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Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Nobody: 10:34pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
What if you go for another test three months later and suprise suprise you are hiv positive?? You would blame her right? For not telling you from the onset... You better call off the engagement.You even had unprotected SEX with her and she still kept mute about it |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Subom1(f): 10:34pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Firstly in this day and age one does not need to be ignorant. When you get into a relationship its best that you both go for an HIV test and Sti test to ensure that both are free from any sexual transmitted diseases and use a condom at all times. You ad your partner can decide how often you can do test whether it be twice a year etc. I also believe that once a couple feels that they want to get serious then they can do other tests such as fertilityand genotype that way you will know earlier than latter when feelings have become stronger making it more complicated. This will save a lot of people stories that touch. In this day and age you can't tell who is HIV positive by appearances and there are some people who are out there sorey to infect as many people as possible. Your girlfriend was extremely selfish and should have told you at least before the relationship started getting serious. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Rexnegro(m): 10:35pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout:no mata wat nairalanders says The final Answer still lies within u...all You re seeking for is opinions probably to gauge The same Answer You Have in Your head...wel as for me I'd say If truly You love her as in LOVE her then go ahead if You can bear with the fact on ground that's positive. Then don't rely on What The Doctor said alone, seek for another Doctor if possible two or three Doctors And hear their own, cos at times Doctors can contradict themselves ehn. Good luck in whatever decision You choose |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by dottypax: 10:37pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout:I think u should take her for a test n then ask the doctor to advice you on what to do.but to be candid I know there is a way you can impregnate her n always be with her without you contacting the virus by taking some preventive medical measures but man you should know that the path you wish to undertake is not an easy one. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by swaggerdgrt(m): 10:37pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gbese......
Guy run for ur lfe oohhh
Women plenty |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by travelpoint: 10:38pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Nairaland people with nollywood story. The move will sell if you use good actors n actresses |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Nobody: 10:38pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout:Be frank 1 so called protected sex from 2014 -2016 ? Good holy boy.? This what is called self inflicted injury. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Nobody: 10:39pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
its gud to b in luv,,@ one point in our lives we all feel we cannt live witout sum1,,but as ur heart lead let ur brain follow bumper2fender ...i can see u wana go on wit d gurl thinkin on a short run (luv),,but my broda d pros n cons dt cums wit marryin such a gurl on a long run u wonnt b able 2 bear it(excessive baggage nii) ur sex life aint gona b normal even child bearing,,imagine avin sex n ur mind kips sayin check d condom se ko tii burst 4 hw long,,ur mind gonna Bleep u up.Life is short they say but i say marriage is long.. am Movin On 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by ogawisdom(m): 10:39pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout: Y would she keep her status away frm u n allow u do introduction. She is a devil stay away from her. She even allowed u to sex her n am sure u guys kissed raw abi u wear condom for tongue, boy u shld b worried abt ur HIV status, do d test in three different places after 4months 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Poliss(m): 10:39pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Was busy reading tinkin it was a serious mata self. Since u can't die wit ha wotz d essence of shouting u luv ha so much? Marry, stay and die wit ha if u really luv ha. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by 123emeka: 10:39pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
A relationship based on lies may not last 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by eyinjuege: 10:40pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
AyaSunday: Wrong to say HIV clinic is filled with both men and women? Young and old? Our discussion wasn't on the various ways HIV is transmitted but rather on the erroneous belief that men can hardly catch it from unprotected sexual intercourse. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by omaigala12(m): 10:41pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
histemple:Oga aids pass disability oo |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Taryur3(m): 10:41pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Cooked story. ..idonbilif u. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by nini007(m): 10:41pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
eyinjuege:Eyinjuege, u don't even understand what he's saying here..smh |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Nobody: 10:41pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Vickyydera:see this one saying nonsense,your talking ruining life,no be some people sit down jeje,armed robber go kill them,or some na road kill them,did anyone tell you he or she will know his appointed time die? no be malaria kill actor so yesterday? be there and keep saying nonsense,if he loves her he should marry her afterall no one lives past 80 yrs nowadays and anyone can die at any f*cking time |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Basalt(m): 10:42pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout: Why should you have sex with somebody you are not married to yet? Its not good. Before I comment, you must first of all go for your HIV test modifed Op read my lips . Dont marry that girl or else you will regret it. A word is enough for the wise. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Eastlink(m): 10:43pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
OP go fast and conduct an HIV test to confirm your status. The biitch deserves to be stoned. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by duality(m): 10:43pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Governor fayose already answered this question in advance.. People say the man is a prophet. ![]() |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by AntiWailer: 10:43pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout: U need someone to slap u continously until ur brain enter gear 2. Quit. You are not Jesus that will wash away her sins. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by sweetcocoa(f): 10:43pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
dammiedot:Excuse me please, don't start with the discrimination talk because this isn't a case of such. This OP is being what I consider stupid by still asking questions tbh, like how can someone claim to care about you but keep such away? I'm even getting angry typing this cos believe me, if I were the OP, that woman better pray I didn't contract the virus cos, infact let me not even think about it. ![]() I hate people like OP's fiancee because they are not nice people, they only pretend to be. Then she started crying after he proposed, what was she crying for? Like it wasn't what she had planned all along. OP you better run for your life if you have any sense left. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Bammydele83: 10:43pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Bros I'd advise you listen to Fayose's advice as regards Ali Modu Sheriff |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by sbabimbola(f): 10:44pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
eyinjuege: You are right! |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Nobody: 10:44pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Living with someone who is HiV +ve is really challenging. Lots of discipline and precaution required in d marriage. It's possible to marry one who is positive and still b negative. It's also possible to have kids who will b negative. If she takes good care of herself by taking her drugs religiously, the lesser chance u have of contracting it. But it will require life time commitment for it to work. Marriage is a life time decision and not just a part time thing. Think about it before making a choice. U could also talk to a health counselor in any HiV clinic close to u for more info. All d best and may God guide u. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Nobody: 10:47pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Take her to Salvation Ministries, Port Harcourt. Testimonies on HIV positive turned negative with medical proofs is an everyday affair. There is a solution for her there, problem solved. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Memyselfu2009(m): 10:48pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
HelL No she fooled you all these while she would have told you earlier. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by skywalker001(m): 10:50pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Vickyydera:Vicky Vicky... Miss No nonsense 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by loadux(f): 10:50pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
speaking from a medical point of view I don't think HIV is the worse disease one can get, it's dreadful yes, we all agree but really it's not that big of a deal. there are lots of discordant couples who get married and give birth to normal children w/o an increase risk to the HIV negative partner, but there are factors to consider and steps to follow @op bottom line is do not let HIV be the determining factor in ur relationship, there cld be worse disease which cld happen later in ur marriage by then there will be no excuse so the question is, do I love this girl enough to look beyond the dx and see only the positive attributes she posses, if yes, then go ahead but if this HIV thing in going to be standing btw u for the rest of ur lives then its better to part ways now. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by eightsin(m): 10:51pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Jeeeesssuuu!!! |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by sweetcocoa(f): 10:51pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
badonkadonk:Someone who perfectly gets it. Na that cry part pain me pass I swear. ![]() Just what was she crying for? To manipulate him the more ofcourse. I'm surprised the OP is even asking the wrong questions. I expect to hear questions like "how do I refrain from committing murder" I really wonder why he's not angry. Well, I guess, manipulators do know how to choose their victims. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by hardbody: 10:53pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout: Pregnancy ![]() I thought u said u wore CD? Did it break? I am beginning to suspect this your story 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by eyinjuege: 10:53pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
nini007: I absolutely understand what he's saying, but certain things need to be clarified on a forum such as this where we have a lot of highly impressionable people who won't bother to go research themselves. All they would remember is that they read somewhere on the Internet- NL that they as young men cannot catch HIV by sleeping once with a woman unprotected. Can you catch gonorrhea by sleeping with an infected woman once? http://www.cdc.gov/std/hiv/stdfact-std-hiv-detailed.htm |
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