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Six Reasons Women Leave The Men They Love by DaFuhrer(m): 12:29pm On Jun 17, 2016
Love is without judgment, bias and bigotry or at least it should be. Love is effortless, but a relationship does require work. It’s like slow dancing in a burning room and many times it can end disastrously. These are the six reasons why most women leave their men.

1. They Feel Lonely
Women need to feel like they matter. If they feel like their man isn’t present, there is no point in continuing the relationship. Men tend to detach quickly as they get comfortable and for women, it can get very lonely. Physical presence isn’t everything as women want their partners to be emotionally present as well. A lack of love and attention can cause this feeling of loneliness to grow, which can cause your paths to separate.

2. They’re Not Acknowledged
There isn’t anything more detrimental to a woman than not being acknowledged or listened to when she is speaking. It’s important that she feels like she is being understood, respected, and accepted. Women love to share, and when they’re talking, they want to be listened to and paid attention to. Love is all about communicating, and if a woman doesn’t feel like her presence is being acknowledged with attention and love, she’ll not hold on to her man for much longer.

3. They Don’t Feel Sexy Anymore
It’s no secret that men are creatures of sex, but women are more inclined towards intimacy and pre-intimacy. Women want to be desired completely and not just for sex. They want spontaneity and can be easily bored by routine. They want to be romanced and craved by their men. Men do that, but once they get the women they love, these efforts go away very quickly. However, women want to be desired throughout the relationship if they’re to stay in it.

4. A Significant Life Change
If a woman feels like she’s going through a significant life change without the support and presence of her man, she will let go of him. Life changes constantly and women want their partner’s support and constant motivation if they’re to give their all in return. It’s not a lot to ask for and it’s most certainly doable for men, but their selfishness often gets in the way.

5.Their Man Is Predictable
Men are very vulnerable to fall into a routine, and most men don’t want to participate in stuff that isn’t about them. Women want a man who is unpredictable and delivers spontaneous moments throughout the course of their relationship. Predictability can very easily lead to growing apart and soon the relationship feels like it is not worth carrying on.

6. Their Man Is Absent
Women are very tolerant, but a man who doesn’t give them enough time is very seldom tolerated, and if so, he doesn’t last long. Women want men who are present and by their side most of the time, if not at all times. Being physically as well as emotionally present is all that some women want from their men and not getting it can lead to a change of heart.

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Re: Six Reasons Women Leave The Men They Love by Nobody: 12:30pm On Jun 17, 2016
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Re: Six Reasons Women Leave The Men They Love by cruzita(f): 12:35pm On Jun 17, 2016
if all these things are absent ,wetin we dey find for the relationship

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Re: Six Reasons Women Leave The Men They Love by Gmajor(m): 12:36pm On Jun 17, 2016
if you love someone you won't leave because of these flimsy excuses
Re: Six Reasons Women Leave The Men They Love by IsraelMonday(m): 12:38pm On Jun 17, 2016
cruzita:
if all these things are absent ,wetin we dey find for the relationship

ChiLdren
Re: Six Reasons Women Leave The Men They Love by jopretty(f): 12:54pm On Jun 17, 2016
cruzita:
if all these things are absent ,wetin we dey find for the relationship
I tire oo
Re: Six Reasons Women Leave The Men They Love by jozee8: 12:59pm On Jun 17, 2016
Like you are some kind of authority on women affairs?
Re: Six Reasons Women Leave The Men They Love by lytech1(m): 12:59pm On Jun 17, 2016
cruzita:
if all these things are absent ,wetin we dey find for the relationship
And will the presence of all this make you contempted?
Never!!!
Woman will always be woman
Re: Six Reasons Women Leave The Men They Love by cruzita(f): 1:04pm On Jun 17, 2016
lytech1:
And will the presence of all this make you contempted? Never!!! Woman will always be woman
yes it definitely will
Re: Six Reasons Women Leave The Men They Love by lytech1(m): 1:24pm On Jun 17, 2016
cruzita:
yes it definitely will
Why then will a woman dump a man who use all his sweat to ensure a woman get quality education which he didn't enjoy?



Or which other sacrifice on earth worth this?
Re: Six Reasons Women Leave The Men They Love by IsraelMonday(m): 1:33pm On Jun 17, 2016
lytech1:

Why then will a woman dump a man who use all his sweat to ensure a woman get quality education which he didn't enjoy?



Or which other sacrifice on earth worth this?

br0s.. I tire o..
Re: Six Reasons Women Leave The Men They Love by cruzita(f): 2:03pm On Jun 17, 2016
lytech1:

Why then will a woman dump a man who use all his sweat to ensure a woman get quality education which he didn't enjoy?



Or which other sacrifice on earth worth this?
the question should be was she in love with him from the onset?if no,the man should have noticed that and stop .Maybe he continued hoping for miracle
Re: Six Reasons Women Leave The Men They Love by IsraelMonday(m): 2:13pm On Jun 17, 2016
cruzita:
the question should be was she in love with him from the onset?if no,the man should have noticed that and stop .Maybe he continued hoping for miracle

hmmm.. As if being in Love is aLwes written on the forehead..

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Re: Six Reasons Women Leave The Men They Love by refiner(f): 2:38pm On Jun 17, 2016
When all of these are absent...., what is now left!!
lol..
Re: Six Reasons Women Leave The Men They Love by lytech1(m): 3:10pm On Jun 17, 2016
cruzita:
the question should be was she in love with him from the onset?if no,the man should have noticed that and stop .Maybe he continued hoping for miracle
You know women will pretend to be in love even when they are not..(Atleast to gt what she want)
Why did she give the guy hope in the first place?
he wasted his precious time and money...
Follow by a great heart break


Women will always be women..



As for me,I only love who love me and ready to sacrifice the same quantity she can contribute to the relationship..



Can't just die on timely because of a woman

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