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Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Dharnchuks(m): 11:11pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Its not easy living with the stigma associated with HIV/AIDs. As to her not telling him? Though its wrong but if she tells every guy who comes her way, they'll most likely disappear before she's even done saying it. I will suggest u get adequate medical advice from a medical practitioner because it's not just u two involved but your future kids a swell. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Dollaz: 11:11pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
My brother run for ur life. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by hadaydoyin(m): 11:12pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
flokii:exactly |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Youngetskilz23(m): 11:12pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
jesus christ. dude back out as fast as you can. life is too short. what the Bleep. aids? like what tha Bleep. go for a test. your very lucky. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by duality(m): 11:12pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
The @op, wouldn't have been worried with HIV test if he didn't fornicate... Fact! 1 John 5:3 (KJV) For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments: and his commandments are not grievous. This portion of the Bible is instructive. Yet many don't want to take it to heart. Did your pastor not at least lead you to repentance?.. Plz I'd like to know your pastor and his church. Also of she told you she had HIV, would you still have sex with her? Again, people must understand that marriage is about destiny and not about qualities. May God give you the wisdom to make the right decision. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Liverpoolfc(m): 11:12pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
IN AGC, SUCH WEDDING CANNOT HOLD. IT IS SUICIDAL BRO. IF I TELL YOU I AM POSITIVE AND YOU AGREE TO MARRY ME EVEN THOUGH I AM NOT, I WILL NO LONGER MARRY YOU COS I WANT TOMARRY SM1 WITH A CLEAR HEAD. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by son4century(m): 11:12pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Subom1:Hahaha... Am just being logical @least, there will be no fear of him coming down with hiv No panic over the unborn generation No secrets to keep No extra carefulness in doing things Won't be a good patroniser of condom #benefitlistunending |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by IAMMRTWHYTE(m): 11:12pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
If you truly love her u can marry her. HIV shouldn't stop u from being with the one you love. it's a tough decision though. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by SUPOL(m): 11:13pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
nasha1:My tot darl. How can u allow a guy have sex with u without letting him know ur status. I suspect she's from one state like dat... I no go mention d state but dey use to warn guys from marrying from dat state. And dia people are seen to be more poisonous dan snake. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by bezimo(m): 11:13pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout: As it stands now. Devine intervention is the only option as you would have to believe God for her to become HIV negative. There are many true churches of God in the land where the healing rivers that cometh from above is flowing freely.Jesus is more than enough to solve the challenge. I have heard too many testimonies of SS turning to AA and HIV positive becoming HIV negative by devine intervention. So its posible, but are you and her ready to take responsiblity and take her healing so you can continue with your marriage plans. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by ifypadua: 11:14pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Engagement can also be disengaged when it has a fragile pillar... Guy, u can't escape being an HIV carrier. Ur unborn children re still there. Don't devastate d lives of innocent generatn. Not telling u earliers means dat dere re many greavous secrets awaiting u Shine ur eyes bro... Its ur choice |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Student125(m): 11:14pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
I have read lots of funny comments here and I wonder if anyone put there self in this girl's position for a second...fine, d girl messed up with d guy for nt spitting it out on time bt she suggested for condom wen d guy wanted to sex her, an act which may be crimial too for even allowing d sex in d frst instance bt I want u all to knw if she decided to keep mute with her status and dey had unprotected sex several times bfre dey went for d Hiv test and dey were both positive, nobody will knw who infected d other bt u shld respect ds lady for keeping u safe uptil now. some people said she shld hav informed d guy bfre dey get serious bt I won't blame her for that, testing positive to Hiv is not a news u just tel pple like that cuz of d stigmatization and u might b feeling that the person u 're telling will tel another person. Any time u walk on the street and u see pple steeing at u, u think maybe they already know. Op, my advice, stick to her, if u cant continue wit d sex part u can get her Love Machine and go ahead to marry another girl that wil satisfy ur urge..mind u we all wish to live long bt pple die everyday, wether hiv or other death, we don't knw who dies next....best of luck bro 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by hardbody: 11:14pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout: Yeah, except NL |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by NICOGRAVITY: 11:15pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
[quote author=Gasout post=46704436] Yes, we had sex just once and it was protected[/quot Do you really love this lady? In my honest opinion, she deserves your praise and protections. She has told you the truth and nothing but the truth. Hold her in high esteem. She made sure you were protected from the disease. I know a lot of couples of which one of them is hiv positive they have children and are a very happy family. Malaria kills faster than hiv. Please, kindly treat this matter with utmost care and respect and dignity to her. The way you handle this matter can make or destroy her self esteem, self worth, confidence and her ability to love again. Please, kindly treat her with utmost love and respect. I humbly encourage you to pray and fast earnestly. Hear from GOD before you make your final decision. God bless you greatly in Jesus name amen. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by avicky(f): 11:15pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
EfemenaXY: Imagine? The relationship was even built on DECEIT. And op is asking for advice when reality is staring you at the face. You even had protected sex just once. That girl can kill. Just walk away and never look back. In three months time, go for another test and if the test is negative, go do thanksgiving. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Lexusgs430: 11:15pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout: she kept such a healthy secret(sorry meant health secret), till you proposed ? Have you been having protected sex, unprotected sex or no sex at all, during your relationship ? |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Olabestonic001(m): 11:15pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout: I sensed she's manipulative. Ensure you're very committed to her and later break the news. In the throes of emotions, you become confused and have no other option but to surrender to her game. She's an A-class manipulator. Even if I am to marry such a woman tomorrow, I'll break it and deal with the shame. Better-stll, when the parents inquire,I'll bare it all. Manipulation is one thing a man must never take from any woman. The day you see that in a woman, forget love and run away. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by SUPOL(m): 11:15pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
IAMMRTWHYTE:First ask ursef if ur in his shoes will u marry b4 u come here n type trash. I guess ur dat babe type 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by queenfav(f): 11:16pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
UjSizzle:Gbam!You have said it all.Case is hereby dismissed. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by badonkadonk: 11:16pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
sweetcocoa: Honestly.. Op! Should just do the needful... Cos that babe Go just dey turn up with her waterworks like say tomoro no dey.. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by DonBobes(m): 11:16pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
histemple: You are right! |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Airoflaw(m): 11:16pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout:she can't be trusted for allowing you have sex with her without letting you know before now...she is capable of killing bro.thank you Neva marry na propose 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by SUPOL(m): 11:18pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Olabestonic001:she's been good to d guy because she knows she's handicapped. So just trash all her goodness 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Boldstar(m): 11:18pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
You can marry her, be HIV free and have Children that will be HIV free. I know a particular couple like that. Also, having HIV is enough sorrow for her. If you truly love her, make her happy by not back tracking on your proposal. You can marry her, have regular sex, have children and be HIV negative. Very possible. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by macaranta(m): 11:18pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
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Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by DonBobes(m): 11:19pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
histemple:Nice write up der! |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Nobody: 11:20pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
fadjnr: You are totally WRONG! histemple is absolutely right! And please....don't try to argue with me. I have worked with the Institute of Human Virology Nigeria (IHVN) before. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by doubleexplorer: 11:22pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Love conquers all. Conquer this too. Go ahead and marry another woman. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Seyefunmi231(m): 11:22pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Aja 4. Gbera |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by TS2(m): 11:22pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
fadjnr: It is slimmer. Accept knowledge. We learn daily. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by AuroraB(f): 11:22pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout:*clearsthroat* ![]() I have no comment ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Olabestonic001(m): 11:24pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
[quote author=NICOGRAVITY post=46733372][/quote] So, its about her self-worth, self-esteem and all about her. What about the marriage about to be built on gross manipulation? What about deceit and such. Let's just state it here; she's manipulative and only ensured she boxed to a corner before showing her case. If op marry that girl, they'll have a lot of pains that all of us here will pity them on. True love is pure. Any time someone tries to use deceit or manipulation in marriage, I always advice the other part to RUN! I've seen people marry people with terminal diseases, but the spouse always knew way ahead. A woman that can do that to the op will not hesitate to kill him on the day she wishes to. 1 Like |
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