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. by Belaqua(f): 9:52pm On Jun 15, 2016

Got the answer, thank you kiss

Re: . by EColeJnr: 9:55pm On Jun 15, 2016

So long he accepts you to be his wife... then go to his family .. if he truly loves you.. he'd marry you irrespective of anything

But wait oooooo... Madam why don't you want kids?

That's gonna be a real problem for you because NO Nigerian parent will wanna have a daughter in-law who doesn't want kids.. every Nigerian parent want to see their grandchildren

Re: . by Nobody: 10:00pm On Jun 15, 2016

You don't want kids?

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Re: . by falconey(m): 10:03pm On Jun 15, 2016

with the exchange rate of dollar to naira I think they would

Re: . by Belaqua(f): 10:04pm On Jun 15, 2016

Re: . by EColeJnr: 10:14pm On Jun 15, 2016

Belaqua:
Hahaha
No!

I'm not happy with the way the world is - Trump could be PRESIDENT

Also, I'm the oldest of 6 kids. I'll be very happy to babysit my nieces/nephews and then send them home so I can cuddle in bed with my husband in peace

You don't want kids right?

Then.....

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Re: . by Belaqua(f): 10:23pm On Jun 15, 2016

Re: . by JeffreyJamez(m): 10:23pm On Jun 15, 2016

That your "I don't want kids " part has blanked you on arrival, don't even bother. Lol... and you choose not to cook?..... another blanking.... but you never know, his parents might just take you for who you are... but then again......

You don't want kids! grin

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Re: . by Nobody: 10:27pm On Jun 15, 2016

You have to want kids ooo...Aside's that,if the man wants u , his family has no choice ...

Re: . by Nobody: 10:31pm On Jun 15, 2016

JeffreyJamez:
That your "I don't want kids " part has blanked you on arrival, don't even bother. Lol... and you choose not to cook?..... another blanking.... but you never know, his parents might just take you for who you are... but then again......

You don't want kids!

I was feeling her and was about to dive in and support her with words of advice and then I read " I don't want kids". And I gave up grin

It would be a miracle if her parents-in-law don't go crazy over that decision of hers.
Well, not my business but I'm never getting married to a girl who doesn't want kids, no matter how much I may love her.

My kids are my pride man.

Re: . by thorpido(m): 10:33pm On Jun 15, 2016

You don't want kids?Hmmm,girl,forget it.

Re: . by JeffreyJamez(m): 10:34pm On Jun 15, 2016

Funnicator:

I was feeling her and was about to dive in and support her with words of advice and then I read " I don't want kids". And I gave up

It would be a miracle if her parents-in-law don't go crazy over that decision of hers.
Well, not my business but I'm never getting married to a girl who doesn't want kids, no matter how much I may love her.

My kids are my pride man.

Lol I Was about to tell her she has no problems until I saw the "I don't want kids" and "I don't cook" lines... na there I just give up.. hahaha

Re: . by EColeJnr: 10:35pm On Jun 15, 2016

Belaqua:

Really

He has two sisters and a brother, I'm sure they'll have grandchildren from their other kids!

It doesn't matter..

An average Nigerian parent wants grandchildren from every single child... if any child fails to have kids .. in African culture it is considered a taboo... It is inadvertently interpreted as Barrenness ..

I Don tell you my own..

Re: . by JeffreyJamez(m): 10:36pm On Jun 15, 2016

Belaqua:

Really

He has two sisters and a brother, I'm sure they'll have grandchildren from their other kids!

..and your man is cool with this your "I don't want kids" psych? sad

Re: . by Nobody: 10:36pm On Jun 15, 2016

JeffreyJamez:

Lol I Was about to tell her she has no problems until I saw the "I don't want kids" and "I don't cook" lines... na there I just give up.. hahaha

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Re: . by donbenedict(m): 10:36pm On Jun 15, 2016

Belaqua! Belaqua!

Look let me preach the Nigerian gospel to u

If u really think u wish to marry a Nigerian without giving your mother in law kids, den u are just deceivin urself!

Phew! When I was thinking black American girls rock, u just killed dat notion!

Re: . by torqque7(m): 10:42pm On Jun 15, 2016

Are you a learner? U better just start packing your things..as long as you don't want kids then dont even bother going close to a Nigerian man...sorry for you.

In our culture kids are a MUST hun,no kids then ready to be kicked to the curb. angry

Re: . by Nobody: 10:47pm On Jun 15, 2016

You're young so opinions are still in the formation stage: you may just find yourself dumping your "no kids" philosophy in the near future - unless there's a piece of info you're witholding. For the most part, just be yourself.

Re: . by Belaqua(f): 10:52pm On Jun 15, 2016

Re: . by Miggs(m): 10:57pm On Jun 15, 2016

Belaqua:
Hahaha
No!

I'm not happy with the way the world is - Trump could be PRESIDENT

Also, I'm the oldest of 6 kids. I'll be very happy to babysit my nieces/nephews and then send them home so I can cuddle in bed with my husband in peace

Your photo gave me an erection_
What are we going to do about it?
And what has Donald Trump ever done to you or anyone else?

HE IS AN AMERICAN PATRIOT AND A GREAT MAN

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Re: . by JeffreyJamez(m): 10:57pm On Jun 15, 2016

Belaqua:
He knows that I don't want kids. When we talked about it, he was the one to bring it up. I'm 27, and have not wanted kids my whole life, no plans to change. If he changes his mind later & would just DIE if he didn't have children, I'd consider having up to 2 kids, but key word: consider. My mom has been on me to have kids too, but I don't think anyone can make the decision for me, and certainly not if they aren't also volunteering to help... I can't imagine having kids just because someone (besides my husband) thought I should.

You never ready.. lol

Re: . by ifex370(m): 11:06pm On Jun 15, 2016

Belaqua:
He knows that I don't want kids. When we talked about it, he was the one to bring it up. I'm 27, and have not wanted kids my whole life, no plans to change. If he changes his mind later & would just DIE if he didn't have children, I'd consider having up to 2 kids, but key word: consider. My mom has been on me to have kids too, but I don't think anyone can make the decision for me, and certainly not if they aren't also volunteering to help... I can't imagine having kids just because someone (besides my husband) thought I should.

Babe I swear u never ready..

When your ready.. We start igba nkwu..

No kids
No cooking

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Re: . by Belaqua(f): 11:10pm On Jun 15, 2016

Re: . by ronald4lif(m): 11:11pm On Jun 15, 2016

His parents are likely not to accept the idea of no kids and once that happens I fear for the future of the relationship. We're generally not known to go against our parent's decision when it comes to choosing a partner.

Also, you don't cook? This doesn't sound well too for a Nigerian, we love our women to be traditional and exceptional in the kitchen. You two seem to be of a clashing background and upbringing. How long have you been dating him?

Re: . by schumastic(m): 11:15pm On Jun 15, 2016

Belaqua:

She also said that his parents might not be happy with the fact that I don't know any of their traditions/culture (although I'm absolutely willing to learn + be respectful of them), and that his parents might be upset that I have no interest in being a traditional homemaker. I don't want kids, prefer not to cook (although I can cook, and do enjoy it when I decide to throw down in the kitchen), etc. The guy I'm dating knows the way that I am, and hasn't had any issues with it, but his parents might.

So, any ideas what i can expect? Anything I should be prepared for? I really, really adore this guy!!

Thank you in advance

are you sure is a Naija man that wants to marry you with the this options of not planning to have kids and cooking as well, even though u know how to cook..cus my naija men won't agree to such o except he is deceiving u.. as for the parents is a conplete NO( Mbanu, Ero ni, Babu) they can only agree if u change the option of kids plus if u v good qualities of a daughter inlaw, they will accept u.

Re: . by smileysmiley(f): 11:18pm On Jun 15, 2016

Belaqua:
He knows that I don't want kids. When we talked about it, he was the one to bring it up. I'm 27, and have not wanted kids my whole life, no plans to change. If he changes his mind later & would just DIE if he didn't have children, I'd consider having up to 2 kids, but key word: consider. My mom has been on me to have kids too, but I don't think anyone can make the decision for me, and certainly not if they aren't also volunteering to help... I can't imagine having kids just because someone (besides my husband) thought I should.

forget it sweetheart... the parents aside, no real Nigerian man will sit well with this "no kids" philosophy... and my naija men love food,they live to eat so I'll say this relationship is dead on arrival

Re: . by Rikidony(m): 11:21pm On Jun 15, 2016

Belaqua:
He knows that I don't want kids. When we talked about it, he was the one to bring it up. I'm 27, and have not wanted kids my whole life, no plans to change. If he changes his mind later & would just DIE if he didn't have children, I'd consider having up to 2 kids, but key word: consider. My mom has been on me to have kids too, but I don't think anyone can make the decision for me, and certainly not if they aren't also volunteering to help... I can't imagine having kids just because someone (besides my husband) thought I should.

BE PRODUCTIVE, U LEAVING THIS WORLD BARREN WILL BE SELFISH AND DEPRIVING UR UNBORN CHILDREN THEIR CHANCE OF LIVING.

NO NIGERIAN PARENT WILL ACCEPT TWO MEN AS COUPLE

Re: . by JeffreyJamez(m): 11:28pm On Jun 15, 2016

ifex370:

Babe I swear u never ready..

When your ready.. We start igba nkwu..

No kids
No cooking

Bihahahahaha... this is funny.

Re: . by Belaqua(f): 11:28pm On Jun 15, 2016

Rikidony:

BE PRODUCTIVE, U LEAVING THIS WORLD BARREN WILL BE SELFISH AND DEPRIVING UR UNBORN CHILDREN THEIR CHANCE OF LIVING.

NO NIGERIAN PARENT WILL ACCEPT TWO MEN AS COUPLE

Omg I'm not a man shocked

Re: . by JeffreyJamez(m): 11:29pm On Jun 15, 2016

Belaqua:

Wahhhh

What does it mean that I'm never ready? Bc of my age? And what does starting igba nkwu mean?

So if I say sure, great, lets have a kid, all is well??

All will not be well...that will just be the beginning to factory resetting. grin

Re: . by Belaqua(f): 11:30pm On Jun 15, 2016

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