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Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by Nobody: 10:59am On Jun 18, 2016 |
wildrose21: GO TO HELL! I didn't address you so fck off with your nonsense! You had to log in with your alt account to say that rubbish without even taking time to understand that post. GO TO HELL! 1 Like |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by Shym3xx: 11:00am On Jun 18, 2016 |
RaggedyAnn: Her race? So feminism is now about race not gender, yes? Cray! Anyway, can someone please educate me on what "feminism" is about cos I live under a rock and I have lost touch with the world lol. 5 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by Shym3xx: 11:03am On Jun 18, 2016 |
Another husband/wife or lack thereof story meaning marriage. Why are Nigerians so obsessed with marriage? You have people running from the same institution and advising younger folks to stay away from it cos it's misery. Yet that's the ultimate prize in naij lool. 4 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by Moneytize: 11:05am On Jun 18, 2016 |
RaggedyAnn:No she is not supporting any oppression. She is a virtuous woman who is like a crown to her husband(not a foot mat), for her price is far above rubies. 2 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by Sokoflow(m): 11:08am On Jun 18, 2016 |
chiwetel:I seldomly leave a comment here, but in response to what you said and @dollyjoy did said too. I think she has said it all by saying "what matters most is respect and understanding in any form of affair". By respect and understanding,i think she meant a man who respects his wife, support her to achieve her desires,potentials and goals. A man who treats the wife right, cherishes her. Who doesn't relegate the wife, he allows her have a say and her way when the need be, also who understands reason for actions taken by the wife. Above all a man that loves his wife and have good listening hear. I hope with this, you get where @dollyjoy is coming from(point of view). 3 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by Owliver(m): 11:08am On Jun 18, 2016 |
chiwetel:no that is not the case here. feminists want equal right and that is what we kick against. there is nothing like equality in a society. osinbajo is vice president doesn't make him less a human. Buhari would break down if he does all the executive and ceremonial job himself. he "needs" his vice. you see? everyone is important but can never be equal. the moment equality comes in the picture there will be conflict of ideas. there will be war of words. no one submits to no one. and that is anarchy. if you understand human psychology you'd know women are more powerful than men. but you don't use your power well, but are busy chasing a concept that breeds anarchy. hope you get 3 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by cr7lomo: 11:13am On Jun 18, 2016 |
fellis: I will mark ur handle cos its certain that you are naturally dull so as the people that liked the nonsense u put up... I dnt even know how to start with u cos....u are just dumb 2 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by marvelous000: 11:14am On Jun 18, 2016 |
zeeudenwa:[size=13pt] look at what? Bcs he opined that equality should not be brought in the family front [/size] 2 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by cococandy(f): 11:16am On Jun 18, 2016 |
Retardd 2 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by Nobody: 11:16am On Jun 18, 2016 |
Shym3xx: Yes. Most words are ambiguous and therefore very versatile. Race as defined thus, 1. Any people united by common history or trait. Eg. The Dutch race. Or 2. Any group, class, or kind, especially of persons: eg, Journalists are an interesting race. In this case women were referred to as a race because I can think of things they share in common that other beings that aren't women do not have. The vagina, for instance. 1 Like |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by charlesu49(m): 11:16am On Jun 18, 2016 |
I dunno if you've carried out your researches but the tiring truth is... despite 40 years of feminism and this silly agitation, women have become increasingly unhappy. Our mothers, grandmothers and great-grandmothers lived happier lives. 2 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by Nobody: 11:17am On Jun 18, 2016 |
Beehshorp: abi oo ,,same freeze dt use 2 make sense wen pdp govern..now says rubbish since apc came on board ....even me my shit dey ova hard dis days ...n i knw it is buhari handiwork.. |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by chiwetel(f): 11:17am On Jun 18, 2016 |
Sokoflow:Thanks,its clearer now. Respect would also entail you accept her in all totality as well as understand why she yearns to be productive. 2 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by cococandy(f): 11:20am On Jun 18, 2016 |
Gerrard59: 2 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by cr7lomo: 11:20am On Jun 18, 2016 |
chiwetel: U must have complex issues...did anyone stop u from being an achiever... Is Genevieve, okonji oweala , omotola, deziani not from the same society or country as u are...mehn , gdfoh 2 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by TheSCRYPT: 11:21am On Jun 18, 2016 |
After carrying feminism for head like gala, at old age they begin to console themselves that it is not compulsory to get married. I really feel sorry for some ladies. These lot end up bitter and never see anything good in happy people. Sadly, I know some, and these ones will never take correction. Always shouting equal rights equal rights like if they grew up in homes where equal rights was practiced there would have been peace between their parents. A woman is created to be soft an pampered not hard and "emotionlessly" brittle like the male folks. Nigerian women are beginning to learn bad things from west in the guise of westernization. Oh well, it is none of my business, I can only but watch aloof. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by chiwetel(f): 11:23am On Jun 18, 2016 |
Owliver:alright, still using your analogy. if equality is unattainable so therefore what prevails is inequality,from which stems up discrimination, unfair treatment and adverse effects of inferiority. How do we attain a balance? 1 Like |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by justmuhd(m): 11:24am On Jun 18, 2016 |
feminism propagates an atmosphere of having two captains on a ship or two kings ruling over the same land..a woman should find her self a good man and follow him-that my friends,is the only way she can get all she wants..a man will never truly give it all to a woman that's not submisive to him and that is a fact....nobody said a woman should become a slave to her husband-just don't raise shoulders to your 'king'.a true man would worship a woman that loves,respects and submits to him..the same western world that keeps crying out for gender equality and all,pls help me ask them about the rate of divorce and the number of single parents and infidelity over there. 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by lonelydora: 11:25am On Jun 18, 2016 |
doll912: I am a man. Forget the moniker. Seun refused to change it for me. 1 Like |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by chiwetel(f): 11:25am On Jun 18, 2016 |
cr7lomo:all you needed to do was to comprehend it. |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by cococandy(f): 11:25am On Jun 18, 2016 |
That's some women for you. Instead of helping to secure the future for their daughters and grand daughters, they are more interested in winning the approval of men who actually consider them sub-human in comparison. If our brave fore mothers that brought feminism to where it is today didn't do what they had to do and endure dislike for our own good, we would probably still be at the stage where we can't vote or go out without the approval of a man. I wonder what's more important. Being liked by some faceless insecure men or doing what's important for the future generations. The men will still turn around to label them fish brain. I wonder what kind of masochism makes some women single handedly uphold all the ideologies and traditions that oppress them. I don't understand them. People are really different. That I see now. fellis: 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by chiwetel(f): 11:27am On Jun 18, 2016 |
cr7lomo:you obviously didn't comprehend it |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by Nobody: 11:28am On Jun 18, 2016 |
Moneytize: In truth she is! The position of a virtuous woman in society has never been in doubt and her ambitions are well understood. 1 Like |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by Owliver(m): 11:32am On Jun 18, 2016 |
chiwetel:yes inequality must prevail in a society. think about the jungle where there's no society. no rich, no poor, no strong, no weak but just survival. society is a jungle but a jungle of deception. where one is a billionaire and another can't afford a bread. religion tells a poor man to remain hungry that god knows why. without this acceptance of inequality society cannot prevail. inequality is part of life, struggle, deceive and fight to get to the top that's what we all do but when it comes to family society if you take it so dearly then you must conform to the norms of a society, knowing that that one will have to be down for others to be above. why do you think god does whatever he likes? cos he's more powerful. I believe I have passed a great message to you. hold it dearly. know when to fight and know when not too. choose your wars wisely. it's all vanity. 1 Like |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by Mailerchidex: 11:32am On Jun 18, 2016 |
I don't support the idea of gender equality. A man and a woman cannever be equal. Women should stop rubbing off shoulders with men. They should stop contending with men, hiding themselves under the umbrella of fighting against women marginalization. period. 2 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by chccho(m): 11:35am On Jun 18, 2016 |
aalangel:because u r one of those he is refering to 3 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by Sokoflow(m): 11:35am On Jun 18, 2016 |
chiwetel:Yes, cos when she's productive,successful. This is a plus to the Man's name and the Society will respect him for giving the wife free-hand to develop its potentials. After all, a Wife's success is Husband's success too. Basically, i think it's insecure men who are the ones scared of women's success and thus want to relegate them to the back and make them feel inferior. Mind you because a wife is successful doesn't mean she shouldn't respect her husband and vice-versa. Respect is reciprocal. 1 Like |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by cr7lomo: 11:38am On Jun 18, 2016 |
Gerrard59: And gay as well 4 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by Nobody: 11:39am On Jun 18, 2016 |
cr7lomo: LWKMD e pain am well well 3 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by Nobody: 11:40am On Jun 18, 2016 |
fellis: wat kind of a person debates/argues fundamental facts n to make worse-worse kips criminals pix on phone ..a woman carrys a man name all thru her life,,its either ur hubby name or father name so whr is d equality..even there gender title ends wit fe-MALE,,wo-MAN,,nt 2 talk of evry month dey find men in there struation..abeg make we men nO pause 4 dem.. 3 Likes |
Re: ‘Being A Feminist Is Denying Many Women Of Having A Husband' - OAP Freeze by wildrose21(m): 11:43am On Jun 18, 2016 |
cr7lomo:I don't know if she is dull or not... But I suppose someone who has passed through the four walls of a 'school' should be able to think logically. Her logic on the issue of what dolly-something posted is way off the point. May we all see the light. 3 Likes |
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