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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by seunowokade(m): 12:22pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
Monalisa185 Help me tell Julietcutie ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by schumastic(m): 12:22pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
klassykute: bar man bring the drinks ooo cus my chairman here says he will pay ![]() ![]() |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Countryman1(m): 12:24pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
The guy is my hero!!! 3 Likes |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by schumastic(m): 12:27pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
Angrymode: it was annoying i swear, after i agreed to send the amount u asked for next thing you gave your phone to your friend that i don't know at all n my first time speaking to the person,, that one self just opened mouth like gutter n asked me to send the same amount to her.. reason why i sent less than half the amount she asked for n she can ask her friend that spoilt her request for the remaining balance. |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by kaycodes: 12:29pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
Funkybabee: Lolz the thing pain you nor be small. ![]() ![]() ![]() First question is why would she invite her friends to go out with her on a DATE. Does she even understand the meaning of going on a date For emphasis; date TWO people getting together for an activity when the possibility of romance between them has been broached but not ruled out. Since the exploration of romance is the purpose of a date, merely asking someone out on a date is sufficient to broach the subject. Dates may or not continue once a couple have entered into a romantic relationship. The word "date" may be used to identify a get together between two people not romantically involved, but this usage is meant to convey irony, since such a meeting is not a date in the true sense of the word. Yeah, Mike and I went on a date last night. He's cute, but I'm not sure if I want to get involved with him or not. There was no place where FRIENDS was mentioned. Now to the guy's action, buying extra tickets for her friends was supposed to be a favor which he may or may not offer, in this case he choose not to. He passed a very clear message to the girl from day one which every guy should learn from. Scenario one... Girl.... Hey what's up, please meet my friends I told you wanted to see the movie Guy... Greets the ladies and hugs his potential bae. Ladies... Hey, girl we're coming lets get our tickets (That's what a classy girl will do) Guy... Ladies don't worry I already got all the tickets Girl.. blushes and says thank you. Scenario two... Girl.... Hey what's up, please meet my friends I told you wanted to see the movie Guy... Greets the ladies and hugs his potential bae. Ladies... Hey, girl we're coming lets get our tickets (That's what a classy girl will do) Guy... Says nothing, probably engrossed in some tete e tete talk with potential bae Girl.. Okay, no problem, I'll just get some snacks before you get back. We can have several scenarios of how this should have gone... but none of them should depict the guy as an I.diot for paying or not. The girl's mentality however shows how impoverished she is, plain and simple. If you invited them as your friends, then you should take care of them as your friends, not pass the buck to someone you still don't know yet just to impress your friends, that's the height of selfishness and irresponsibility. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by freekick: 12:33pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
Wht a great mind and a good teacher. kaycodes: 1 Like |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by TolaniLuv: 12:36pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
nnamdiokere45: Nigerian girls!! No homo! I like the guy. Nigerian guys should man up .. I'm sure he's an ibo guy |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by schumastic(m): 12:37pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
Boss13:LADIES WILL SAY THEY ARE NOT AFTER THE MONEY OR THE MONEY S NOT THE ISSUE BUT STILL THEY WILL CENTRE THE WHOLE ARGUMENT OF QUARREL ON THE MONEY N TAG THE GUY STINGY.TO ME IF MONEY IS NOT THE ISSUE THEN THERE IS NO POINT TALKING ABOUT IT TALK MORE OF BRING IT UP TO THE PUBLIC. |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by PastorAji(m): 12:38pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by kikies(m): 12:38pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
Julietcutie: The girl too didn't act right by not telling him in clear terms dat he'll foot all d bills She only said der want to come along to come see d same movie |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by PastorAji(m): 12:41pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
kaycodes:My brother/sister, you need to be recommended for the post of Minister of Economic Planning however, have this to quench your thirst (but if you are fasting, you go use am break your fast in the evening)
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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by TolaniLuv: 12:43pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
Where I live. Everybody share their bills equally! Date or no Date , it's 50/50. If you try that Nigerian mentality here trying to pay all for the bills She will never ever go on a date with you again! this is how it should be! Nigerian girls!! No get zero shame .. And Na we men Deh cuz dis shit |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by daveP(m): 12:46pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
Taking advantage of the "a guy must at least impress on first date" cliche. smh |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by bigtt76(f): 12:49pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
The girl fall hand joooooor! Her friends wanted to go see a movie and she told them she already had plans, why try to shove her friends' plans into hers? The guy already budgeted for two and you don't expect him to go over board just because he's dating you and so must please your friends .....it doesn't work that way dear sister! There's what they call etiquette and it must be obeyed. For example, If I say, ’I invite you,’ that means I pay. I may say, ’Let’s go to a restaurant,’ and in this case, everyone pays for themselves. If a man offers to pay for a woman, she can agree. In her case, the she asked the guy if he was 'cool with it' ....being cool with what if I may ask ....cool with the extra company or cool with the extra bill to be paid? ![]() Why go on social media to start painting a well mannered guy black .....#NanSense na wen de guy nor arrangee una all 1 Like |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Codes151(m): 12:53pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
princefunmmy: Lol.. my bf said 3k could buy 10 bottles of beer! Why waste it!! Lmao |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by clogogo(m): 12:55pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
kaycodes: A gentle man is someone that stand by his words , it shows he lies to much, and don't have any respect for himself, he should have objected to the fact it was a first date and aborted, if she disagreed. Yes I know many girls take advantage of the scenario, but I gentle man makes the girl understand his position at all time. So for me the guy is a broke ASS dude.. |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by topeorekoy(m): 12:59pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
My take: Babes need to be careful with the way they handle first dates. How can you go on a first date with a guy and you take your friends along? Is it insecurity or what? You both are meeting for the first time, time to access each other. Time to know more about each other. Don't you think taking your friends along will distract you both? You can take them along when you both are close to the each other. I shared this with some ladies and they blamed OP and one of them narrated how she missed out on being with a guy she met and really loved. She took two of her friends on her first date with the guy and he took to one of her friends and lost interest in her. The guy is married to her friend now. 1 Like |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by dview001(m): 1:01pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
In Cisco's voice "my maen"....I took like d guy |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by pimpo: 1:01pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
schumastic: This is what 2Baba and Phyno were saying in "Coded Tinz". |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Nobody: 1:02pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
First of all, no girl who serious about any guy will ask to bring friends along, especially not on a first date. the guy probably realised this hence his behavior. secondly dating is extinct, it has been replaced by the "hook up" culture. by this i mean most relationships nowaday starts from the physical to the emotional. i.e guy and girl meets, sparks starts flying, guy/girl looks for a reasonable excuse to get guy/girl to his/her place so they can bang without guilt. after that, they decide if tgey should continue banging or not. then they go on dates and tag themselves boyfriend/girlfriend. the girl in question probably belongs to that school of thought which is probably why she thought the guy was a mugu for proposing a date. |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by icankel: 1:04pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
wen u will actually knw some girls are sensible is wen their own brother tries such rubbish....the manner of insult u'll get frm her wil b terrible |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by topeorekoy(m): 1:07pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
clogogo: I do not agree with you on this. She said her friends will be coming with her but she never told the guy he was going to pay and the guy never said he was going to pay for anything. So I do not see where the guy did not stand by his words |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by skimmy39: 1:10pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
This is what i expect from every Nigerian guy> put them in their Fu(ken place!!! |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by princefunmmy(m): 1:11pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
Codes151:and how much does human hair cost? A whole plot of land |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Ligxy(f): 1:12pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
Feranchek:Babe no try at all. I'll say good riddance to bad rubbish. So cos you told him you're bringing friends means he must pay? Stupid oshofree gurls making some fake a.as guys say trash about ALL ladies. Bringing your friends along on a movie date and expecting the guy to pay for y'all ain't ladylike. Imo 1 Like |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Nobody: 1:13pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
mayorkyzo: ![]() I dont take beer. Red label would do. |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Nobody: 1:15pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
princy80: Forming oyibo ontop guyman pocket moni.. |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by 007Gbenga: 1:17pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
The economy ain't smiling, CHANGE! |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by skimmy39: 1:18pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
are you gay? even if you aren't you just sounded like one. This guy deserves an award , didnt she say her friend were gonna go watch the movie with or without him. is he their father? Abeg Abeg Abeg? make you park well Feranchek: |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by PreciousBro: 1:18pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
delishpot: Madam i say you are wrong,how would he voice out words on basis of impression from her. Did she mention anything about him paying for her friends ? You see the thing about gentlemen,they are most times unattached to emotional blackmail from girls, they dont convey their actions by mere impressions. You have to communicate and not sit with an over-bloated sense of entitlement and expect,putting to total disregard the economic happenstance in your country. Even if guys act on impressions to play nice so as to be called "gentlemen",using our sixth sense,you girls would still tag us mugus/magas and all emasculatory adjectives,saying after all you didn't literally ask..nice one there,we have figured. ![]() As for your last statement,i dont seem to get you. Vindictive ? You seem to be throwing words out like used pads... I think you are just overly pained that guys are figuring your kind out and have refused to play dûmb to your type. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by poik(m): 1:23pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
Feranchek: see, my guy, you are a nigga like me and you know how these girls behave. for the love of mike this is a first date. You know how it is with first impresssions. You will be insincere if u tell me you will say the friends should not come as you dont have the means to sponsor them, if you were in the guy's shoes. You that i know wont do that. Not that i am supporting deception and all that, but its a pseudo world and these girls like it fake. trust me. Besides, that he said they should come does not automatically imply he would pay for their tickets, logically speaking. his paying would further prove him a gentleman...not that its compulsory. He did not invite them. so....abeg....lets not murder the guy. |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by somehowpenis(m): 1:24pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
Feranchek:_ass licking house negroe |
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