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Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by mecussey(m): 11:49pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
histemple: No its not right to pull someones leg with death threat, you have to consider the health of ur ofsprings. I will politely tell her the level of the prank if thats the case, and explain to her why we should make sure that it is safe to get married and make good babies. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by avicky(f): 11:50pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
SUPOL:Sure. Bonne nuit. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by asodeboyede(m): 11:51pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
eyinjuege: I think he is right. a friend once had a positive girlfriend and scaled through every test as negative.... but the thoughts of being positive nearly killed him though.... |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by 6fit(f): 11:52pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
If u hav been having unprotected sex, sorry just acept yur new status and marry her else, run faster than yur shadow..........NL pls note dis guy oh, he may b a mobile HIV carrier |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by SUPOL(m): 11:52pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
avicky:mercy( no b d football player o) |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Sunnynwa: 11:54pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
histemple: Why are you spreading ignorance? |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by avicky(f): 11:54pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
SUPOL:I understand. It's 'merci' |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by AgroPro: 11:54pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout: Brother I beg. Use your brain...ditch this woman asap. Don't carry someone else's wahala 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Gasout(m): 11:54pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Yes! What's wrong with eipreel: |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by PrivateInvestig: 11:57pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout: She's lying, just testing u.if she garrit she won't tell u. Some men too mumu |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by kchaste(m): 11:58pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Gasout: Sure you can marry her. It has been proven medically that you both can be married and even ve kids who will be hiv negative. You inclusive. Love conquers all bro. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by ladyF(f): 12:00am On Jun 20, 2016 |
All of you saying she should have told him, you think it's easy abi? Some people would just prefer to keep their issues to themselves. Does she have to go around telling everyone she dates she is HIV positive, considering they are only dating. If they have a bitter break up now, the guy will go and start broadcasting her status upandan. I do not blame the lady, she did what's best for her. If he can't handle it, lover boy can take a walk. ![]() Say NO to HIV stigmatisation, you guys here are even part of the problem sef. 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by SUPOL(m): 12:00am On Jun 20, 2016 |
avicky:Auvour(dnt no wat am saying) |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Seunnzy(m): 12:02am On Jun 20, 2016 |
histemple:SLIM or SLIMMER they r same.as for the OP,in Ade's voice ''RUN'' |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Miles02: 12:02am On Jun 20, 2016 |
Reading all these comments and I am wondering, does the Department of Health teaches about HIV/ AIDS in Nigeria? Y'all are sooo ignorant and to even advisebthe poster to run for his life is the exact same reason her fiancee kept it to herself! HIV/AIDS is manageable and not a death sentence but the problem is magnifying and stigmatising it! Ask any cancer patient what sickness would they would chose if they were given a chance to choose between HIV and Cancer.. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by eyinjuege: 12:05am On Jun 20, 2016 |
kingthreat: Nice read. But do remember that statistics differ in both developed and developing countries. Got something for you too. http://mobile.aidsmap.com/HIV-risk-levels-for-the-insertive-and-receptive-partner-in-different-types-of-sexual-intercourse/page/1443490 |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by yinkslinks(m): 12:05am On Jun 20, 2016 |
I know you met this lady on NL ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Gasout: |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by tosyne09: 12:05am On Jun 20, 2016 |
just try and find out first before taking decision. good luck |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by doe: 12:06am On Jun 20, 2016 |
Ignorance litter this thread. A little read will tell you the treatments in place do suppress the virus to undetectable levels. Hence Hiv+ people are having negative children and not passing the virus to their partner. If the OP is not just making up the story then i will suggest you seek advice from a doctor or a relevant NGO to give you good advice. No reason why you and your girlfriend cannot live a long fulfilled life. Last time i checked Magic Johnson was still alive and Married to his HIV- wife. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by josef1(m): 12:07am On Jun 20, 2016 |
[quote author=feldido post=46705256]The babe de try one trick she learn from Nollywood on you bro ![]() |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by avicky(f): 12:07am On Jun 20, 2016 |
SUPOL:Au'revoir. It means good bye. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by onagoodday: 12:08am On Jun 20, 2016 |
fadjnr:Listen to histemple, that is d voice of reasoning , he is 200% correct. I have seen a man with four kids, 2 positive and 2 negative n d man himself negative. Try n visit a heart to centre, over 80% of cases are women. You wanna y, then re read histemple's comment |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Iriruaga100(m): 12:09am On Jun 20, 2016 |
Op, I hope u dnt give her a head during d protected sex u had with her? I just pray u never did. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Maski87: 12:12am On Jun 20, 2016 |
Dude she doesn't want to marry you Ask her to show video evidence ,anyway you have been shinning the Congo anyway hiv or not |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by onagoodday: 12:13am On Jun 20, 2016 |
Sunnynwa:How Is he spreading ignorance ![]() |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by slysteel: 12:14am On Jun 20, 2016 |
eyinjuege:The guy actually said the truth but that doesn't mean men don't contact it,its usually through tears and friction unlike women who can contact through these means and also through semen (pre-cum or sperm) |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Nuella222(f): 12:15am On Jun 20, 2016 |
By the way hav u asked urself how u gonna make babies if u marry this girl ![]() ![]() ![]() ...Rah mirah kii! |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by ceaser: 12:15am On Jun 20, 2016 |
Gasout: ... And unprotected s3x house many times? ![]() And to the poster earlier contending with the information on the higher chances of the female getting the virus than the male from 53xual intercourse, please you are wrong. Females have a higher chance of getting the virus from males per s3xual encounter simply because of the reason earlier posited by the respondent. However the infectivity for both genders is also increased with the presence of ulcers (wounds) in the genital area because infected fluid readily passes thru the broken skin barrier into the body. Hence the emphasis on treatment of any existing genital diseases, especially GUDx to reduce the infectivity of the disease. For the same reason of the GUDx, even the use of condoms isn't 100% fool proof. The latex covers only a part of the penile shaft. If an ulver exists beyond the margin reached by the latex and the fluid from the female gets on it, chances are that viral transmission occur. Also the viral load in the serum als plays some role in the ability of an individual to infect others. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by DICKtator: 12:16am On Jun 20, 2016 |
histemple: You are very silly!!!! Why did you type the above before me? Is it because you have light and fast internet connection? Don't worry, Minister of Darkness , His Honourable Fashola would soon visit your community soon to disconnect your light and the Minister of Communication would soon disconnect your internet!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by histemple: 12:16am On Jun 20, 2016 |
Sunnynwa: If you don't know how to make your contributions without being rude, please don't quote me again. Thank you. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by ceaser: 12:19am On Jun 20, 2016 |
Nuella222: They can make babies. They only need to inform their doctor when they are ready and they will be provided with the various options available to conceive with minimal or no chances of getting whoever is free of the virus infected. At other periods however, they are to use protection. That's where the couples may have problem cos no man enjoys using condom at every instance with his legally married wife. |
Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by histemple: 12:21am On Jun 20, 2016 |
DICKtator: When our able president's newly fixed ear starts working fully, I will call to tell him how you have insulted me. |
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