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. by Belaqua(f): 9:52pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Got the answer, thank you ![]() |
Re: . by EColeJnr: 9:55pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
So long he accepts you to be his wife... then go to his family .. if he truly loves you.. he'd marry you irrespective of anything But wait oooooo... Madam why don't you want kids? That's gonna be a real problem for you because NO Nigerian parent will wanna have a daughter in-law who doesn't want kids.. every Nigerian parent want to see their grandchildren |
Re: . by Nobody: 10:00pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
You don't want kids? 2 Likes
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Re: . by falconey(m): 10:03pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
with the exchange rate of dollar to naira I think they would |
Re: . by Belaqua(f): 10:04pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
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Re: . by EColeJnr: 10:14pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Belaqua: ![]() You don't want kids right? Then..... 3 Likes
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Re: . by Belaqua(f): 10:23pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
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Re: . by JeffreyJamez(m): 10:23pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
That your "I don't want kids " part has blanked you on arrival, don't even bother. Lol... and you choose not to cook?..... another blanking.... but you never know, his parents might just take you for who you are... but then again...... You don't want kids! ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: . by Nobody: 10:27pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
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Re: . by Nobody: 10:31pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
JeffreyJamez: I was feeling her and was about to dive in and support her with words of advice and then I read " I don't want kids". And I gave up ![]() It would be a miracle if her parents-in-law don't go crazy over that decision of hers. Well, not my business but I'm never getting married to a girl who doesn't want kids, no matter how much I may love her. My kids are my pride man. |
Re: . by thorpido(m): 10:33pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
You don't want kids?Hmmm,girl,forget it. |
Re: . by JeffreyJamez(m): 10:34pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Funnicator: Lol I Was about to tell her she has no problems until I saw the "I don't want kids" and "I don't cook" lines... na there I just give up.. hahaha |
Re: . by EColeJnr: 10:35pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Belaqua:It doesn't matter.. An average Nigerian parent wants grandchildren from every single child... if any child fails to have kids .. in African culture it is considered a taboo... It is inadvertently interpreted as Barrenness .. I Don tell you my own.. |
Re: . by JeffreyJamez(m): 10:36pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Belaqua: ..and your man is cool with this your "I don't want kids" psych? ![]() |
Re: . by Nobody: 10:36pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
JeffreyJamez: 1 Like
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Re: . by donbenedict(m): 10:36pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Belaqua! Belaqua! Look let me preach the Nigerian gospel to u If u really think u wish to marry a Nigerian without giving your mother in law kids, den u are just deceivin urself! Phew! When I was thinking black American girls rock, u just killed dat notion! |
Re: . by torqque7(m): 10:42pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Are you a learner? U better just start packing your things..as long as you don't want kids then dont even bother going close to a Nigerian man...sorry for you. In our culture kids are a MUST hun,no kids then ready to be kicked to the curb. ![]() |
Re: . by Nobody: 10:47pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
You're young so opinions are still in the formation stage: you may just find yourself dumping your "no kids" philosophy in the near future - unless there's a piece of info you're witholding. For the most part, just be yourself. |
Re: . by Belaqua(f): 10:52pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
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Re: . by Miggs(m): 10:57pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Belaqua:Your photo gave me an erection_ What are we going to do about it? And what has Donald Trump ever done to you or anyone else? HE IS AN AMERICAN PATRIOT AND A GREAT MAN 1 Like |
Re: . by JeffreyJamez(m): 10:57pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Belaqua: You never ready.. lol |
Re: . by ifex370(m): 11:06pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Belaqua: Babe I swear u never ready.. When your ready.. We start igba nkwu.. No kids No cooking 1 Like
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Re: . by Belaqua(f): 11:10pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
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Re: . by ronald4lif(m): 11:11pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
His parents are likely not to accept the idea of no kids and once that happens I fear for the future of the relationship. We're generally not known to go against our parent's decision when it comes to choosing a partner. Also, you don't cook? This doesn't sound well too for a Nigerian, we love our women to be traditional and exceptional in the kitchen. You two seem to be of a clashing background and upbringing. How long have you been dating him? |
Re: . by schumastic(m): 11:15pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Belaqua: are you sure is a Naija man that wants to marry you with the this options of not planning to have kids and cooking as well, even though u know how to cook..cus my naija men won't agree to such o except he is deceiving u.. as for the parents is a conplete NO( Mbanu, Ero ni, Babu) they can only agree if u change the option of kids plus if u v good qualities of a daughter inlaw, they will accept u. |
Re: . by smileysmiley(f): 11:18pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Belaqua:forget it sweetheart... the parents aside, no real Nigerian man will sit well with this "no kids" philosophy... and my naija men love food,they live to eat so I'll say this relationship is dead on arrival |
Re: . by Rikidony(m): 11:21pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Belaqua: BE PRODUCTIVE, U LEAVING THIS WORLD BARREN WILL BE SELFISH AND DEPRIVING UR UNBORN CHILDREN THEIR CHANCE OF LIVING. NO NIGERIAN PARENT WILL ACCEPT TWO MEN AS COUPLE |
Re: . by JeffreyJamez(m): 11:28pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
ifex370: Bihahahahaha... this is funny. |
Re: . by Belaqua(f): 11:28pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Rikidony: Omg I'm not a man ![]() |
Re: . by JeffreyJamez(m): 11:29pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Belaqua: All will not be well...that will just be the beginning to factory resetting. ![]() |
Re: . by Belaqua(f): 11:30pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
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Re: . by Belaqua(f): 11:33pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
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