I want to know if it's a man's right to have his clothes washed by his wife.

KnightMare7:
I want to know if it's a man's right to have his clothes washed by his wife.

The wife should wash the clothes or delegate the duty as she pleases.

Lezzlie:
Of course the wife? Who else?

then who washes hers? Women aren't slaves, it's slavery to make a woman wash her clothes, those of the children and that of her husband, in short, it's wickedness on the part of the man.

Why cant he wash it himself, wasn't he washing before marriage?

KnightMare7:
then who washes hers? Women aren't slaves, it's slavery to make a woman wash her clothes, those of the children and that of her husband, in short, it's wickedness on the part of the man.

Washing hubby's clothes is now slavery? Washing machine abounds, they can procure one.

You women are too quick to liken any form of domestic work as slavery.

Abeg you sharap....

If you cant wash yours leave those washing theirs and stop making noise

KnightMare7:
then who washes hers? Women aren't slaves, it's slavery to make a woman wash her clothes, those of the children and that of her husband, in short, it's wickedness on the part of the man.

ah... I tot u said u want to KNOW? It appears u rather want to ARGUE

KnightMare7:
I want to know if it's a man's right to have his clothes washed by his wife.

Lolz, you will wash your own, wash his, wash your children's own and God help you if your mother-in-law lives with you, you will wash hers too. That's why I go crazy sometimes when women are called liabilities


Best thing, get a washing machine. Everyone should dump their clothes their if they want it washed.

hysteriabox:


ah... I tot u said u want to KNOW? It appears u rather want to ARGUE

why will I not argue when ur comments already show its the woman to wash, is she a slave?

Some questions are just ridiculous, what does it really take to toss his clothes into a washing machine with yours? What will it take him to toss yours and his or just his into a washing machine? Couples serve each other, it's not a man or woman thing . People do these things out of love, it doesn't kill anyone. As long as no one is forcing you to, some things are just the right thing to do depending on circumstances.

HaneefahRN:



Lolz, you will wash your own, wash his, wash your children's own and God help you if your mother-in-law lives with you, you will wash hers too. That's why I go crazy sometimes when women are called liabilities


Best thing, get a washing machine. Everyone should dump their clothes their if they want it washed.

washing machine is the solution actually, but not everyone can afford it.

I cannot wash inlaw's clothes, what for?

Should a man pay all his wife's bills? Won't paying all bills make him an ATM or her slave ? Some questions are just somehow. These things won't be a problem in a healthy marriage.

byvan03:
Should a man pay all his wife's bills? Won't paying all bills make him an ATM or her slave ? Some questions are just somehow. These things won't be a problem in a healthy marriage.

Na wa for this NL. Every issue is a big issue in marriage. Na to dey debate everything.

answer to question - different strokes, different folks.

KnightMare7:
why will I not argue when ur comments already show its the woman to wash, is she a slave?

nope. I never commented in dt fashion.

A home is a habitation of love. Where there is love, there is no law. Dos and donts are commonplace and draw alot of attention where love isnt supreme. If she is busy, why cant d man wash their clothes, or cook? Its nobodys job. Its up to both parties to do whats necessary to keep d right atmosphere in d home. My wife washes my clothes. But i do them when i can or when she is busy. We both do what we have to, period.

damiso:


Na wa for this NL. Every issue is a big issue in marriage. Na to dey debate everything.

answer to question - different strokes, different folks.

Person tire!

KnightMare7:
then who washes hers? Women aren't slaves, it's slavery to make a woman wash her clothes, those of the children and that of her husband, in short, it's wickedness on the part of the man.

Marriage is not by force. If you can't be humble enough to wash your husband 's clothes, remain with your parents.

KnightMare7:
washing machine is the solution actually, but not everyone can afford it.

I cannot wash inlaw's clothes, what for?

I had a neighbour in the face me I slap you I lived in school. I always pitied the woman. 3 young children, her husband and her husband's mother's clothes. She has to wash every two days after coming back from market or else, and even at that the clothes will still be many and she cannot afford a washing machine ( a small scale trader). She carried her cross na ni


In that same house another man washes his clothes himself while the wife takes care of hers and her twins. So it depends on family, different strokes for different folks. Case closed.

KnightMare7:
washing machine is the solution actually, but not everyone can afford it.

I cannot wash inlaw's clothes, what for?

So if your mother-in-law comes visiting you expect her to wash her clothes herself?

KnightMare7:
I want to know if it's a man's right to have his clothes washed by his wife.

I was almost shocked that a woman can be asking this question until I saw your moniker.

May God help us all.

eitsei:
So if your mother-in-law comes visiting you expect her to wash her clothes herself?

why not, where is the love? where I come from if the woman's mother comes visiting, she washes her clothes, that of her daughter and her grand children, that's love, why should mother in law be different? If she cares for me, she would assist me not give me more work.

histemple:


I was almost shocked that a woman can be asking this question until I saw your moniker.

May God help us all.

Amen.

The point I am trying to drive is this, a woman should not be left to do all the work, he should be able to wash his own clothes, that's assisting.

no it is not her duty.

let your husband wash his and you wash yours and the kids wash theirs. you are nobody's slave.

meanwhile, let everybody go out and make their own money to cater for themselves, buy their own foodstuffs and keep in their rooms.

split the bills into the number of people in the family including your kids and let everyone chip in with paying the bills.

cook your own food alone and let everybody else take care of themselves in the family. if they like, let them go to the kitchen and cook. you are nobody's slave. not your husband, not your kids.

my point? there is no lasting marriage without love and there is no love without sacrifice.

byvan03:
Should a man pay all his wife's bills? Won't paying all bills make him an ATM or her slave ? Some questions are just somehow. These things won't be a problem in a healthy marriage.

do men pay all bills nowadays? No they don't, she supports in one way or the other.

A man should was his own clothes.

KnightMare7:
why not, where is the love, where I come from if the woman's mother comes visiting, she washes her clothes, that of her daughter and her grand children, that's love, why should mother in law be different? If she cares for me, she would assist me not give me more work.

ehn ehn where you come from? Now I get it. Also if she comes she will wash her plates after eating too, she may even help you to clean the house no big deal there... So when your son grow up and marries don't be offended if his wife extends the gesture to you too

HaneefahRN:



Lolz, you will wash your own, wash his, wash your children's own and God help you if your mother-in-law lives with you, you will wash hers too. That's why I go crazy sometimes when women are called liabilities


Best thing, get a washing machine. Everyone should dump their clothes their if they want it washed.

Does the washing machine operate itself ?

Lezzlie:
Does the washing machine operate itself ?

*rolls eye* was that a question?

KnightMare7:
do men pay all bills nowadays? No they don't, she supports in one way or the other.

A man should was his own clothes.

Actually there is no issue here. Just let your man know that on no circumstances will you wash his clothes, if he is cool, good. Yes, some men still pay all bills.

eitsei:
ehn ehn where you come from? Now I get it. Also if she comes she will wash her plates after eating too, she may even help you to clean the house no big deal there... So when your son grow up and marries don't be offended if his wife extends the gesture to you too

I will do it for my daughter too, it's the right thing to do, my son's wife is like my daughter, I should cook for her and my son, help in the kitchen, it's th proper thing.

KnightMare7:
do men pay all bills nowadays? No they don't, she supports in one way or the other.

A man should was his own clothes.

A man can wash his own clothes of course. But a woman stands to gain more when she does. Same as cooking and serving his meals.

What the heck you think the fücking of domestic help from husbands recently is for?

I have a cute ass who fixes me breakfast, lunch and dinner and take care of my laundry...... Damn, it will take divine intervention if I don't give her an appreciation of a sound fück.

Ioannes:
no it is not her duty.

let your husband wash his and you wash yours and the kids wash theirs. you are nobody's slave.

meanwhile, let everybody go out and make their own money to cater for themselves, buy their own foodstuffs and keep in their rooms.

split the bills into the number of people in the family including your kids and let everyone chip in with paying the bills.

cook your own food alone and let everybody else take care of themselves in the family. if they like, let them go to the kitchen and cook. you are nobody's slave. not your husband, not your kids.

my point? there is no lasting marriage without love and there is no love without sacrifice.

Please if it is hand washing things where kids are involved, am out. Hand wash by yaself biko.

HaneefahRN:


*rolls eye* was that a question?

Yes and a roundabout way of telling you you are neglecting your duties offline too


Dropping the clothes on the machine isn't doing the laundry. Someone still has to run it. That's doing the laundry.