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Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by sanitelag(m): 10:53pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout, takia of yourself for yourself! you can live with her only if she got HIV while you are married. but the difficulties and sacrifice of living with her at this junction is much that one is not advised to accept. just let her look for her +ve partner. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Nobody: 10:54pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout:run for ur life... Why will a girl that claimed she loves you expose u to danger of getting infected without her warning u of the inherent danger? That sex is protected doesn't mean it is safe...anything could have happened. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by SmartMugu: 10:54pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
eigmaticme:Love conquers nothing in this case. If it was me, there's nothing else to discuss. This is reality, not nollywood things. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by divineappo(m): 10:55pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
I may be wrong, but i strongly believe she is not HIV positive. She wants to test you to ascertain if you truly love her. My advise is, tell her u will take her to hospital for medical confirmation. But If she is positive, Whether u truly love her to still marry her, that is what me i dont know. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by excel101(m): 10:56pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout:As 2 wrongs can't make a right, so also 2HIV patients cant make a living. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by chiwex(m): 10:56pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
run for your life you can find another Juliet elsewhere 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by hadaydoyin(m): 10:56pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
OP YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN OO. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by peculyachi(f): 10:56pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
histemple: a lady does not contract it immediately d man ejaculates in her... |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by 735i(m): 10:56pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
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Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by joenor(m): 10:57pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Run for your life!! Gasout: 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by babeface3: 10:57pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
nasha1:did u read the story well ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by queenfav(f): 10:57pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
@Op,with all due respect,you are really dense!You are still asking nairalanders what to do when its crystal clear?No o,marry her. My issue is not the fact that she is HIV +...nope!In fact HIV carriers even outlive people with cancer and diabetes.Its not a death sentence so long as its managed well. My annoyance with u is the fact that you see absolutely nothing wrong with the fact that she kept it from you.Take it from me,that lady can kill u.HIV status is not what she can easily drop in the middle of conversation casually like "oh,by the way did i tell u i am HIV +"However,she owed you a duty to let you know the moment you starred dating seriously.She exposed you to risk of contacting it, abi u feel day na only thru sex HIV dey transfer? No...She could have cut herself,u could have come in contact with her blood or other bodily fluid and somehow got infected.Then she would say sorry abi?Dont be self destructive by playing the part of a fool in love, end that relationship ASAP.. I repeat,a woman who hides such a crucial thing from you can kill you,that's if she hasn't killed you already by passing it on to u.Love is honest in all things no matter how dirty or embarrasing,she didn't play fair at all... 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Johnbosco77(m): 10:57pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
walai kwo, if say dis op de near me ehhh, d kind slap wey I go nack am ehhh, if u ask am to spell HIV Na BUHARI him go spell. wat nonsense film are u acting?? I jus hop u de lie since.. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Subom1(f): 10:58pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
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Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Hotguy27: 11:00pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Simply walk away. She got the infection from unexpected person or means and she wants to change her status to an acceptable one as if she does not have such problem. She is ready to even die shortly after the marriage and you will start your own secret journey in agony. My concern is that she hid this fom you for a long time. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Nobody: 11:00pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout: But you have already eaten from her pot nah. probably + yourself |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Nobody: 11:00pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout:OP she messed up big time...She is the perfect Example of the real Shaitan...why didnt she tell you over a year ago? it has been you decision to either stay or go but she didnt tell you. I wont blame u for sleeping with her,ur a man,so u have a weakneas. But am so upset with her a similar incident almost happened to me,someone i was liking was HIV positive and never for once did she tell me and we were best buddies. It was someone else that discovered her ART drugs thats when she now confessed,i was embarassed and dejected. I forgave her cos i have no right no to moreover we are still best buddies. All am saying is this your fiancee might have been very scared of loosing you,you know not everyone is brave when it comes to such matters. Decision lies in your hands. Marry the love of your life then be on drugs as well i.e truvada so u wont contact d virus or dont marry her. But think twice though cos anyone can die at any f*cking time,even fever kills more than HIV nowadays.all d best 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by femzysticks(m): 11:02pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout: do you Believe in Jesus? he can heal any disease 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by sweetcocoa(f): 11:02pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
afroditte:I don't understand how a person can type this post and be comfortable with it. ![]() So because people die everyday, it's cool to go seek death then? How can you just say there's nothing to be afraid of, like we are talking about taking a walk in a park? Plus not to mention the fact that, this lady is a heartless bish, who gives no feck about the OP. Na wa o. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by LaurelP(m): 11:03pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Op do you even know that in some countries, it is criminal for a person with a deadly disease like HIV to knowingly have sex with another negative person? She could be jailed for that. Better use you're head, love get expiry date o. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by NICOGRAVITY: 11:03pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
4reala: She is a very wise lady. If you were her, will go around telling everyone that approaches you that you are hiv positive? Just because she has hiv doesn't mean she should be stigmatized. Malaria is more dangerous than hiv. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Priceless830(m): 11:03pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Go on with your marriage, she just wanna text your strength and seriousness....... Rising Sun |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by ercel: 11:03pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
@OP,Nairaland contributors might further confuse you. Your two options are either 'stay' or 'walk away'. All have their consequences. Just weigh the possible outcomes and choose,above all,pray and follow your heart. One basic principle you should analyse is "could she have been so nice and perfect wife-material so that when the time to decide on her comes you'll find it difficult doing away with her?". If you spot any element of pretence and manipulation,pls run,otherwise,you could be seeing your treasure wrapped in pseudo-problem (HIV). 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Adekorya: 11:05pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
histemple:What kind of pulling leg will someone pull with HIV for that matter? |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Nobody: 11:06pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
duality:Omg ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by LaurelP(m): 11:06pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
divineappo: Oga he said they've both gone for test. The girl is +ve while he's -ve. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by flokii: 11:06pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
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Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Nobody: 11:07pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Well, this man is bleeped 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by ibietela2(m): 11:08pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
histemple: What do you mean by Cracks? |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by flokii: 11:09pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
@OP might be to test you.. To see if you'd stay.. Buh if it's not.. Then follow ur mind, some folks are irreplaceable.. Just think well so you dnt regret later cheers & goodluck |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by fart: 11:09pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
the love better be strong. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Nobody: 11:10pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
fadjnr:You are wrong. Viral loads greatly determines the possibility of spreading the virus. The viral load in the blood is usually at its peak 8 to 12 weeks after getting the virus at this stage it could be easily transferred to the other person via sex. But females can't easily transfer the virus because the vigna fluid has very little or non of the viral loads except during menstruation. This explains why 3% of hiv cases was transferred via MouthAction by a hiv negative man on a hiv positive female. Studies also show that this male victims had dentition cases with bleeding gums or wonds. But a hiv positive male has a high concentration of the virus in his semen and can easily transfer the virus from ejaculation. 1 Like |
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