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Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by SUPOL(m): 11:25pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
avicky:My guy is playing table tennis with HIV. E be like say dat disease no get power again. E no dey kill again? 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by ALAYORMII: 11:25pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Beremx: What of people on Nairaland that he has told ![]() Do you think one day there won't be someone who knows the face behind the moniker Gasout ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by DedeNkem: 11:26pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout: Good you use protection. Yes, as long as you use protection it's ok to marry her. Time has gone when HIV was a death sentence. As long as your woman has effective antiretroviral treatment, she will live a healthy and productive life. You two can still have hiv-free kids. Check the following links for more info; - https://aidsinfo.nih.gov/education-materials/fact-sheets/24/71/preventing-mother-to-child-transmission-of-hiv-after-birth - https://www.poz.com/basics/hiv-basics/hiv-family-planning So as you admitted she possesses all the qualities you want in a woman, you've no gejuine reason to end the relationship. You should be very happy she told you about it before any marriage takes place. That's a great attitude! |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Manamax(m): 11:26pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
When people seek for advice most times everybody will raise their opinion but you will be the person to take the final decision.. I'm sure you know all these things they are telling you but the fact remains that you're confused on taking the appropriate decision. My candid advice is that you should do what you feel that is good to you.. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by perryy(m): 11:28pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
avicky: What are u even saying? Do you know your status? I know girls like you have unprotected sex every time. Mtcheeeeew. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Wowzer(m): 11:29pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
I had rather write her off and ignore the cost..then roll off without remorse. Failure to disclose her status from the start is Deception which is appalling and evil. 1. Aggravated sexual assault with intent. (Grievous Bodily Harm.GBH). 2. Criminal Transmission of HIV. 3. Felony. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Airoflaw(m): 11:29pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
SUPOL:u mean Edo or calabar |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Airoflaw(m): 11:29pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
SUPOL:u mean Edo or calabar.lol |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by xtzBestie(m): 11:31pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
For me I 4 run 440m.. I can't advice you to go and marry HIV+ but remember if you marry her you,your wife and your children will be HIV+ even your grand or great grand children's.... that one no be love foo... |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by ibknaanii(m): 11:32pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
No HIV patients on this trend will make same confession as dis lady in question, not after reading the comments. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by avicky(f): 11:32pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
perryy:Ferme ta bouche there. Are you the op? Did I quote you? I am entitled to my opinion. Go and ask Ifa for my status. Oderinde |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Nobody: 11:33pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
4 mai chur, if her case is confirmed +ve. The marriage committee would jxt bak off. OYO tinz b dat Oooooo! |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by xtzBestie(m): 11:34pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
HIV no b malaria or fever...no carry am day play ol |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Raypawer(m): 11:34pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Most Childish response so far, better grow up! carmag: |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by vanhayor(m): 11:34pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Hiv nd aids has cure already Its called viracomb....take 750mg for hiv nd 1500mg cures aids....am nt telling u to marry her oooo D choice is urs |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by comradeson: 11:35pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
fadjnr: Men!!! I dey reason ur statement oh... |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by avicky(f): 11:36pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
SUPOL:It has become malaria. If the girl truly loves him, she should have told him from the beginning. If he wants you, he will stay irrespective of ur status. Deception is evil. And one perilous perryy is quoting me. All these small boys on Nl sef. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by kingthreat(m): 11:38pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
eyinjuege: You should read this scientific article. http://www.catie.ca/en/pif/summer-2012/putting-number-it-risk-exposure-hiv |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by SUPOL(m): 11:38pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Airoflaw:Hahahaha, I no mention name oo |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by SUPOL(m): 11:40pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
avicky:Lolz, imagine d konkonbility(in olamides voice) Bur swiddy, wetin be "ferme ta boucha"? Are u from Sierra leon? |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Bluffly: 11:40pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
eyinjuege:I think, matrimonial style is the one that reduces the risk for the male but if the female is on top, taa no risk reduction, every na same same. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by akinremedy(m): 11:41pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
i will not advice a break up that will give her heartbreak. I advice u guys talk about it and mutually consent to a breakup if eventually u don't wanna continue with the marriage. Breaking her heart will put we guys out here at risk cos she'll go out on a vengeance mission to infect us free of charge! lol. Anyways, think wisely and deeply. May Almighty God lead u through.... |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by avicky(f): 11:43pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
SUPOL: ![]() |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by afroditte(f): 11:43pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
sweetcocoa:na una dey carry around and cause all the stigma attached to HIV carrying people. They are people like you and me, they live longer than even healthy people. Ask Magic Johnson. It can be managed, they go on to have families. Pls educate yourself. HIV is not a death sentence. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Blessed4al(m): 11:43pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
I think you should stick with your pastor's advice, and also pray to God for guidance. I believe he will definitely help you out. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by obaao(m): 11:44pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout: |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by avicky(f): 11:44pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
SUPOL:Nah. That's French meaning shut your mouth. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by godswilld10(m): 11:45pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
she might be testing u,anything can happen |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by SUPOL(m): 11:46pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
avicky:Oh great, I can sleep now. Av learnt something new |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Nobody: 11:46pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Ow can u b in relationship without goin for test to know each other's status, there is no doubt u v been straffin her, jus pray u not positive after 3 month test |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by ikutonpakuje(m): 11:48pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
she may be testin u |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by avicky(f): 11:49pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
afroditte:Yes, it is not a death sentence and we should not stigmatize. But do they tell them to inflict others without revealing their status? What makes her think the guy wouldn't marry her even with her status? Why the deception? If my eyes are not deceiving me, I think op said they had protected sex once. I don't think anyone will crucify the lady in question. I'm not but I do not support her deceitful actions. It's very expensive. And is this what you call love.? What advice would you give your brother if he were in op's shoes ![]() |
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