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Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by Nobody: 10:54am On Jun 19, 2016 |
Lailan Mary Amara Jacob is vexed over the recent trending statements Ooni of Ife's wife, Olori Wuraola and OAP Freeze made concerning gender equality. You recall Olori Wuraola had said she's not a huge fan of gender equality. While speaking at the Emerging Women's Forum in National Harbor, Maryland, she had said: “I am not a huge fan of Gender equality. We can’t be equal, We can’t be men. We have our roles to play here, a very pivotal one. How about if we think about it this way that we are limiting our potentials and where we could get to as women by us keep saying that we want to be equal. I don't think we can ever be equal''. OAP Freeze later backed Olori up saying: The Olori of Ife, Her Majesty, Queen Wuraola-Zynab Ogunwusi, spoke what I consider words of absolute wisdom, when she stated her belief that gender equality is hardly achievable in the modern world. I agree that men and women have equal rights I absolutely disagree that they are equal. If you are in doubt, attempt wearing your boxers on your head and your cap on your butt and then brush your teeth with your belt and hold your trousers together with your toothbrush, then perhaps, my point will be better illustrated. Well, dear Olori, OAP Freeze, Amara has some strong words for you this morning. Kindly read: When educated men and women display high level of ignorance, one is forced to speak. Before one makes a public speech, I think it is wise to do some research. It is always safer to get the facts right, before picking up a microphone to show off. Gender equality does not mean competing with ones husband. Neither does it mean rivalry between the man and the woman. Gender equality is not all about marriage. It goes beyond that. Let me educate you both, since you failed to do your home work. What is gender equality? In simple terms gender equality means the state in which access to rights or opportunities is unaffected by gender. This means that boys and girls, men and women should get equal opportunities in every area of life. I will give you few examples. Education Everyone should get an equal opportunity to go to school. The girl-child should not be denied access to education because she is a girl. Are you not aware that in some cultures/religion women are not allowed to go to school? Work Men and women should get equal employment opportunity. Look at our work force today, it is dominated by the men. Do u know why there are more poor women than men today? It is because women don't get same opportunity as the men. Politics There should be equal representation. How many women get political appointments? How many are elected into public offices? How many women are governors? How many women are in the state and National Assemblies? Can men truly represent the interest of women? Culture We have obnoxious cultural practices that relegate women to background. Little girls are forced into marriages against wishes. Of course you know what widows go through in this part of the world. Is it fair on our mothers? Is it fair that men who are physically stronger should molest women they are meant to protect? And you proudly say you are not a fan of gender equality? What ignorance! Marriage Women should be given same treatment as men. A woman should be allowed to have a say in her matrimonial home. She is not a slave. The man and woman are like two sides of a coin. They need each other. We have our different roles to play. If you have been pregnant before, then you will know what it means to carry a child for nine months in your womb, go through labour pains, then nurse the child to maturity. Most women are never appreciated by their men, what they get is abuse, abuse and abuse even when they are heavily pregnant. If I may ask, why did you leave your first marriage? And your second marriage? Why did you walk away and walked into a third one? Does it have anything to do with being treated like a slave? Does it have anything to do with frequent abuse? Or did you just walk away without a reason? How can you convince me that you don't believe in gender equality when you already have two failed marriages? Why didn't you remain a slave in those marriages? As for Freeze, my humble suggestion is that your university degree be investigated. It is shame that after passing through the four walls of the university and working in a media house for decades, you still don't know the meaning of gender equality. What are shame! Besides, you seem to be a man without principles. You are neither here no there. Speaking from both sides of your mouth at all the time in your desperate search for cheap popularity. Today you are here and the next moment you are on another side. Stay off social media in your own interest! For all those who truly do not understand what gender equality means, here is your chance. It has been explained in plain simple English. Mary Amara Jacob http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/06/vexed-lailan-admonishes-olori-wuraola.html 44 Likes 7 Shares
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Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by shyling(f): 10:57am On Jun 19, 2016 |
Flirtykaren get an education. Her Royal majesty was talking about gender equity. 108 Likes 8 Shares
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Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by crazymommy(f): 11:00am On Jun 19, 2016 |
The "marriage" example is the reason why gender equality is not going to work in reality,ask me why.....the answer is the "hypocrisy" going on...the same lady that want equality in the marriage will suddenly lower her voice when it comes to issue of finance in the marriage...you start hearing "but you are the man of the house na.." Is that not hypocritical hypocrisy??when it turns to issue of money you suddenly remember he is the man..when you guys go on date you expect him to pay the bills most of the time because subconsciously you feel he is the man......in some house some of we women are even trying by contributing 40% money to the marriage,ask her to switch roles and start paying 50% while her husband pays 50%you will hear "is he not the father of the house"she will start screaming why should she pay the same with him..are you not the one that wants equality??or you think equality should be done only when it favours you??....I have said this before and I will repeat it again.."Gender equality is not our issue,the major issue is Lack of RESPECT for each other whether man or woman...if your man respects you he will not treat you less because you are a woman,he will not look down on you because you are a woman...the same way your boss will not treat you badly because you are a woman.....by the way during the PDP presidential primaries that brought GEJ in,there was a woman among those contesting,guess what?she did not get up to five votes despite having a lot of women in the party...the women were voting for the men there because there is no trust even among each other..even some women don't love and respect each other...Change should begin with us.. 345 Likes 34 Shares |
Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by powerfulsettingz: 11:00am On Jun 19, 2016 |
is the lady that blast them mentally derailed? Gender equality can't work in a continent like Africa, is she suggesting that women can fight for the post of a king in yoruba land likewise? Or women can begin to propose marriage? Absolute nonsence I concur with olori 28 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by 4stylz: 11:27am On Jun 19, 2016 |
Girls should make their parents stop taking bride price from men before they bring this gender issue up 83 Likes |
Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by goldbim(f): 11:39am On Jun 19, 2016 |
Akiko!!(story)these women'll keep getting into trouble with their mouth..gender equality can't work in this part of the world..we can only clamor for more RESPECT..and before doing that,learn to give it FIRST!! ![]() 41 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by Beremx(f): 11:47am On Jun 19, 2016 |
That's the kind of thing Freeze likes, anything that is not favourable to women. When is he reconciling with his wife sef? ![]() 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by Proffdada: 11:55am On Jun 19, 2016 |
Freeze don go do bebeto for Wetin him no understand ![]() 9 Likes |
Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by photoshoot(m): 11:55am On Jun 19, 2016 |
These women and dis belief that they can be equal with Men in Nigeria ![]() I don't even know what to say. Church is just to boring. 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by sumborri: 11:57am On Jun 19, 2016 |
Stupid woman, gender this gender that, please who amongst you attended a mixed school and never saw girls In the class. This is a world where its easier for a woman to make it than a man, lots of prejudice on men folk. All these fools are interested in is simply to emasculate the men folk. They have succeded in doing that in the west and they wanna bring such crap here. Its only someone who lies to himself that would tell me women are at a disadvantage. Many real women who know what doors their feminity has opened for them will never want to be a man. Bloody hyprocrites all wanna eat them cakes and have it. Street hawkers that abound, are they predominantly females ? No males ? Are there no women in politics? Is there a rule that stops women from contesting like men? Or they expect to be made presidents and governors just beacuse they are women? There kind of women are the ones putting silly ideas into the minds of our well brought up african ladies. Who know that man has his role and woman has hers, nobody's role is inferior or superior to the other but are rather complimentary 101 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by joseph1832(m): 11:57am On Jun 19, 2016 |
Much ado about nothing. 6 Likes |
Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by DrLee(m): 11:58am On Jun 19, 2016 |
it's ladies like this that will mislead other women and be submissive to their husbands at home ![]() 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by TooNoisy(f): 11:59am On Jun 19, 2016 |
I can see lots of attention seekers everywhere. They scream women are being discriminated against but produce not facts but heresay. So let's examine the pure facts: Education The writer says women are being discriminated against in education. She forgot to tell us which Nigerian culture does not allow girls go to school. She just mentioned "cultures". Truth is that there is the Universal Basic Education program that ensures ALL Nigerian Children are educated to a certain level - JSS 3. This program does not discriminate against girls in any way. It caters for both boys and girls. The writer also forgets that Jamb cut of marks are not Gender based. If women were being discriminated against, then their own scores will have to be higher. Besides, I hear for common entrance, the cut-off marks are actually lower for girls than boys. So can someone explain what the discrimination is about. Unilag actually has about the same number of female and male students at the moment. Politics No law in Nigeria stops anyone from holding political office. The only barrier could be age but certainly not gender. How many women even contest for electoral offices? How can you vote for women if there are no female contestants? KOWA Party had a female presidential flag bearer, how many women voted for her? Did the writer vote for KOWA? If she didn't then she should just shut up. The problem with Nigerian feminists is that they do not believe they have to work hard for anything. They think they should get these positions just because they are women. Ngozi Okonjo Iweala, Mobola Johnson etc all got to where they got to because they worked hard. Go check their resumes. Hilary Clinton, Christen Lagarde and the likes got to their positions because they worked hard and deserved it. It wasn't because they were just women. People will take anybody serious when you truly have something to offer - if you have nothing to offer, you can't expect to be given much authority simply because you are a woman. Marriage No law in Nigeria forces a woman to marry or remain with any man. A woman has a CHOICE and most times decides who she marries by her own free will. And she decides to stay or leave as she pleases. If a woman marries an slowpoke, it is because of her poor judgement - it has nothing to do with gender equality. There are several women who married wonderful men or who even chose not to marry. And if a woman decides to remain in an abusive marriage - it is also her choice and has nothing to do with gender equality. There is a law in Lagos state against gender violence. Most times these women marry for nothing more than money. They don't even care the guy's source of money or whether he can sustain a decent lifestyle. Once he has a little money to spend on them, they just open their legs and let the man have his way. Whose fault is that biko? As for the writer insulting Freeze, I think the writer's degree ought to be investigated. 146 Likes 22 Shares |
Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by MuyiRano(m): 11:59am On Jun 19, 2016 |
Yesterday it was Uche Jombo, today it is Mary Amara... Hmmmn! E be like say dose women from dat tribe are commander in dier various home Abeg leave my Queen Olori Wuraola alone. Let her be. No mata hw yansh mk yanga reach na preek go still deal wt am.. If u wnt a good home no dey drag equal right wt ur man... If u wnt to reach ur destination safely no dey drag d steering wt ur driver... 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by JOYOSITA(f): 11:59am On Jun 19, 2016 |
I don't like Freeze. 4 Likes |
Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by Pyno30: 12:00pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Today is Sunday,, Please is Buhari in the Country yet ![]() 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by LordVoldemort(m): 12:01pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Freeze will be Freezed after reading this piece 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by brunofarad(m): 12:01pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Ok Writeup is too long |
Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by MrCow(m): 12:01pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Your opinion though @op come to think of it, there are more ladies opposing this than guys 5 Likes |
Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by truthspeaks: 12:01pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Ok |
Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by DrLee(m): 12:02pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
after bride price, the woman will now expect to be equal? ![]() 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by fotadmowmend(m): 12:02pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Olori said it well ! Gender equality is unattainable and contrary to our culture ! 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by winner01(m): 12:02pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Man and woman are not equal and will never be. The idea behind feminism is to attack the institutions of marriage and family, promote lesbianism, encourage women to leave their husbands and neglect their children, destroy capitalism e.t.c Inequality is why a woman has to bear the burden of child birth for about 9 months for an act performed by both a man and a woman, and the man gets to still be himself. I can give more examples. What women need is equal rights and oppourtunities. And that is equity and fairness, not equality. 28 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by nagodoluwa: 12:02pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Pyno30: |
Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by pryd(m): 12:03pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
"How many women are governors?" My friend go and hustle for it. These people just want things handed to them on a platter! ![]() 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by HeroKeys(m): 12:03pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
But her Highness Olori was very correct 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by highskies(m): 12:05pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Kk |
Re: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by Dbeze: 12:06pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Na here oap go support any single woman, woman wrapper. Longer throat. 1 Like |
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