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Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by seyexdkoko(m): 12:59am On Jun 16, 2016
QUESTION

Is my fast broken? I kissed and touched my wife this afternoon.

ANSWER TO THE QUESTION

Assalamun Aleikum Warahmotullahi Wabarakatuhu

Praise be to Allaah.



If a man kisses his wife and touches her, without having intercourse, while he is fasting, all of that is permissible and there is nothing wrong with it, because Prophet Muhammad (saw) used to kiss his wife while he was fasting, and he used to touch her while he was fasting.



But if a man fears that he may end up doing that which Allah has prohibited to him, because he is easily aroused by it, then it is Makrooh (disliked) for him to do that.



If he ejaculates mani (semen) , then he must refrain from eating and so on for the rest of the day, and he must make up that day’s fast, but he does not have to offer expiation, according to the majority of scholars.



End quote from Fataawa Ash-Shaykh Ibn Baaz (15/315)



May Almighty Allaah accept our fasting as an act of worship=Ameen


Source: http://salamng.com/is-my-fast-broken-i-kissed-and-touched-my-wife-this-afternoon/

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Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by D34lw4p(m): 2:18am On Jun 16, 2016
Oh! I was about to say Yes you just broke your fast until I saw that you are already going to explain everything in details. THANKS FOR SHARING THIS.

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Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by blacktwist(m): 3:50am On Jun 16, 2016
so there is no pride in been the FTC.... but can I possibly kiss my GF during fasting..?

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Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by Nobody: 6:46am On Jun 16, 2016
May the Almighty Allah answers all my Muslim friends prayers in this season of Ramadan. You are all blessed.

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Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by Newnas(m): 6:23pm On Jun 16, 2016
Thanks jare OP.

I kiss my wife regularly during Ramadan and caress her.

Caring for your wife is a big act of worship and I hope I'll get greater rewards for my kisses and spendings upon her in this month.

But I have some benefits to add;

# If you have sex during the nights then it would be easier to control yourself during the day and prevent unnecessary urges and fluids.

# Avoid excessive sex during the nights of Ramadan, this could make you feel dizzy and faint during the day, in an extreme case you could end up breaking the day's fast because you might not be able to continue.

# If you must have several rounds, ensure that you drink lots of water and eat very nourishing foods like vegetables, milks and beverages.

# If you know you can't control your urges, it's better for you to spend the day in the mosque or ask your wife not to adorn herself to help you concentrate.

May Allah increase us in beneficial knowledge.

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Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by Olaide1295: 10:47am On Jun 17, 2016
Beautiful!!
A man can kiss his wife even when fasting,
What makes Islam beautiful is that the prophet himself is a good model.
His life answered virtually all questions

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Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by LuckyLadolce(m): 10:48am On Jun 17, 2016
Mah shaa Allah! Not gf oooo grin to all of you who will start jumping up grin

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Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by adepiero: 10:49am On Jun 17, 2016
Salam alaikum OP, well in my own opinion, i wont say the fast is broken because it is your wife and not a random girl you kissed. Your intention for doing so is also a thing to consider so if you did it out of lust then you know the answer already.

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Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by aminho(m): 10:49am On Jun 17, 2016
Yes so on point
Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by Shaakay(m): 10:50am On Jun 17, 2016
[quote author=modelmike7 post=46615640]May the Almighty Allah answers all my Muslim friends prayers in this season of Ramadan. You are all blessed.Amin

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Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by favouritesahaba: 10:51am On Jun 17, 2016
Jazakallahu khaeran.

May Allah increase your knowledge

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Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by Akkord4gov: 10:51am On Jun 17, 2016
Newnas:
Thanks jare OP.

I kiss my wife regularly during Ramadan and caress her.

Caring for your wife is a big act of worship and I hope I'll get greater rewards for my kisses and spendings upon her in this month.

But I have some benefits to add;

# If you have sex during the nights then it would be easier to control yourself during the day and prevent unnecessary urges and fluids.

# Avoid excessive sex during the nights of Ramadan, this could make you feel dizzy and faint during the day, in an extreme case you could end up breaking the day's fast because you might not be able to continue.

# If you must have several rounds, ensure that you drink lots of water and eat very nourishing foods like vegetables, milks and beverages.

# If you know you can't control your urges, it's better for you to spend the day in the mosque or ask your wife not to adorn herself to help you concentrate.

May Allah increase us in beneficial knowledge.

Aameeen
I feel like getting married. May Almighty Allah provide a spouse for me among the pious women and those that Allah loves and give us those children that will act in the way of Allah and be a blessing to this world. Aameen

Same to our single brothers out there too

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Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by Akkord4gov: 10:53am On Jun 17, 2016
komododragons:
you have sex with your wife during fasting! undecided

is Muhammad watching you or something?


weti come concern us! after all AFTER fasting una go go back dey sin up and DOWN, dey CARRY WOMEN put for house dey enjoy 30days of not sleeping with WOMEN.

Y can't u try and read the post again and few comments for better understanding?

All activities you abandon during fasting or those u engage in that are halal(rightful) are expected to be continue after fasting. That is the purpose of fasting

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Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by Shaakay(m): 10:53am On Jun 17, 2016
[quote author=seyexdkoko post=46613298]QUESTION

Is my fast broken? I kissed and touched my wife this afternoon.

ANSWER TO THE QUESTION

Assalamun Aleikum Warahmotullahi Wabarakatuhu

Praise be to Allaah.



If a man kisses his wife and touches her, without having intercourse, while he is fasting, all of that is permissible and there is nothing wrong with it, because Prophet Muhammad (saw) used to kiss his wife while he was fasting, and he used to touch her while he was fasting.



But if a man fears that he may end up doing that which Allah has prohibited to him, because he is easily aroused by it, then it is Makrooh (disliked) for him to do that.



If he ejaculates mani (semen) , then he must refrain from eating and so on for the rest of the day, and he must make up that day’s fast, but he does not have to offer expiation, according to the majority of scholars.



End quote from Fataawa Ash-Shaykh Ibn Baaz (15/315)



May Almighty Allaah accept our fasting as an act of worship=Ameen


Thanks and May Allah Bless you and muslim brothers and sisters in the house.

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Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by yunnyp(m): 10:54am On Jun 17, 2016
If its Mouth Kiss, bro ur fast don break

Buf Almighty Allah said don't judge for me so i won't because Allah has the final say.

So wait for the poeple that has knowledge of the Holy Book (Quran) that us...
Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by goodlifehyd(m): 10:56am On Jun 17, 2016
Thanks for sharing

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Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by Shaakay(m): 10:56am On Jun 17, 2016
[color=#000099][quote][quote author=Newnas post=46635348]Thanks jare OP.

I kiss my wife regularly during Ramadan and caress her.

Caring for your wife is a big act of worship and I hope I'll get greater rewards for my kisses and spendings upon her in this month.

But I have some benefits to add;

# If you have sex during the nights then it would be easier to control yourself during the day and prevent unnecessary urges and fluids.

# Avoid excessive sex during the nights of Ramadan, this could make you feel dizzy and faint during the day, in an extreme case you could end up breaking the day's fast because you might not be able to continue.

# If you must have several rounds, ensure that you drink lots of water and eat very nourishing foods like vegetables, milks and beverages.

# If you know you can't control your urges, it's better for you to spend the day in the mosque or ask your wife not to adorn herself to help you concentrate.

May Allah increase us in beneficial knowledge.

Amin

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Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by ibrokola(m): 11:00am On Jun 17, 2016
LuckyLadolce:
Mah shaa Allah! Not gf oooo grin to all of you who will start jumping up grin

What of Fiancee, one already recognized by both parents cool?
Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by MKO4ever(m): 11:01am On Jun 17, 2016
I do not think it is advisable to kiss one's wife during fasting (at day period)
What is it that you cannot wait till after iftar?
Even after iftar, sex frequency should be at minimum during this one month
My brother, if you are not occupied with work, read, sleep, pray, read and read your quran.
Before you know it, the kissing will turn to sex during fasting
May Allah makes it easy for us oo

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Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by CLIQBOY(m): 11:03am On Jun 17, 2016
Can i use water to wash my mouth, without swallowing it?

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Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by ibrokola(m): 11:05am On Jun 17, 2016
LuckyLadolce:
Mah shaa Allah! Not gf oooo grin to all of you who will start jumping up grin

What of Fiancee, one already recognized by both parents?

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Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by MKO4ever(m): 11:10am On Jun 17, 2016
Newnas:
Thanks jare OP.

I kiss my wife regularly during Ramadan and caress her.

Caring for your wife is a big act of worship and I hope I'll get greater rewards for my kisses and spendings upon her in this month.

But I have some benefits to add;

# If you have sex during the nights then it would be easier to control yourself during the day and prevent unnecessary urges and fluids.

# Avoid excessive sex during the nights of Ramadan, this could make you feel dizzy and faint during the day, in an extreme case you could end up breaking the day's fast because you might not be able to continue.

# If you must have several rounds, ensure that you drink lots of water and eat very nourishing foods like vegetables, milks and beverages.

# If you know you can't control your urges, it's better for you to spend the day in the mosque or ask your wife not to adorn herself to help you concentrate.

May Allah increase us in beneficial knowledge.
Have you heard of this hadith before?
Iza Jawaza-L-Hittana Alal-Hittana, Faqod Wajaba-l-Guslu
Kissing and caressing in the day during ramadan, my broda, I think it is way way to far and should be avoided

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Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by Caseless: 11:10am On Jun 17, 2016
Yes!!!
Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by Caseless: 11:11am On Jun 17, 2016
CLIQBOY:
Can i use water to wash my mouth, without swallowing it?
yes .

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Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by AdebisiAdeyinka(m): 11:12am On Jun 17, 2016
seyexdkoko:
QUESTION

Is my fast broken? I kissed and touched my wife this afternoon.

ANSWER TO THE QUESTION

Assalamun Aleikum Warahmotullahi Wabarakatuhu

Praise be to Allaah.



If a man kisses his wife and touches her, without having intercourse, while he is fasting, all of that is permissible and there is nothing wrong with it, because Prophet Muhammad (saw) used to kiss his wife while he was fasting, and he used to touch her while he was fasting.



But if a man fears that he may end up doing that which Allah has prohibited to him, because he is easily aroused by it, then it is Makrooh (disliked) for him to do that.



If he ejaculates mani (semen) , then he must refrain from eating and so on for the rest of the day, and he must make up that day’s fast, but he does not have to offer expiation, according to the majority of scholars.



End quote from Fataawa Ash-Shaykh Ibn Baaz (15/315)



May Almighty Allaah accept our fasting as an act of worship=Ameen


Source: http://salamng.com/is-my-fast-broken-i-kissed-and-touched-my-wife-this-afternoon/
what of someone who brush his teeth like 3 times during the day @seyexdkoko
Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by hamzeiy: 11:15am On Jun 17, 2016
adepiero:
Salam alaikum OP, well in my own opinion, i wont say the fast is broken because it is your wife and not a random girl you kissed. Your intention for doing so is also a thing to consider so if you did it out of lust then you know the answer already.

in your own opinion? really?
its not about hour opinion but what the quran or hadith states about the issue. as it has been xplained earlier it is not haram only if you know you might fall to sex or ejaculates as stated above. finally their is no lust in kissing your wife. shez your wife you cant lust over her nd even at that your fasting is not vitiated unless the conditions stated happens.
so in the sunnah,s opinion your fasting is nt vitiated even if its done with lust as you said unless your fall into having sex with her or ejaculates as a result of your actions.
lets seek fr knowledge on issues b4 we speak on them otherwise we remain silent.
Allah know,s best. May Allah forgive you, me and us all in this ramadhan...ameen

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Re: Is My Fast Broken? I Kissed And Touched My Wife This Afternoon by Nobody: 11:20am On Jun 17, 2016
I'm not a Muslim

I mistakenly clicked on 'yes'

Mods.....help!!!!

I don't want that Allah thing on my profile

How do I remove it ??,

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