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Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Gasout(m): 6:57pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
4reala: Honestly, she did! And when I I inquired, she said because of pregnancy 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Beremx(f): 6:57pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
She was sincere enough to have told you the truth. Trust me, not all women will do what she did. Just follow your heart and take your decision. Am afraid if your parents find out about her status, it's gonna be a big problem 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Gasout(m): 7:01pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Beremx: Yea, exactly! Have only shared the issue with my pastor, though, with her consent. He told me to pray about it if she's the choosen one for me. And he asked me this " can my faith carry it?" 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Beremx(f): 7:06pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout:You know the secrecy of being an HIV person. I will beg you not to tell anyone else even if you don't end up marrying her. Just follow your heart and pray about it. The ball is in your court. 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Gasout(m): 7:08pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Beremx: Ofcourse, is nt something I can share with anyone. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by 4reala(m): 7:11pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout:ok. I think she has led u on too far, and also lied to u, all in trying to gain ur Love. I am of the opinion of had it been she had told u earlier on(not on d first date though). U wld hav been in a very good position to mak a clear cut decision. But now she has already won ur Love and u are now in a confuse state. If u knw u won't be living with the fear of contracting d disease even after every precautionary measure has been taken, u can go ahead. But if u knw u will still be having dat fear, then its better to let her go 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by OgaSirAde(m): 8:00pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
This is serious I feel it all depends on you. The question is are you sure both of you are destined for each other if yes go ahead dere are couples who have one partner infected while the other is not. In this case you seek medical counsels BUT if not move on. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by kelechiodo(m): 8:11pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Op, I walked out of a beautiful relationship where bride price has already been paid because of Genotype. I wonder which one is more deadly between Genotype and HIV status 15 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Nobody: 8:13pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout: She didn't tell you she was HIV positive before you both got serious? Are you kidding me?! There are some things that shouldn't be concealed till it's too late! 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by finalboss1(m): 9:59pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
run for your life 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by skyo78(m): 10:01pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Oga you and your girlfriend are not serious. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by sweetcocoa(f): 10:02pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
As far as I'm concerned, she misled you therefore flee from her. What nonsense love is that one, mschew. ![]() 10 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Nobody: 10:02pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout: Even if you would have had unprotected sex with her then, the fact that she engaged in sexual intercourse with you while knowing that she was HIV positive without telling you is a death kneel to any relationship, IMHO. That all being said, HIV positive is not a biggie in this day and age, it's like having high blood pressure, diabetes, etc, all modern treatable conditions. Research Magic Johnson. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by drnairalov: 10:03pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
bro it is a film. John Dumelo and Joselyn Dumas. she wanna see how deep your love is 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by chidinmauche23: 10:04pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
i believe in god that god can cure her if she move closer to god.since you love her pls carry the cross it her cos this is your cross but wait this girl stil love you for her to open up with you which i know some girls cant do it.keep it up with her ....one love |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by damiandammy(m): 10:04pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
this is really tough o |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by sweetcocoa(f): 10:05pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Beremx:Which sincere? That woman just carefully manipulated the young man and that for me, is a no no. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Nobody: 10:06pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Onegai: God Bless u, I swear...Fear catch me sef after reading this Op's post !. I felt like someone poured ice blocks on me !!! 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by kenoz(m): 10:07pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
See gobe Speechless 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by danduchi(m): 10:07pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
fadjnr:It is easier to contract HIV from sex with a male than from sex with a female.www.healthline.com/health/hiv-aids/chances-contracting 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by general1970: 10:08pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
How did she contracted the disease? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by MARKone(m): 10:08pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout: First of all, put the intro on hold, pending the time you are fully convinced to carry on or otherwise. You can get married to her of course, even raise children as modern day medicine has made it possible. But truly if I am in your shoes, I would call off the whole thing entirely, she, your fiance, should have told you before you got so head over heels that she is positive, she should not have wanted after you've proposed, it is wrong. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by sarjay1000: 10:08pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Vickyydera: That's nt d way to go about it...u may think because ur safe today bt what if u get infected tru other means aside sex...just show empathy, life goes on 10 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by eipreel(f): 10:08pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
You planned to have intro this June and you just proposed last week? Issokay ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by frisky2good(m): 10:09pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Your mama prayers dey work, na u need to dey pray well. Gasout: 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Damikevin(m): 10:10pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
two things I see, either its a test or she really is. Ladies always going. Extreme to test a man! Ask her how she got it! |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Temmytea70(m): 10:10pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
carmag: Is her heart a vehicle that you're engaging the brake .. ..... ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by truthalways(m): 10:10pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Whew !!!! Just Hiv ![]() ![]() ![]() ....thought you were going to say She had a diick ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by dammiedot(m): 10:10pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
EfemenaXY: How can you determine what the right thing to do is? Its unfair for any one to discriminate an HIV victim. I bet some of us here do not know their HIV status. Who knows, if she was once a victim of rape,etc 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Beetobee(f): 10:11pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
I don't know how it works, but I have an HIV positive cousin whose husband and three kids are negative. Go for adequate counseling, you just might be lucky. 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by frisky2good(m): 10:11pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
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