HaneefahRN:


That is all I can say. I'm tired of hearing such talks everyday. I have nothing against a man being the head in the home and family structure. And I respect the varying roles each gender plays in the family network.

But don't tell me I am below every, Tom, Dick and Harry cos they were born with di.cks and so gender equality is rubbish. Both gender should have equal opportunities in the Society. Be whatever you want to be, in a good way of course without being discriminated against.
She might see herself as inferior to men, but I don't

I totally share your view?

I speak from religion - Christianity. Christianity is obviously alien to the term equality in marriage. Christianity focuses on obligations and roles. An obligation to submit and an obligation to love. Outside marriage and priesthood, Christianity never placed the man above the woman in society. The fact that some Christian sects (some have taken a position) are yet to take a position on gender equality in society is not strange as Churches only started taking a position with respect to slavery in the 20th century.

Another side to the coin is christian women who try to take the gender equality concept into the home and then end up struggling with submission. I had to explain the concept of respect/submission to a lay recently. She felt her husband had done nothing to earn her respect and was shocked when i told her that respect is not earned in marriage. it is obligatory.

I believe in gender equality, equal opportunities for all gender, the dignity of the human.

MrCow:




Mind what You post, must You show how stoo. pid You are, She is royal and ion think You'll want Your mother to be addressed same way

To your point, they're cool but that doesn't mean they are feminist, in fact the Yoruba's show great deal of respect to their husbands.
GET IT; women can be great in whatever they do but it doesn't mean they are equal to men. Stop this tribal bullshit

respect is reciprocal

Really

doll912:


Shut your male chauvinist mouth up. We are equal but only our roles are different. It's your type that will still ask his wife to work for money and still call you "daddy". What makes you better than a woman who does everything u can do and still play her role as a mother and wife? Abeg!

calm ur anger my luv,.no be fight..OONI's Wife is so prudent in her speech but ilitrate took it otherway round

Hilarious. . U could google me and if or wen u do, the qualifications u see therein is very likely to intimidate u my dear. Having said that, i wud like to reiterate that u shud go back to the thread and read again, this time for understanding. Just show that u passed comprehension and summary in high school, dats all. Is that too much to ask? I jus want to save u from impending public embarrassment cos......I care!

DollyParton1:

Go back to school and learn how to write. Then come back.

proudly feminist...

Allina:
shame catch me for this woman.why would somebody want to be treated lesser than her fellow human? All these things men are using to brag,things they see as what makes them more superior to us.I don't see them as a big deal.Because some women are doing them with ease.what we want is for the law to give other women the opportunity to do so.Men we no dey drag head of the family with una,we just want our sisters to enjoy education like our brothers,we also want them to marry as adults not children just like our brothers.This is what we mean by gender equality,people she get this into their head and stop spewing thrash most especially those women who just say anything that enters their head in public just to get applauded by their fellow ignorant bigot

.

Those things you are clamouring for are they not happening in this country?

Una never talk wetin dey una mind.

Bibors:
Words of wisdom, flesh and blood didn't reveal this to you.

Equal partners doesn't mean equal roles. A queen must carry herself as a queen mother when she is not the queen regent but if a queen mother decides to be regent , then her head belongs to the gallows. Elizabeth can testify to that.

so can Cersei

cancaworm:
...coming from a second hand . What does she have to offer if not her Vigina .
What equality is she looking for.
She should better respect herself and do what she knows better. Being a second hand to her master.
Following him everywhere . Some one who doesn't have a mind of her own and got married for being olorI. Why would she believe in one.I hope all your children are girls. I pray for all of them be girls. Let's see maybe you will have a rethink. Bush frog .

Sorry ma, she just gave birth to a boy for the Ooni.
I doubt you've had a good man figure in your life by your utterance here. The day you are fortunate to have one, you'll understand her better. But, if you decide to compete with your man, you'll be serially dumped- even if you're the bread champion.

banmee:


You also need to grasp what she is really saying though. We are not equal granted, but we are equal partners. One cannot do without the other.

dis d most reasonable ever men and women are not equal but dey can depend on as each other 2 surrive we just have 2 treat ourselves with mutual respect

989900:
It is a shame there is no universally accepted definition of feminism -- maybe we should fix that first.

it's like cancer...it can't be fixed cos there are different causes(definitions)

Allina:
shame catch me for this woman.why would somebody want to be treated lesser than her fellow human? All these things men are using to brag,things they see as what makes them more superior to us.I don't see them as a big deal.Because some women are doing them with ease.what we want is for the law to give other women the opportunity to do so.Men we no dey drag head of the family with una,we just want our sisters to enjoy education like our brothers,we also want them to marry as adults not children just like our brothers.This is what we mean by gender equality,people she get this into their head and stop spewing thrash most especially those women who just say anything that enters their head in public just to get applauded by their fellow ignorant bigot

exactly and this is my definition of gender equality - equal opportunities irrespective of gender.

i also believe energies should be expended where the inequality gap is strongest - in the north IMO.

Joavid:
so this Olosho turned queen now feel she has an opinion....


smh.

off course she wouldn't know anything about equality, she bleeped her way through life.

Do you blame her? Sebi she can handle mic and be seen and heard. Years ago, women like her were found only in the kitchen. Their roles were solely to serve their husbands and nuture kids. Now she can make public appearance and make a speech publicly. She can change husbands and not be stoned.

I don't understand why equal rights is being interpreted to mean emasculation of the male species or dominating the world. Too many ignorant folks everywhere.

989900:
It is a shame there is no universally accepted definition of feminism -- maybe we should fix that first.

exactly fix that. I support geneder equality (i mean equal opportunities for all) but i have too many versions of feminism to take any version serious.

Oyimeoyimemua:
God bless u jare

You too dear.

Joavid:
so this Olosho turned queen now feel she has an opinion....


smh.

off course she wouldn't know anything about equality, she bleeped her way through life.

u b virgin? Can u swear say na one dick don enter ur hole?? Eyin were olosho to n package ara yin

HaneefahRN:
She is inferior to her driver nau, no be man?

So you think that you are worth more than a male driver? Seriously?

She dis not lie. Women are not equal to Ken and men are not equal to women. Each gender is unique and men have their special roles to play with hat a woman can not replace. Likewise a good woman's role can never be replaced by a man.
She is wise

I don't want to agree with this assertion.

Some men are not willing to take responsibilities.

This is the blunt truth.

Some women are willing to go extra mile to make posiive things happen.

I do not think it has anything to do with gender.

It is attitude.

cancaworm:
...coming from a second hand . What does she have to offer if not her Vigina .
What equality is she looking for.
She should better respect herself and do what she knows better. Being a second hand to her master.
Following him everywhere . Some one who doesn't have a mind of her own and got married for being olorI. Why would she believe in one.I hope all your children are girls. I pray for all of them be girls. Let's see maybe you will have a rethink. Bush frog .

Do you see how much of a hypocrite you are or do you just engage in psittacism just to belong? You pose to be a feminist but can't respect a woman because she spoke her mind.
You are already transgressing a major rule of feminism- women should not be limited to what they choose to do with their vagina.

Oga, don't just go about or come online drenching yourself in stupidity. You get me?

A typical example of a frustrated person.

Did you see the part where I said I don't touch my salaries?

Most feminists are frustrated dykes anyway.

Dey there dey fight man make wise women dey enjoy them.

All your evil words go back to you with immediate effect.

Bye too!

cancaworm:

Just because of free ticket he buys for you.So you cannot pay for your ticket?you should keep quiet and lock yourself to telemondo let the enlightened folks do the talking. Open bombom and produce baby. Work you dont have. Money you cant make.What do you want to support again.You might be thrown out of that house soon. Enjoy the free food for now. Girl bye.

doll912:


Shut your male chauvinist mouth up. We are equal but only our roles are different. It's your type that will still ask his wife to work for money and still call you "daddy". What makes you better than a woman who does everything u can do and still play her role as a mother and wife? Abeg!

Well, tallk is cheap otherwise who would authorise stinking mouth of yours to make a senseless contribution in an issue of this sensitivity, I don't blame you if you ever have a husband you would never dare to reply me in such a manner........and who knows may be you ve one and u don't respect him, how would u respect others
@ times I pity people with. Such low thinking faculty trying hard to make fool of themselves publicly, I pity the man dat wil marry u

cancaworm:

Just because of free ticket he buys for you.So you cannot pay for your ticket?you should keep quiet and lock yourself to telemondo let the enlightened folks do the talking. Open bombom and produce baby. Work you dont have. Money you cant make.What do you want to support again.You might be thrown out of that house soon. Enjoy the free food for now. Girl bye.

Did you have that much problems with the male-folks? I dare tell you that with your reasoning, you might end up a lonely woman. She respects her man and she'll get more to her asset.

Y'all can choose to fight with men because you have bad men anyway while those of us blessed with gentlemen can continue to enjoy our men.

Amen!

banmee:


Western woman: Where is the woman who wrote the above from?

African Woman: From Nigeria. It's in Africa.

Western woman: Oh. Makes sense now.

African Woman: Why?

Western woman? Nothing. Carry on.

iykedare:


So you think that you are worth more than a male driver? Seriously?

*rolls eye*, so is he superior to me cos he is male? He can be the head in his home not claim he is superior to me cos he has a di. ck. No one is superior to the other. We are all humans whatever gender you might be.

HaneefahRN:
She is inferior to her driver nau, no be man?

see them. Bunch of clowns with Low self esteem, you can't even understand her.let me be generous enough to dash you some understanding, Men and Women Are Unique and CAN NEVER BE EQUALS fighting for equality is an insult to the Women.

DollyParton1:
Nonsense.
Some people just try so hard to be relevant.
Of course a rapist is superior to her na. Shebi we are not equal.

Both sides have idiots and any sex can learn self defence skills

AlPeter:
see them. Bunch of clowns with Low self esteem, you can't even understand her.let me be generous enough to dash you some understanding, Men and Women Are Unique and CAN NEVER BE EQUALS fighting for equality is an insult to the Women.

Run along boy. I don't share same view with her. We are equal but with different unique roles.

Joavid:
so this Olosho turned queen now feel she has an opinion....


smh.

off course she wouldn't know anything about equality, she bleeped her way through life.

SMH! Coming from a supposed female.
Aren't you just tired of frolicking in being a low life?
Your comment is one of the reasons why many know that women themselves are the greatest saboteurs of feminism.
Why would you degrade another woman?
Why would you believe that she would not have been where she is if she had not open her legs?
My dear even if she is an "olosho turned queen", it won't stop the candidiasis and herpes that's ravaging your wide hole.
Shalom.

That's y she is on her 3rd marriage with an identity swap... I'm not listening o.

Don't take counsel from everybody !!!

amtaken:
Y'all can choose to fight with men because you have bad men anyway while those of us blessed with gentlemen can continue to enjoy our men.

Amen!

We are not talking about your particular circumstance which seems to be awesome. Lucky you. What about the millions of women in Nigeria who are being treated like straight up dirt? They should just take it because you have a gentleman you are enjoying abi?

Abeg fake some smile