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Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Confuciusng(m): 10:23pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
[sup][/sup]God forgive me for saying this... In saner climes, having sex without letting your partner know you are HIV+ is as criminal attempted murder. So dude, thread softly! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Nobody: 10:23pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
eyinjuege: Chai .....Well said ..You must be a doctor I am impressed 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Ashmark(m): 10:24pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Nearly everybody on Nairaland is viewing this Topic. You can only make the decision yourself. HIV! !.......What kind of joke is this? |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by badonkadonk: 10:25pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Chai.... Can u just imagine that ur fiancé... She is very heartless o... She allowed u fall in love to the extent of proposing... Then she shatter ur hopes and aspirations with that devastating and destiny killing news... Upon all that... As if that wasn't enough... She begin cry ontop... You Wey spose dey cry no cry na she wey spose no cry begin cry... Thats just sad... 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by greggng: 10:25pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
You can only marry her if you re the one that gave her the hiv. Use ur tongue to count ur teeth. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by davspog2(m): 10:25pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
It's either of this two things. 1. She's testing you Or 2. She don finish you |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by issylarry(m): 10:25pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout:she myt be testing u,try 2 go and c a doctor with her 4 a test 2 confirm. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by chiwetel(f): 10:26pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
This is overwhelming.. it would have saved you both a lot of stress if she opened up earlier, at least it would have really helped you prepared well emotionally and spiritually for the task ahead. we are all humans, it's easier for anyone to say"love conquers all"and similar hogwash like that,love is never enough sometimes, you don't want to take a decision you would regret in the long run,and then depression and hatred sets in. Remember, this is a life changing decision and trust me its not even yours to make.This is the point you bury yourself in prayer to God or whatever you believe in.They say everything happens for a reason and the universe has it all planned out,trust God to reveal to you whatever reason this is happening to you, he would give you the grace to come out of this fix in one piece. for now... its your cross. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by son4century(m): 10:26pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
OK, this is what u shd do Tell her u also have something in mind to tell her but not yet time Then, on the wedding eve, tell her to walk away (if possible fly away sef) or surprise her with a bride mama has brought from the village to fill her spot the next day |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by iamauxin(m): 10:27pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
@OP, did you kiss her or suck her nipples during the 'protected' sex? .... cos if you did, it's a huge risk too. Did u two share shaving sticks? Or had blood covenants? Any of these could be done by normal lovers but can expose one to HIV and not necessarily sex. Please Dear Naira landers; booking space is better than giving wrong info to someone in a situation like OP's. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by victorazy(m): 10:27pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
fadjnr: Ignorant you! The chance of man contracting HIV is tinier than that of woman. it takes man frequent unprotected sexual intercourse with infected female to contract the virus, but for woman is one touch. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by RiffRaff: 10:27pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Guy you have been catfished.. in a complex suitation. if i were in your shoes oh, i will not marry her. lating out a news this big on me will make me skeptical. i have nothing against HIV people cuz it could happen to anybody but i have everything against manipulative people who cant be honest with me fron the start. Man, the choice is yours but if i were in your shoes, i cant marry someone like that. Let me know what i am getting into from the start. if i can cope, i will go ahead and date you. if not, there are plenty suitors out there for us all whether HIV positive or not. i wish u goodluck man! Cheers 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by ujuella(f): 10:28pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
firstly she is wicked and heartless to have allowed u to have sex with her know the kind of secret she is keeping . my dear she will still surprise you in the future if are not careful. pls let her go 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by luminous1(m): 10:29pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
EfemenaXY: Good words. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by babyfaceafrica: 10:29pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
I hate deceit above all things!!!...so she had to wait till he propose to her and was emotionally involved with her to break the news....she even allowed you to have sex with her,either protected or not is not the issue!!!!....she is not considerate at all.....the decision is yours!! |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by crazymommy(f): 10:29pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
No one is Even telling the OP to confirm if the lady truly has HIV....what if she is testing him??I know it might sound foolish but trust me some ladies can do anything just to test the loyalty of a Man.... |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by oodua1stson: 10:29pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
She's hiv + and still let you have sex with her without telling you? Isn't that a criminal offence? You better leave her now 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by iyke484real(m): 10:29pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Na wash jare, op be careful, no use my head
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Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Maximus85(m): 10:30pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout: If e face you, make you shoot am. If e back you make you shoot am. If e remain only you..... You're so so on your own. Ti o ba ko iwaju si e, ki o taaa. Ti o be ko eyin si e ki o shoot e. But ti o ba ku iwo nikan, ki o tun ero ara e pa. I rest my case. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Abeyjide: 10:30pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
histemple: that must be a costly joke |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by eyinjuege: 10:30pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
kingthreat: I hope you know that you can have gonorrhea, or syphillis from one encounter. HIV too is also sexually transmitted. There are some parts of the world where sexual health is taken seriously. People actively go to the hospital regularly for check ups and certain diseases are picked up on time. They get on treatment on time, and are generally responsible about their health. They read about diseases, and educate themselves not waiting for someone else who has no stakes on them to educate them. They also disclose their HIV status as that's a crime if you don't and go sleep with someone else willingly. Have you ever wondered why HIV is more prevalent in developing countries/continents like Africa/Asia? The population size and Poor sexual health practices are contributory, where no one wants to be responsible. Some still don't believe HIV exists btw, and are still as careless as ever refusing to take responsibility. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by afroditte(f): 10:30pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
All she needs is to consistently be on the anti retroviral drugs and you two will be fine. It will suppress the HIV and she can have kids and live a normal life. Wetin go kill person go kill person jare. A healthy person can die tomorrow unexpectedly in a car accident or something while A HIV person will live way longer. Nothing to be afraid of abeg. Most people are taking drugs and managing themselves with one disease or the other, lungs, kidney, heart, high BP, diabetes, cancer. Just because they cannot be contracted doesn't make them any less deadlier than HIV. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Ogbulaba(m): 10:31pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
@ op I would recommend a song to hope it helps u..... the title of d song is YOU NEVER KNOW by immortal technique. the story line of d song is very similar to ur case |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Igwe85(m): 10:31pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Go marry her idiot...... Stupid question....... 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Ashmark(m): 10:32pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Nearly everybody on Nairaland is viewing this Topic. You can only make the decision yourself. HIV! !.......What kind of joke is this? |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Walspring: 10:32pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout: Gasout: Gasout: Hmmmmmm.. No iota of truth in this story.. Lemme ask you this someone you proposed to last week asked you to go and think about it, how come you are able to convince her to go and do test with you that same week Bros you no try at all with this your levels oo |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Nobody: 10:32pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
eyinjuege: You are absolutely wrong for this. Sex is not the only way to transmit HIV. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by bryan360: 10:32pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
this phifu sayin love conquers all..life no get part two oh..dnt waste it all for d sake of luv..walk away jejeli..if u need transport fare sef cum take. . |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by BoboFashion(m): 10:33pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
ujuella: No need of letting her go,if he has the virus already. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by youngest85(m): 10:34pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
princetom1: So u knw her this much? |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by UjSizzle(f): 10:34pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Here's my take: In a relationship everyone has a deal breaker. If you have undisclosed material information-- and I mean information about yourself that will significantly affect the other person's decision to be (or not) with you that has been deliberately withheld even when it's obvious that all signs point towards a certain end (eg marriage), then you are a liar and the worst kind of deceiver out there. It's simple. If your reason for holding back is as a result of your fear of losing said person, then you are a bigger liar. Even with the possibility of this being a 'test', it's still an inconsiderate way of testing a man's loyalty. That said, if the OP isn't interested in going ahead with the marriage, he is fully justified to call it off. 4 Likes 1 Share |
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