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Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Zedoo(m): 10:11pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
She has no right to drag you down this lane! What kind of lady does that? It means she wasn't even prepared to love anyone (doesn't even love you) hence "whoever" comes along and loves her with her status is the "right man". What kind of love testing is that? Under normal circumstances she would hav resisted sex frm you because there was a "slim" chance you could've gotten hiv. While its no big deal to marry a hiv positive woman, when she puts you on suspense this long only to tell you now, she is an untrustworthy person I am sorry to say....so if you say you no dey marry again now you go be bad person....when In reality it will be very easy for her to jst move on with her life and look for the next "husband that will accept her as she is ONLY after proposing". You don't put the cart before the horse oga, for someone to bait you with this kind of thing and not even say it when your love was waxing stronger (in your own head o) means genuine feelings are not involved on her part. Two good years? Somebody with real feelings would have said something earlier because she too will feel bad to hurt you...but no not this one.... Oga my advice, leave that gurl, NOT because she is hiv positive but because she has no true feelings.... No matter how much doctors tell you the emotional trauma of this shocking knowledge will far outlast the physical fact that she has hiv. Think properly. People may say I am harsh in my judgement, but its just what I think. No need to beat around the bush.... Only God knows what else she is "waiting" to tell you on your wedding night or after 5years of marriage.... 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Nobody: 10:12pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout: NO AND NO AGAIN !!! DON'T MARRY HER Why do you want to carry another person's problem and put on your head ehn !!! isn't this economy not enough problem for you already ? Call her family and tell them you changed your mind. Period. If you were a female and She's a Male, I would have said the same thing. So no hard feelings here. 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Pepperdino(m): 10:12pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Guy d earlier d better find ur level,i hope ur not positive too oooo#case close 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by ronald4lif(m): 10:12pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Have you gbenshed her raw yet? Go for test if yes my brother. Nsogbu di. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by BetterChurch: 10:12pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
The law of Love is greater than the law of karma. How great is your love for her? Ask God to guide you. Watch your dreams for Insights. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by mayoorex: 10:13pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
You never ask for advice before start dating. My advise follow your mind. Trials are meant for the great minds. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by frisky2good(m): 10:13pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
She might just be pulling your legs. First take her for HIV test then come back and I will tell you what to do if you still don't know what to do. Gasout: |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by babadee1(m): 10:14pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Bro pls marry her without fear. There are hundreds of thousands of couples all over the world where one partner is HIV positive and they are happily married. Google "serodiscordant couples" to learn more. You have to make up your mind that you truly love her and you will always support her. Just know that she will have to be on her medications for life and you will have to use protection always except under a doctor's direction when you want to have children. Apart from that there's nothing to worry about. She will live a normal life span and you're unlikely to ever get infected as long as you guys are careful. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by SirAweezy(m): 10:14pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
fadjnr: I disagree! I did a field study(at Lasuth)x during my Journalism career on this, and the man you quoted was right. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by frugal(m): 10:14pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
nasha1: HIV is not a contagious terminal disease. Don't misinform people. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by victorazy(m): 10:14pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout: She is not wicked! She can be cured by God only if she can make the journey. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by arantess: 10:14pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
The op has 2choices....he can call off the engagement and move on. That's the simplest and easiest thing to do....or if he loves the woman more than his mother...he can go ahead and both of them can be on drugs(HAART for the woman and Prep for himself...most likely both will be same regimen)... Meanwhile make sure she starts her treatment ASAP..no time.cheers |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Nobody: 10:15pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Zedoo: abi oh, after 5 years now, she will now tell you that her previous bf died of the same HIV. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by fortunechy(m): 10:15pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
google it my dear |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by youngest85(m): 10:16pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Vickyydera: Even if he's d heir of Bill Gate? |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by princetom1(m): 10:18pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout:See guys, u had no idea what goes on in the head of the girl. If she wants the guy at all cost, she would have had sex unprotected. U asking y she wait this long? Am sure u don't want just anybody to know u are positive. The truth is, Op is confused, he loves the girl and am sure he is satisfied with what he has saw, quality wise. I mean, how many of u would wait to date a lady this long and had sex just once? Op just need to sit down and think of what he wants. But if u ask me, i can only advise u. U end up making the choice. But wait, u already made steps instead of running away, i guess u want this then. Am sure its not gonna be as hard as u think to raise a family with her 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by kingthreat(m): 10:19pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
eyinjuege: If every unprotected sex have a hifh risk of HIV, half of the world's population will be positive by now 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by doughziay: 10:19pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Have u cared to know how she contracted the disease? Sexual contact or unsterilized objects |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Princehojay(m): 10:19pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
I love coocked stories, this is exactly what Olamide Badoo called Story For The gods............ 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by spafu(m): 10:19pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
If you are doubting your doctor what will you do to me. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Nobody: 10:19pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
histemple:Fake doctor!!! 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Rushtec(m): 10:20pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout:To come for Anoda test in d next 3month....Dt mean u are |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by mickeymimi: 10:21pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
It is a good thing she told you...both of you should go for a test first.....before anything 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Nobody: 10:22pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
COME ALONG WITH HER TO THE LORDS CHOSEN HEADQUARTERS IN IJESHA, LAGOS. THE HIV WOULD RUN OUT FROM HER!! NA moi moi case be dt for THE LORDS CHOSEN!! I WOULD GLADLY MAKE MYSELF AVAILABLE FOR YOU BOTH IN CHURCH. SEND ME A MAIL. ifeanyichukwueze@yahoo.com |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by andyanders: 10:22pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
histemple: In fact you are a man. She could be pulling his legs. Op, what I suggest is for you to take her for a taste and if positive, take her to Synagogue Church of All Nations for healing and she will be ok. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Spain007(m): 10:22pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
histemple:also i would advise you both run HIV test to be sure..,just as said above .she may be testing ur strength of love,endurance ,anger etc LUCK |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by princetom1(m): 10:22pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
youngest85: Yeye dey smell, is easier said than done. Na dem dey run after rich kids around, what does she even know, she only has her body, so, she cant appreciate a sister that has what's more than a body |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by luminous1(m): 10:23pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
She took you to a point of no return. I have a similar issue, I.met this girl and we've been dating for q year and. I told her my intentions of wanting to settle with her. During the course, she'd always tell she will tell me something but on an incident where I was correcting her she told me that her sister she told me about is a retard whereas she told me earlier she is married. Then that her dad died 11 years ago. I felt for her but I'm thinking if I should consider marrying her after hiding such for long from me. Please house, help..... |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by EfemenaXY: 10:23pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
dammiedot: How does my post DISCRIMINATE against her? Is she applying for a job? Whether she was once a victim of râpe or not is irrelevant. The fact is, she's a carrier and him considering wedding her is not something to be taken lightly. HIV is life changing. It's easy to stand aside and dish out advice from the outside. Let's be straight for once and cut out the bullshít. Would you advice your brother or better still, your son to go ahead and marry the carrier of a deadly disease? Why go knocking on death's door when it's not your time to meet your creator? 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Olumaeme: 10:23pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Your girlfriend is very wicked ooo, she hide this from you for that long? Go get tested, and dump her as soon as possible, marriage is a lifetime contact, don't make the silly mistake. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by dottypax: 10:23pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout:I think u should take her for a test n then ask the doctor to advice you on what to do.but to be candid I know there is a way you can impregnate her n always be with her without you contacting the virus by taking some preventive medical measures but man you should know that the path you wish to undertake is not an easy one. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Ashmark(m): 10:23pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Nearly everybody on Nairaland is viewing this Topic. You can only make the decision yourself. HIV! !.......What kind of joke is this? |
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