S£x is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy .The hookup culture in modern society makes it look like S£x is the best way to finding the right one.

This has totally damaged the dating culture in out society because relationships are now more focused on S£xual intimacy than emotional intimacy.
Women tend to disregard emotional intimacy which includes sharing each other’s experiences, opinions and feelings and would feel guilty about not jumping into bed too soon with a guy they like.

As much as physical intimacy is important, there’s always a reward for waiting. Inspired by YourTango, here are three things to consider before having S£x with your partner.


1. Are you both interested in staying together in long-term commitment:
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The only thing to consider is: can you leave IMMEDIATELY after it is finished?
You need car, bike, whatever. Once you are finished, leave and never talk to them again. Otherwise, your heart breaking is your own fault.

The guy who is bleeping your girlfriend is not considering that and the girl doesnt care. So, why should I?

foolinlove:
The only thing to consider is: can you leave IMMEDIATELY after it is finished?
You need car, bike, whatever. Once you are finished, leave and never talk to them again. Otherwise, your heart breaking is your own fault.

you poor thing ...

toyeoye:


you poor thing ...

Y?

foolinlove:

Y?

you sound like uve lost all hope in humanity

toyeoye:


you sound like uve lost all hope in humanity

Not in humanity. Just men. I'm not a lesbian, I just hate men.

foolinlove:


Not in humanity. Just men. I'm not a lesbian, I just hate men.

lol hehehe e no go better for the guy or guys wey break ur heart like dis ooo



which in most case its your fault.....

foolinlove:


Not in humanity. Just men. I'm not a lesbian, I just hate men.

hmmmm....u hate men outside ur family or in general u hate men including those within ur entire immediate and external family

hmmm can't really say sha! take me for instance had sex with my current bf 2 days after we met
its been 3years plus now and we are still together

foolinlove:


Not in humanity. Just men. I'm not a lesbian, I just hate men.

Life is like a coin...you can view one side, but never forget it has another side. No one is justified or above mistakes.

While you hate on men for the actions of one/several, someone somewhere is hating on all women for the actions of one/several.

Truth is...no one knows the future, else we would be with the person with the best of character. But life's lessons we get from relationships are learnt by paying attention to every relationship, and understanding every situation.

Know what you want in a person and seek that character in a person. Pretense in people can't hide forever. So, do not look for beauty cz that fades and leaves you with an empty shell of what you wished could have been.

curvysola:
hmmm can't really say sha! take me for instance had sex with my current bf 2 days after we met
its been 3years plus now and we are still together

Hmmmmm

foolinlove:

Not in humanity. Just men. I'm not a lesbian, I just hate men.

you are still growing. When you're growfully, life become's clear to you.

Dandeson1:
lol hehehe e no go better for the guy or guys wey break ur heart like dis ooo



which in most case its your fault.....

Dude I'm not a mind reader and I can't see future. When a guy say "I love u, never do anything to hurt you, I will never cheat you"... and I stupidly trust. Yeah, my fault. Not the guys fault for lying and cheating.

It's just stupidity. Men behave like animals with no self control... then blame women for their behaviour?

How can anyone expect to be respected when men say they are in control, but then have no control over themselves?

So I will just hedge my bets. Men are cheaters. I'm no lesbian, but to avoid pain I will avoid men. It's that simple.

foolinlove:
It's just stupidity. Men behave like animals with no self control... then blame women for their behaviour?

How can anyone expect to be respected when men say they are in control, but then have no control over themselves?

So I will just hedge my bets. Men are cheaters. I'm no lesbian, but to avoid pain I will avoid men. It's that simple.

My dear, can u just stop your hate for men? What's even the problem with you, your emotional outburst is second to none which is really bad...guess u have been treated bad before, well your not the first and won't be the last. Calling opposite names will not solve the issue on ground, irrespective of the experience u had with guys you just have to dust yourself up don't let it bring you down

foolinlove:


Dude I'm not a mind reader and I can't see future. When a guy say "I love u, never do anything to hurt you, I will never cheat you"... and I stupidly trust. Yeah, my fault. Not the guys fault for lying and cheating.

its alryt, i do understand, people can be cruel most times tho, what state are you in?

curvysola:
hmmm can't really say sha! take me for instance had sex with my current bf 2 days after we met
its been 3years plus now and we are still together

l can see that you are new here. I suggest you do something about this post of yours cos trust me, 5 months from now you are gon regret posting it.
#nairalanddoesnotforget

Why must you have sex?