OK ve bin dating dis guy for over 5months..he loves me and I love him too.. but just recently I noticed he started making too much phone calls with a gal.. I asked who the gal is but he said she is just a friend. . I later found out that she was his ex when I went to his room..... D gal was so innocent and calm... And she even knows we were dating... She told me she was dating my bf but dey had issues and she didn't really break up with him.. But my bf told me that dey broke up last year... She was d one dat broke up with him anyway... So she was begging to come back but he never accepted her back... I later asked my bf right in her presence if he was dating her but he said no.... Dat he isn't dating her... I felt bad for her wen he said "no" in my presence sha... She later told me she loves him and wants him back dat dey have been friends for 5yrs and have been dating for 3yrs.... Dat she just broke up with him because she was angry with him and wanted him to prove his love by coming back to beg her... She also said dey settled their issues early dis year and were still dating. .. . Anyway I asked my bf close friend wat really happened but he told me my bf really broke up with her even till this year . .. ..Dat he even asked her d last time she came(dat was b4 I started dating my bf) if he (my bf) has accepted her back but she said my bf is still telling her dey are done. .. I believe him because I didn't see any sign of her until last two weeks wen I started noticing the calls... Anyway d issue is dat my boyfriend confided in me dat he still loves her bcus dey dated for long... At d same time he told me he loves me and prefers dating me dats y he was able to say he wasn't dating her again in our presence (me and his ex) anyway I told him to stay away from the gal if he really values our relationship and he accepted... but d problem is.. ...
Is it possible for my boyfriend to love his ex and love me at the same time??
Is it normal for guys to still have feelings for their ex wen dey are already in a new relationship? ??

Please I need answers and advice on wat to do?? Because he admitted he still has feelings for her and me at d same time.. Please guys I need ur opinion thanks and please don't mind my moniker

5yr friendship + 3yr dating..
And he tels u he loves U..?

You're bf is very confused. How can he say he loves you and loves her at the same time? And you bought that?

Better sharpen your eyes cos I believe you're abt to get dumped.

Yea, it is very possible. I have been in his shoes before and now.

Nova15:
You're bf is very confused. How can he say he loves you and loves her at the same time? And you bought that?

Better sharpen your eyes cos I believe you're abt to get dumped.

dats wat am scared of... He already chose to date me even in her presence but am still scared sha

Kingsasian:
Yea, it is very possible. I have been in his shoes before and now.

Oga, it's not possible. I was involved with two ladies last monthw. I tot I was in love with both of them but I realised I only loved one and was having pity for the other. So my brother, you can't love two women.

*singing Tony Tetuila* I'm in love with two women I no know which one to take, I'm in love with two women I no know which one to take...

Saddist:
dats wat am scared of... He already chose to date me even in her presence but am still scared sha

He's still in contact with her and that's very dangerous since they've had a thing before, he can easily regress. So watch it.

Nova15:


Oga, it's not possible. I was involved with two ladies last monthw. I tot I was in love with both of them but I realised I only loved one and was having pity for the other. So my brother, you can't love two women.

well, that is for you. It is possible. I started dating my current girlfriend last year only for one of my exs to pop up from nowhere early this year to keep in touch with me. As a matter of fact I thought she just wanted to how I am faring little did I know that we would reignite what we felt for each other afterwards, mind you, we dated for almost four years before calling it quits and she knows I am dating someone else. Now I am in a dilemma...in love with two women. So it is possible to love two women and it is left for the guy to make his choice.