmmm it depends on who sha, the last point giving thats the ultimate, the giver never lack, no matter what, that has worked for me for years and its still working, in as much as i give , and save for myself, anytime i reach my spendable limit , miraculously i just get help from where i least expect, op , nice one , hope alot learn from this

youngice:

Peanut reduces your chances of getting high

Oh...I never knew...that means I should avoid the peanuts. Cos the idea is getting high

imurboss:



please,have u bought from aliexpress lately?what's their rate like?

I haven't bought from dem recently... Dont know their current rate