Hi all.
I don't even know where to start from. I have been suffering from depression since my teen years and its been off and on. Sometimes it gets better and sometimes it gets worse and this has also been the reason for my weight fluctuation as I am an emotional eater.

So this is the fattest I have been and I feel so ugly and don't really want to go anywhere anymore because people always make comments about my weight and this makes me feel very bad. A person knows when they haive gained weight and when they are fat. People don't need to keep rubbing it on their faces.

Anyways my boyfriend loves really slim women. He does not like a women fat. When am with him and he thinks am not watching I see how he looks at other slim women. All his ex gf have been slim and were ever slimmer than I was when we first met. I just feel so unloved and don't feel much support. I am trying to lose weight even if it means the quick way like pills etc as am tired of feeling this way.

I tend to gain weight more on the down part my butt, hips and thighs and then my top. I would really appreciate if anyone could recommend something they have used that really worked?

P.s please don't bash me or insult me. It took a lot to post these pics and I know I am fat so that is not the issue.

Just negodi!

You're beautiful the way you are, just hoping you not advertising your backa bum bum

Watch your diet, eat less and exercise often, that's just it. Stop eating too much. You should be worried about your health more than you're worried about your boyfriend. This is unhealthy and a recipe to heart complications.

donholy28:
Just negodi!

since you didn't have any thing reasonable saying, you could as well shut up. She needs help and advice not stupid comments

depressedgurl:
Hi all.
I don't even know where to start from. I have been suffering from depression since my teen years and its been off and on. Sometimes it gets better and sometimes it gets worse and this has also been the reason for my weight fluctuation as I am an emotional eater.

So this is the fattest I have been and I feel so ugly and don't really want to go anywhere anymore because people always make comments about my weight and this makes me feel very bad. A person knows when they haive gained weight and when they are fat. People don't need to keep rubbing it on their faces.

Anyways my boyfriend loves really slim women. He does not like a women fat. When am with him and he thinks am not watching I see how he looks at other slim women. All his ex gf have been slim and were ever slimmer than I was when we first met. I just feel so unloved and don't feel much support. I am trying to lose weight even if it means the quick way like pills etc as am tired of feeling this way.

I tend to gain weight more on the down part my butt, hips and thighs and then my top. I would really appreciate if anyone could recommend something they have used that really worked?

P.s please don't bash me or insult me. It took a lot to post these pics and I know I am fat so that is not the issue.

show us ur face!!!

depressedgurl:
Hi all.
I don't even know where to start from. I have been suffering from depression since my teen years and its been off and on. Sometimes it gets better and sometimes it gets worse and this has also been the reason for my weight fluctuation as I am an emotional eater.

So this is the fattest I have been and I feel so ugly and don't really want to go anywhere anymore because people always make comments about my weight and this makes me feel very bad. A person knows when they haive gained weight and when they are fat. People don't need to keep rubbing it on their faces.

Anyways my boyfriend loves really slim women. He does not like a women fat. When am with him and he thinks am not watching I see how he looks at other slim women. All his ex gf have been slim and were ever slimmer than I was when we first met. I just feel so unloved and don't feel much support. I am trying to lose weight even if it means the quick way like pills etc as am tired of feeling this way.

I tend to gain weight more on the down part my butt, hips and thighs and then my top. I would really appreciate if anyone could recommend something they have used that really worked?

P.s please don't bash me or insult me. It took a lot to post these pics and I know I am fat so that is not the issue.

the problem is,there are a lot of supplements out there today, you can hardly differentiate the good from bad. Maybe you should consult professioners

Ajewealth123:
since you didn't have any thing reasonable saying, you could as well shut up. She needs help and advice not stupid comments

Come on bro! she's talking nonsense... she says she's fat and yet she posts pictures of her butt,why can't u see

I smell an Advertisement

Well, you seem to be "working" your junk going by your pics & doesn't look at all like you're uncomfortable in your skimpy skirt or you'd be in a mumu frock trying to hide.

Cool story, bro. Nice ass

Oh, Afroknight! Come see what I bought you for X-mas. It's all wrapped in pink

bloomstar:
You're beautiful the way you are, just hoping you not advertising your backa bum bum

Smart man

Wassup with the pictures?

What your boyfriend wouldn't like is you posting pictures of your bum on a public forum. You even zoomed in on the pic so that those of us with eye problem will not miss out. Tell us what your problem really is. Someone 4 times fatter than you are was effortlessly lifted by her man during their pre-wedding foto shoots. The pics were all over social media. So what are you not saying? Please draw your skirt down.

donholy28:
Come on bro! she's talking nonsense... she says she's fat and yet she posts pictures of her butt,why can't u see

no vex say I para for u, I take my word back. But I pity people like her,u may be seeing things from the perspective like she is trying to show off, but I think I understand her situation. But she should more concerned about her health not the boyfriend

Your boyfriend would ruin you and you'll further sink into the sea of depression.

First off, leave him, work on your self, do away with compulsive eating and snacking, and you shall be fine.

Since you're so concerned about your boyfriend's spec than your health... I think you should go look out for men who loves them big..

Abi he blind when he been meet you?

In timayas voice... UKWU!!!!!tinatitantata ;DUKWU

Babe you are blessed,just work on ya belly fat the waist issokay

He prefers slim girls.
But you re chubby (and he is still seeing you. But why?).
You refer to him as your boyfriend (Does he also see you as his girlfriend?).
You mean he prefers slim girls and he saw that you were chubby and approached you? (Or did you just made it up cos he has only dated slim girls?)

I would really appreciate if anyone could recommend something they have used that really worked?

I recommend you spend more time loving and appreciating your self. Admiring your body. It works baby. JUST LOVE YOUR SELF FIRST BEFORE DEMANDING LOVE FROM OTHER PEOPLE..

Right about time you begin to smile at your self because you re beautiful. And let no one, no opinion tell you any different.

The thing I learned about life is that most people are only gona see your flaws but not your beauty. Its sad but true. You might be imperfect to most but you're always going to be perfect for the heart that God has for you.

You have to understand that there is somebody somewhere at some time that is going to find something that is wrong with you. But the something wrong that they find could be the something right to the hearth that is searching for you (me). You might be too big or too small, but you re the perfect size for the heart that is searching for you.

You might be too dull or too smart, but guess what, you have the perfect personality for the heart that is searching for you. The first step to being unhappy in life is trying to please everybody else. People are different and have different tastes but never let those differences make you insecure of who you are.

Could you stop spending so much time and energy facing the mirror...Judging , bashing and critiquing yourself? Please? I want you to start spending the rest of your days loving and appreciating yourself.

You're beautiful cos GOD said so. And that's all the confirmation that you need. There will always be something about you that's not right.... for someone who is not right for you. Your flaws are perfect for the heart that's meant to love you.

Find someone who will accept you for you (that's me). Never forget that. Stay beautiful.

Randy91:


show us ur face!!!

So you can taunt her and tell anyone at any effing time that she's depressive??

Ajewealth123:
no vex say I para for u, I take my word back. But I pity people like her,u may be seeing things from the perspective like she is trying to show off, but I think I understand her situation. But she should more concerned about her health not the boyfriend

Lol,shey you half experred him to curse back shey?

Its not only about my boyfriends specs but for me myself. I am at home and took the pics at home. If I was out then I would have worn a coat and stockings. I did say the problem area is my bottom half and unfortunately even if I wore pants I still have big butt so it still shows. I am not advertising anything

opeaceo:


So you can taunt her and tell anyone at any effing time that she's depressive??

no naaa Longinus??

depressedgurl:
Its not only about my boyfriends specs but for me myself. I am at home and took the pics at home. If I was out then I would have worn a coat and stockings. I did say the problem area is my bottom half and unfortunately even if I wore pants I still have big butt so it still shows. I am not advertising anything

My dear, coming online to ask people, most especially Nigerians about depression is like trying to commit suicide, go seek professional help!!!

virud:
He prefers slim girls.
But you re fat and you call him your boyfriend?

he didn't meet me this size. I was slimmer but over 2 years ago I got very depressed and this also led to increase in weight.

Alota drunkards and smokers are not that fat.. Maybe u should go for drinking alcohol and smoking.. It reduces weight.

Thank me later

depressedgurl:
Hi all.
I don't even know where to start from. I have been suffering from depression since my teen years and its been off and on. Sometimes it gets better and sometimes it gets worse and this has also been the reason for my weight fluctuation as I am an emotional eater.

So this is the fattest I have been and I feel so ugly and don't really want to go anywhere anymore because people always make comments about my weight and this makes me feel very bad. A person knows when they haive gained weight and when they are fat. People don't need to keep rubbing it on their faces.

Anyways my boyfriend loves really slim women. He does not like a women fat. When am with him and he thinks am not watching I see how he looks at other slim women. All his ex gf have been slim and were ever slimmer than I was when we first met. I just feel so unloved and don't feel much support. I am trying to lose weight even if it means the quick way like pills etc as am tired of feeling this way.

I tend to gain weight more on the down part my butt, hips and thighs and then my top. I would really appreciate if anyone could recommend something they have used that really worked?

P.s please don't bash me or insult me. It took a lot to post these pics and I know I am fat so that is not the issue.

Good lord! You should find someone like me, who appreciates women for being women. Lord!. You're hawt!. And that boyfriend of yours is a dick, for being so blind to your much endowed gifts!.

Gurl, earnestly speaking, your boyfriend doesn't deserve you. And your booty sure is one damn fine thing to look at.

This reminds me of a BF i just finished watching minutes ago. Truly, having sex with fat ladies is always sorrowful. You need to over work yourself just to hit her down there. Meanwhile, when with a slim or not-fat lady, little or no effort, you'd still be hitting her goal post. Who fatness epp?

depressedgurl:
he didn't meet me this size. I was slimmer but over 2 years ago I got very depressed and this also led to increase in weight.

Right about time you begin to smile at your self because you re beautiful. And let no one, no opinion tell you any different.

The thing I learned about life is that most people are only gona see your flaws but not your beauty. Its sad but true. You might be imperfect to most but you're always going to be perfect for the heart that God has for you.

You have to understand that there is somebody somewhere at some time that is going to find something that is wrong with you. But the something wrong that they find could be the something right to the hearth that is searching for you (me). You might be too big or too small, but you re the perfect size for the heart that is searching for you.

You might be too dull or too smart, but guess what, you have the perfect personality for the heart that is searching for you. The first step to being unhappy in life is trying to please everybody else. People are different and have different tastes but never let those differences make you insecure of who you are.

Could you stop spending so much time and energy facing the mirror...Judging , bashing and critiquing yourself? Please? I want you to start spending the rest of your days loving and appreciating yourself.

You're beautiful cos GOD said so. And that's all the confirmation that you need. There will always be something about you that's not right.... for someone who is not right for you. Your flaws are perfect for the heart that's meant to love you.

Find someone who will accept you for you (that's me). Never forget that. Stay beautiful.

opeaceo:


My dear, coming online to ask people, most especially Nigerians about depression is like trying to commit suicide, go seek professional help!!!

I know. Its extremely hard for Africans to understand it that's why I am unable to tell anybody. I once tried to tell my mom but she could not understand. The idea of paying someone who does not really care about me just to tell me something I already know does not really sit well with me. I also once went to the dr and they prescribed me with a tablet called sederp. I had to stop because the side effects were very bad.

joseph1832:
Good lord! You should find someone like me, who appreciates women for being women. Lord!. You're hawt!. And that boyfriend of yours is a dick, for being so blind to your much endowed gifts!.

Gurl, earnestly speaking, your boyfriend doesn't deserve you. And your booty sure is one damn fine thing to look at.

Joseph i beg to disagree and object to this biko


OP should go marry the gym and stop being a lazy girl...

joseph1832:
Good lord! You should find someone like me, who appreciates women for being women. Lord!. You're hawt!. And that boyfriend of yours is a dick, for being so blind to your much endowed gifts!.

Gurl, earnestly speaking, your boyfriend doesn't deserve you. And your booty sure is one damn fine thing to look at.

Good lawd!

Smh